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Blackpill Inceldom and porn addiction

I can relate to this one! The question is if pornography is the cause for being an Incel or if it is just one factor of many contributing to being involuntary celibate. Regardless of how to answer this question, Im convinced that porn is a liability for everyones mental health and in some cases even physical health. It corrupts the soul and undermines confidence and social skills. Yet I find myself unable to quit, as you have pointed out so well, because its my only opportunity to experience some kind of sexuality. Its really a diabolic cycle. I hope that I can stay away from porn and masturbation for 90 days for once, just to see how my life would change then, but I can hardly make it to 15 or 20 days without finding myself edging again.
 
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I'm ok with some addictions.
I mean, if I hadn't porn and alcohol life would be even harder for me to manage imo.
Shit keeps me alive while I don't have better options.
 
Maybe its his only chance at ascension
Yeah I highly doubt that. You think this nigga has landwhales hitting him up to fuck?

@Languishingrn thoughts? Is this the case?
 
Yeah I highly doubt that. You think this nigga has landwhales hitting him up to fuck?

@Languishingrn thoughts? Is this the case?
At the moment, yes. Unless if I manage to JBWmaxx but there aren’t many noodles where I live, saw one after a day of swiping.
 
At the moment, yes. Unless if I manage to JBWmaxx but there aren’t many noodles where I live, saw one after a day of swiping.
So you do have landwhales who are DTF?
 
Have you tried your luck and messaged any of them?
All of them, end up getting ignored after the first message.

I’m scared to fraud my pics too much, I’m really tempted to morph my face more wide. I don’t know how far I can push it before I become a different person.
 
All of them, end up getting ignored after the first message.
Why do bitches even match if they don’t even plan on replying to you? What’s the point of willingly subjecting yourself to this shit? You realize most of them only use tinder for easy validation with no intention of hooking up right (maybe unless you’re chad)
I’m scared to fraud my pics too much, I’m really tempted to morph my face more wide. I don’t know how far I can push it before I become a different person.
Nigga was using morphed pics too :feelskek:

Bro what you’re doing is fucking stupid. I really don’t see the point of trying to give yourself a landwhale fetish if you can’t even get one to simply reply to you. Being attracted to landwhales is unironically a low IQ/nigger/soycuck trait. IT’S A BAD THING THAT YOU DON’T WANT. Especially not for a moronic reason like that. Stop being a slave you utter cuck
 
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>believing in "healthy sexual experimentation"
>masturbating not to satisfy libido and have pleasure
>thinking that meeting physiological needs is degeneracy
No wonder you have so low self-esteem, this belief is completely justified. Don't mark it as blackpill, it's hateful anti-incel propaganda gaslighting us into thinking we're to blame for our failures, not our genes and nature forcing women to desire only handsome men so we're treated like shit and so end with mental issues.
nAtUrE fOrCeS wOmEn To OnLy dEsIrE hAnDsOmE mEn! :soy: :redpill:
 
I edited it because it might be misunderstood as saving them from responsibility, but it's truth. Nature is malfunctioning and women are programmed to it and no miracle ideology will destroy their WORKING AS INTENDED (so not "unhealthy") instincts, they can be only hidden, but it's only closing eyes to still existing problem.
Gay, cringe, cope, and wrong
 
I can quit anytime I want
 
There are many types of addicts. Some are addicted to drugs, while others prefer alcohol. I, on the other hand, am addicted to pornography.

How does this relate to inceldom, you might ask? In order to answer that, you have to ask yourselves what sort of factors lead to addiction in the first place. According to this study conducted in 2014, loneliness and mental health issues are a risk factor when it comes to substance abuse.


Another study (shown here) finds a connection between dugs and mental illness.


While this post is primarily about porn addiction, the reason why I am using drugs as an example is because both are relatively similar in the effect they have on your brain.


"The review leads to the conclusion that Internet pornography addiction fits into the addiction framework and shares similar basic mechanisms with SUBSTANCE ADDICTION."

One of the primary reasons why drugs are so addictive is because they interfere with your natural dopamine receptors. If you didn't know, dopamine is a neurotransmitter who's purpose is to reward you with feelings of "pleasure" and "contentment" whenever you fulfil a biological impulse such as eating, having sex, etc. However, both porn AND drugs mess with these natural receptors, providing us with an artificial "high" despite the fact that we haven't done anything to earn it. This causes our primitive lizard brains to associate drugs and porn with "feeling good" and seek those things out more and more.

