Blackpill Incel trait: You always have to put great effort in maintaining your "friendships"

[blackpillforever]

In order to have conversations you always have to initiate every interaction with them, and try to carry the conversations. Once you stop initiating the conversations they'll never talk to you again, because they don't want to put effort in maintaining the friendship. I used to have some "friends" but once I stopped initiating everything I never talked to them again, I guess they weren't really my friends. It's just so tiring, I might be better off alone so I don't have to deal with that shit.

 

[Animecel2D]

I have no friendships to maintain

 

[Kerrigan Skelly]

I have no friendships to maintain

you prolly jst give bad vibes no flicckity split ong

 

[Animecel2D]

you prolly jst give bad vibes no flicckity split ong

 

[Kerrigan Skelly]

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noooo not the heccin snowmanerinoo

 

[_meh]

Likely they have other friends as well, so it just becomes pointless.

 

[Stupid Clown]

I don't blame them for ghosting me. I'm very low energy and boring.

 

[_meh]

They care more about their other friends than you.

So why should you put in the effort? It was likely never mutual then.

I suppose it's up to the individual if they want to maintain the friendship.

 

[_meh]

Perhaps some are afraid of losing friends because behind that, there's an empty black hole that you could possibly never make friends again.

But then again, it's also their choice/decision to cut you off any time (which can happen or can be inevitable).

You can put in a lot of effort, but then they'll just use you like a used toy and throw you into the dirt.

 

[_meh]

Friendships should be effortless, if you're going to have friends.

 

[blackpillforever]

They care more about their other friends than you.

So why should you put in the effort? It was likely never mutual then.

I suppose it's up to the individual if they want to maintain the friendship.

It feels like my only options are either to never have friends and never be able to talk to people again, or to continue putting effort in so I can have social interactions. I hate feeling like I'm inferior but being lonely feels bad.

 

[_meh]

It feels like my only options are either to never have friends again and never be able to talk to people again, or to continue putting effort in so I can have social interactions. I hate feeling like I'm inferior but being lonely feels bad.

Probably maintain them, but put less effort than before.

 

[Sungnodius]

Can relate, but you do need to show interest in a friendship.

 

[moggedbyjsanza]

Because a person's social network is like a tree, you're just a dead end leaf with no value, eventually you fall off and are replaced with someone else disposable.

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

I don't have friends

 

[outerdarkness]

I don't have friends

 

[Cincel]

Gigatruecel trait: you have no friends

 

[UglyDumbass]

In order to have conversations you always have to initiate every interaction with them, and try to carry the conversations. Once you stop initiating the conversations they'll never talk to you again, because they don't want to put effort in maintaining the friendship. I used to have some "friends" but once I stopped initiating everything I never talked to them again, I guess they weren't really my friends. It's just so tiring, I might be better off alone so I don't have to deal with that shit.

i still sometimes chat with some sperg friends online but we barely talk anymore since school has ended

 

[incel20]

imagine having friends in 2025. Fakecels.is

 

[Ahnfeltia]

I've known those kinds of people. Luckily I have friends who ain't like that.