Incel trait: People straight up ignore you frequently

[WheelsofConfusion]

Example: you send a legitimate message to a “friend”. No response. And these people are on their phones 50% of the day. They simply see it’s from you and say “Nah fuck that”.

Or maybe you are having a “conversation” and you clearly don’t give a fuck what the other person is saying (because it’s BS). The person will ignore your obvious lack of response and keep firing away. Not saying that I’m being rude, just when people make repeated statements (non questions) that I have no comeback for.

 

[Guest2]

Those seem like two very contradictory examples

 

[WheelsofConfusion]

Those seem like two very contradictory examples

They do seem like that but the messages are legitimate whereas the conversation is full of one sided statements.

In the second example, the response of the person is ignored. In the first, the person (with a legitimate question) is ignored

 

[Cro magnon]

People sometimes ignore me because im a soft voice cel so no one even knows im speaking

 

[JestER]

Those seem like two very contradictory examples

This. Can understand and relate to the first paragraph, but not the second.

 

[WheelsofConfusion]

This. Can understand and relate to the first paragraph, but not the second.

It’s usually an older person who is telling me their life story and I simply run out of responses for them because I can’t relate

 

[TheSecondComing]

Those seem like two very contradictory examples

both situations have happened to me with the same person just at different times

 

[Deleted member 1042]

Sounds like your friends are narcissistic.

 

[Deleted member 18435]

Being easygoing sucks as an incel. That's how you get ignored for the most part in my experience. I'd rather people fear me. Less disrespect that way.

 

[WheelsofConfusion]

Sounds like your friends are narcissistic.

I genuinely think it has to do with biological factors like being a baby face framelet. It’s the same reason no woman would ever want to date me. If a baby faced framelet sends you a message you can ignore it because they are a low status person.

 

[FlyFace]

My family does this and it cores my soul. It is agonising to know that I cannot even express simple emotions to them.. even something like a political view is too much for their feeble NPC code.

 

[Deleted member 1042]

I genuinely think it has to do with biological factors like being a baby face framelet. It’s the same reason no woman would ever want to date me. If a baby faced framelet sends you a message you can ignore it because they are a low status person.

Ever since being black pilled ppl have responded a bit better to me. Blackpill just made me more curt in response. I leave ppl on read a lot. It’s weird when I treat ppl like shit they start sucking up to me. Redpill theory?

But yea. Im older than some ppl i hang with and because im framelet and younger looking they sorta treat me with less respect unless i show them up in something or remind them my age in a sort of low key way.

 

[WheelsofConfusion]

Ever since being black pilled ppl have responded a bit better to me. Blackpill just made me more curt in response. I leave ppl on read a lot. It’s weird when I treat ppl like shit they start sucking up to me. Redpill theory?

Shit maybe I need to try that. I’m very bitter on the inside but “nice guy” on the outside.

 

[Deleted member 1042]

Shit maybe I need to try that. I’m very bitter on the inside but “nice guy” on the outside.

It’s because of your helicopter parent. Shrinks would say it fucked your selfesteem and makes you needy (see: your attentiveness) for approval.

 

[Deleted member 20434]

Whenever someone ignores me and I catch them irl since I gym max I love to confront them and threaten them

 

[Dionysus]

i can relate tbh

 

[mcfroggy]

Whenever I'm forced into groups ppl always get a glazed look when I talk and they just turn to another person to talk to and I'm left to trail my sentence off. Fucking the most shame inducing thing.