
Michael15651
Destined Virgin.
★★★★★
- Joined
- Nov 4, 2018
- Posts
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There definitely needs to be a balance. Don’t let this site become your personality.
When I used to be in the top 3 postmaxers, I would be in my room most of the day. Too agoraphobic to go out, had no life experience, and had no career. All I did was spend 6+ hours on this site postmaxing and playing video games.
Once I got permanently banned, it gave me a break from this site. Within that time frame, I’ve built social skills, kick started a career, no longer have anxiety, and got my first house at 20 years old. I’ve made plenty of mistakes as well, (that I’m still paying for), but I’ve learned from them and came out stronger.
Sure, I didn’t get laid. But I also didn’t spend the next 5 years in my room on this site getting nowhere.
TLDR: It’s good to be cautious and aware while also not letting it dictate your life.
When I used to be in the top 3 postmaxers, I would be in my room most of the day. Too agoraphobic to go out, had no life experience, and had no career. All I did was spend 6+ hours on this site postmaxing and playing video games.
Once I got permanently banned, it gave me a break from this site. Within that time frame, I’ve built social skills, kick started a career, no longer have anxiety, and got my first house at 20 years old. I’ve made plenty of mistakes as well, (that I’m still paying for), but I’ve learned from them and came out stronger.
Sure, I didn’t get laid. But I also didn’t spend the next 5 years in my room on this site getting nowhere.
TLDR: It’s good to be cautious and aware while also not letting it dictate your life.