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Blackpill Incel trait: Your dad never taught you anything or gave you life lessons

thespanishcel

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I realized now and fuck it's sad when I think about it. From what normies say a dad has to be a role model and he's supposed to teach you how not to be a pushover, how to express your emotions, how to talk to a foid, manual labor, etc. To sum up how to be a man.

Well when I think about it my dad never taught me anything like that. He helped me a lot in other stuff like expenses (which I'm very grateful because otherwise I'd be even more fucked) or giving me lifts when I couldn't drive but he never taught me to man up or life lessons. He was probably too busy working and just forgot. The most similar thing is when he taught me the basics of driving when I still couldn't get a license. He's very disconnected from the modern dating scene and always tells me "just install tinder son" thinking it's like facebook marketplace and you can choose foids freely kek.

This honestly makes me very sad and angry at the same time and it makes me realize more why my personality is the way it is and how much I missed. And it double pisses me off I realized on Christmas :feelsree: Probably redpill grifters are right if your dad wasn't a role model you'll be a beta when you're older.
 
my dad taught me that only sex matters since that's the only thing he talked about
 
My dad taught me how to get hit
 
My dad used to lie down and sleep on the sofa all day.
 
My dad is dead, miss him, he was a good one
 
My dad left when I was born, so yeah.
 
Yup I told him it's not that simple she has to like you back and with so many male profiles they are very picky. But he says I'm exaggerating and I have to keep trying :lul:
 
Yup I told him it's not that simple she has to like you back and with so many male profiles they are very picky. But he says I'm exaggerating and I have to keep trying :lul:
Lmao, i mean it was way easier for them back then, so ofc they would think so
They only had to compete locally, we are competing with the whole world cause of the internet
 
my dad is clueless
 
Extremely relatable, my father is an alcoholic loser who lost his virginity in his early 30s to my already divorced (with kids), obese mother.
LOL, I have just realized that I beat him in this, I lost it to a semi-attractive escort at the age of 28.
As much as a boy needs valuable life lesson from his father (or at least someone acting as a father figure if the father is absent, like an uncle or an older brother or something) in order not to end up as a loser in life, I think this was a completely unrealistic expectation to my father.

I mean, what could he have taught me?
Son, study hard, wageslave a lot, and if you are really lucky, and you can withhold the urge to vomit, and you can convince your dick to get hard for foids as unattractive as you are or even worse, you can lose the remainder or your pride and your will to live by committing yourself to a hairy landwhale whose kids you also have to support.

He should've realized his own genetic and mental inferiority by his mid 20s the latest and he never should have reproduced (even though my sister ended up a Becky).
Well, it is up to me to correct his mistake.
 
My dad is an escortmaxxing, weed smoking, porn addicted idiot. And he's a manlet. I feel like more of a man than he is. When we talk he doesn't have anything to say. He's such a pathetic coper who still thinks money is the most important thing to get a woman. And he wonders why he's been single since my mother left in 2006.

He doesn't even know how old I am, when my bday is or what school or university I went to back in the day.
 
My dad’s a weak cuck
 
My father was quite abbusive in my youth. He would physically punish me for the smallest mistakes.
Also, whenever he called me over to "teach me" some man stuff, he'd be very impatient about it and scream, rage, insult and bully me.

Like for example, when I held a screwdriver "the wrong way" and I was just shaking, trying to do it right, but he woudl again loose it, grab that tool out of my hand and demonstrate to me how it's done, all the while screaming and insulting me, telling me what a useless idiot I was.

So, pretty much everything I know today I have either learned from other men, using youtube, figured out myself or got tought my collegues at work.

I actually hate my father, just don't show him that and wait patiently until he dies so this chapter of my life can finally be closed.
It will be liberating.
 
My dad taught me basic right and wrong but he's also a kind of a simp.
 

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