Whenever NT normies ask small-talk like questions such as "what are you doing this weekend" "how have you been" or "what are your hobbies", it's always very difficult to come up with a proper response that is optimal in creating positive perception. When an incel says too little to these questions, giving one or two word replies, the NT will assume he is disinterested, rude, arrogant or uncaring. When the incel is honest about it people will look down on him for being a loser or think he's some kind of weirdo. if he responds too long he is seen as self absorbed, narcissistic and annoying. If he lies and tries to brag, people see through it and mock him again. As a result the incel male cannot win no matter what he says or does in a social interaction. He doesn't have the necessary experiences nor the genetic qualities to fake confidence or present himself as a cool guy, who's high status and worthy of befriending.