In the case of porn, we jerk off so much to the point where our dopamine receptors become "numb" which is why porn addicts often seek out increasingly extreme material in order to recreate that first "high"

Below is a graph that compares porn consumption to the usage of heroin.

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As incels, we are pretty much forced to rely on pornography in order to cope. It's why so many guys here possess some rather niche fetishes, (feet, rape, loli, etc) because your average incel started watching porn at around 13 (or even younger) and never had the opportunity to develop healthy sexual behaviors. While our peers were at least interacting with the opposite sex on a daily basis, we sat at home browsing sites such as xhamster and paheal.net in order to fill that void. This is why the teenlovepill is so important, because instead of being raised by experience through healthy sexual experimentation, we were raised by porn.

Whenever I find myself haunted by my failures and unable to fall asleep, what do I do? I masturbate. Whenever I find myself feeling feeling lonely and in desire of a girlfriend, what do I do? I masturbate. Whenever I find myself anxious, stressed, or unable to cope with something, what do I do? I masturbate. I've turned masturbation into a natural antidepressant because it's the only way I can truly "detach" myself from reality and put all of those negative thoughts at bay. In that temporary moment ecstasy, it doesn't matter—none of it does. It doesn't matter that I'm a 22 year old KHHV, it doesn't matter that society is a whole is getting worse and worse, (increase in hookup culture, market inflation, declining family values, etc) NOTHING. All that matters is the pleasure that I am currently experiencing. In my case, this is another reason why I've been getting off to more "extreme" material, because it's just another way to numb the pain. In the past, I used to jerk off to the thought of having a loving girlfriend, (the usual bluepilled crap you see everywhere) but now there are times where I need to look at hardcore BDSM where the girl is crying in order to get my rocks off. I've reached a point where being in a loving relationship is something completely alien to me, and all of that love" has been replaced by uncontrollable anger.

In truth, I absolutely loathe what I've become. I don't want to be a porn addicted degenerate anymore. But unfortunately, it's all I have anymore to keep me from going insane. If there was just ONE girl on this entire planet who who wasn't a whore and willing to give me a chance, I would quit porn altogether. (I'd imagine many of you guys would as well) Would it be an incredibly difficult thing to do? Yes. However, I would DEFINITELY feel motivated enough to try.

In conclusion, the reason why so many of us are addicted to porn is because it's our only way to cope with the fact that we lack something as basic as emotional and sexual intimacy. :blackpill:
In other words. Most of us are beyond repair. Even if some of them have normie tier looks, that's meaningless without game. Game that didn't have because they weren't enough handsome to earn confidence/experience during teenage years.
 
porn gets boring (still addicted tho)
 
A good looking guy can experience all the negative effects of over-masturbation and porn addiction and still have sex and get offered sex. However, average to below average men hell no. Similarly, stopping porn won’t make women flock to you because that’s not why they avoid you. It’s simply a matter of looks. Furthermore, let’s consider porn does prevent you from having healthy sexual relationships. Then the most logical thing would be to stop it for good and develop a healthy relationship for it or avoid it forever. Personally, I never want to watch it again since it has consumed my entire life.
 
if most males actually had dating options, porn usage wouldnt even be a thing. Females see most males as genetically inferior, so most males have near zero sexual value and have little to no opportunities to have sex.
 
What's cope? That women are whores by nature and they won't authentically desire and engage in sex with an incel no matter how long he does these unfunny nofaps (reddit thing, but people here are somehow oblivious in this matter) and if there's feminism movement just because he's ugly and their instincts tell them he's living trash? They may suppress their behaviour, but it's like a psychopath pretending to be a caring, empathetic man, and I doubt you'd feel well interacting with such fake people unless you care only about appearances and like to be shocked when the appearances break someday.

this is similar to my post and is mostly what I’m saying. A lot of men on this forum need to understand that stopping porn won’t solve all their problems; however it may help.
 
am I an aberration? I've been a porn addict since god knows when with multiple attempts at abstinence and perpetual relapses yet I'm not really into any weird shit. if the bitch is hot, I rub one off :feelskek:
 
I’m addicted to porn,drugs, alcohol

Can’t go a day without fapping
 

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