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It's Over Incel trait: You can't sell yourself

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I know it hasn't been long but I've been looking for a job the past 2 months and people are constantly shitting on my resume and telling me to improve it or elaborate on my skillset. I DON'T HAVE A SKILLSET! WTF! JUST GIVE ME THE DAM JOB!!
I took my resume to a HR specialist and they told me it was fine but job after job keeps refusing me and then the stupid bitch HR specialist tells me I should lie on my resume and make things up. This is already after I padded my resume with listing every single fucking thing I could think of that I do. Just shows me she didn't even care to look at it the first time.

But this inability to sell myself doesn't stop just at job hunting. I've been thinking and it's been a thing all my life:
-Unable to sell myself to the boys team that I was a good, or at least competent, player and would often get picked last or get picked for the girls team (yes there were plenty of times in my youth where I would play volleyball or basketball with the girls because the boys wouldn't let me play with them)
-Unable to sell myself to any girls growing up so that they would date me. Literally never been on even one fucking date and 40 is approaching fast. I'm pathetic
-Unable to sell myself to a "good" college or university and just went with the college that literally takes everyone as long as you have the money
-Unable to sell myself to even my current employers (at the time) where promotions or raises would always be given to someone else even if I have been working longer
-Unable to sell myself to anybody past elementary school in being my friend
-Unable to sell myself and get any help in school in regards to school projects. If I wasn't mandatory assigned a group (which was rare) I would always end up doing the project alone and taking hits off my overall score

I just feel a lot of us incels just lack that "thing" that makes people buy our bullshit. The whole notion of "fake it til you make it" would never work for us because people can see through us a mile away and steer clear of ever having to deal with us. I just hate the constant inability to give a dam that people have in regards to working or dealing with me in all capacities.
Sorry for the rant I just hate being incel :feelsmage:
 
Life is about a never-ending race or struggle where you always have to be ready to impress people.
And their bar has been raised so high lately, that it's very hard.
You're right, it's not just about dating.
 
Yes this hits me hard
 
At least you understand the problem.
 
autistcels and most incels are too honest for such social games.

tbh selling yourself is very similar to jestermaxxing so good on you for not simping for approval
 
Yeah I suck at selling myself too. People always get the impression I'm a clumsy idiot.
 

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