Nice its hard to find guys who like discussing deep stuff. Most smart guys are bluepilled beta males with all the right feel good beliefs. Anytime a conversation goes deep and towards any truths they start getting uncomfortable and try to change the subject or argue every part of every point.
For me women always leave wherever I go, its beyond looks, over time I think looks is just the beginning of their hatred of me.
Your Chad friend faced a dilemma, to go out with those girls he would have to leave you behind. Because girls will not be seen in public with a low status male. Girls are so ultra ego driven, they always think everyone is watching them and judging everything about them. Reality is no one in the club would even know who the fuck they are. But the girl would be very self conscious if say she sat down at a table and you were at it.