Discussion Incel trait: when/if you talk to people, you come across as blunt or rude

[andinocel]

It happened to me today. I won't say exactly what I said, because it's very specific and it might doxx me, but I said it to a girl. It was a genuine question, but she was silent for about 10 seconds before she answered. Other times I have been told I'm blunt and rude. Back to the situation with the girl, I might get reprimanded or maybe even fired. It's been a shitty week so far

 

[minecraftcel]

I have a low monotone voice so I get that a lot from my parents, but from people at my school, they just think I'm an emotionless robot, which tbh isn't far from the truth.

 

[StemmaxxSEAcurrycel]

If ur ugly automatically women associate negative emotions towards u.

 

[andinocel]

I have a low monotone voice so I get that a lot from my parents, but from people at my school, they just think I'm an emotionless robot, which tbh isn't far from the truth.

That too

If ur ugly automatically women associate negative emotions towards u.

Well, I don't disagree with that but guys have told me I'm rude also, and it's one of the reasons I have no friends

 

[WØLF]

It's probably because you speak with no emotion and/or sound uninterested

 

[minecraftcel]

That too


Well, I don't disagree with that but guys have told me I'm rude also, and it's one of the reasons I have no friends

are you being rude on purpose or is it just your tonality?

It's probably because you speak with no emotion and/or sound uninterested

that's me tbh

 

[AutisticMonstrosity]

This is autism trait.

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

I have been told I have a booming thunderous voice that intimidates people. That used with being blunt makes me seem like I'm constantly calling people out for their bullshit. It's over for me.

This is autism trait.

 

[Capable_Onion]

I just tell people how things are, and they somehow take it as me insulting them jfl

 

[andinocel]

are you being rude on purpose or is it just your tonality?

that's me tbh

No. I'm not being rude on purpose at all. I'll just answer things plainly, like a simple "no", or "that's wrong". One time I made a comment that a co-worker had a stupid, useless major and the two guys around me laughed. It's not intentional whatsoever

This is autism trait.

Yes, I'm aware of that possibility. I know autism is disproportionately high among incels. So far I have been undiagnosed

 

[rope2cope]

I used to do this all the time at my old wagecuck job I had before, normies are fucking weird they skirt around a issue. Like one time there was all the new promo posters in the back and one was about healthy eating and the lady on it was fat holding a salad and the normie co-workers were giggling at it tryna be nice but really they were mocking the fat nigger on the promo posters.

"hey anon haha look at this" (people would try mock me like that to put me on the spot)

I replied saying why is a fat women promoting healthy eating

"omg anon you can't say that wow, that's rude!"

jfl

 

[minecraftcel]

No. I'm not being rude on purpose at all. I'll just answer things plainly, like a simple "no", or "that's wrong". One time I made a comment that a co-worker had a stupid, useless major and the two guys around me laughed. It's not intentional whatsoever

gotcha for me it's just everything I say comes out like a robot who just had an existential crisis and nobody likes talking to me bc of it.

I used to do this all the time at my old wagecuck job I had before, normies are fucking weird they skirt around a issue. Like one time there was all the new promo posters in the back and one was about healthy eating and the lady on it was fat holding a salad and the normie co-workers were giggling at it tryna be nice but really they were mocking the fat nigger on the promo posters.

"hey anon haha look at this" (people would try mock me like that to put me on the spot)

I replied saying why is a fat women promoting healthy eating

"omg anon you can't say that wow, that's rude!"

jfl

u got some bluepilled coworkers

 

[andinocel]

I used to do this all the time at my old wagecuck job I had before, normies are fucking weird they skirt around a issue. Like one time there was all the new promo posters in the back and one was about healthy eating and the lady on it was fat holding a salad and the normie co-workers were giggling at it tryna be nice but really they were mocking the fat nigger on the promo posters.

"hey anon haha look at this" (people would try mock me like that to put me on the spot)

I replied saying why is a fat women promoting healthy eating

"omg anon you can't say that wow, that's rude!"

jfl

When trying to describe people, if they're fat, I'll say they are. Not always the actual word 'fat', but I'll say "a big person", "thick", or "round". People either giggle at that or go into an awkward silence. I don't get it though --- if you're fat, your're fat.

 

[Mainländer]

I only remember being called rude once in my life. I'm usually friendly with people.

 

[Deleted member 21218]

Incel trait: you have a low almost mumbly monotone voice and even your attempts to not have a robotic voice is still robotic

 

[ShadowTheEdgehog]

It happened to me today. I won't say exactly what I said, because it's very specific and it might doxx me, but I said it to a girl. It was a genuine question, but she was silent for about 10 seconds before she answered. Other times I have been told I'm blunt and rude. Back to the situation with the girl, I might get reprimanded or maybe even fired. It's been a shitty week so far

Relatable to a Degree.
I either talk way too fast or very monotone.
I have no idea how to modulate my voice in face to face conversation.

I am making it Sound worse than it is.
What I mean is that People will tell me to calm down or act as if I said something in an agitated tone when I think I didn't.

I also cant do Smalltalk.
But thats just me not giving a fuck About weather and hooters.

 

[PPEcel]

Incel trait: you don't talk to people

 

[Deleted member 27495]

too much effort to add emotion into my voice. I am an incel, theres literaly no point in giving a shit about anything except your own survival.

 

[Deleted member 29033]

This is autism trait.

I do this and I'm also autistic so yeah I agree.

 

[Deleted member 26884]

If ur ugly people automatically associate negative emotions towards u.

 

[Deleted member 27249]

Me but I'm a sperge

 

[happiless]

As blunt is an autist trait, which I don't have anymore due to years of forced social conditioning through bullying (I'm just a sperg now). Rude I agree with though, ugly = rude

 

[Transcended Trucel]

If ur ugly automatically women associate negative emotions towards u.