Incel trait: bad communication skills

[TheNEET]

the language doesn't matter
my sentences are structured clumsily and the word choice is poor
I frequently forget basic vocabulary and make multiple pauses during even the simplest sentences, because I struggle to finish my thought
I've been told multiple times I'm laconic, because I wrap up even complex stories and ideas in just a couple of sentences (not necessarily a bad trait, but I often forget a lot of details and omit them)

 

[Akkadian]

I feel this, probably brain fog tbh

 

[TheNEET]

I feel this, probably brain fog tbh

I'm trying to avoid it by increasing my attention span and cognitive skills through reading, mental maths and such, but there seems to be no substitute for actual face-to-face communication
probably years of mutism and having no one to talk to deteriorated the parts of my brain responsible for producing speech (my writing isn't as bad as the way I talk irl)

 

[needsolution]

i have problems with talking ded srs

 

[FlamingCel]

I relate

 

[Deleted member 20207]

I am bad at socializing overall due to my autism and social anxiety.

 

[Damo the incel]

i have problems with talking ded srs

 

[Beta_Le_Pew]

Talking is overrated. Typing is where it's at.

 

[Blacktarpill]

I have nt voice, i can talk nicely.

 

[Barrix]

I'm trying to avoid it by increasing my attention span and cognitive skills through reading, mental maths and such, but there seems to be no substitute for actual face-to-face communication
probably years of mutism and having no one to talk to deteriorated the parts of my brain responsible for producing speech (my writing isn't as bad as the way I talk irl)

Yeah, I also read self help books yet speaking normally is hard for me.

 

[zangano1]

I use really few words when I talk ngl. But I never talk so maybe its because I lack experience

 

[IamJacksBrokenHeart]

i have problems with talking ded srs

yeah me too , its probably because i never had friends and i spent the last 4 years without any emotionally invested human interaction .
I just meet other people at work or when i go shopping and in both instances its completely superficial communication .
if i got friends now , it would take me probably several months just to be able to function normally .
But im still better off than some oldcels who rot 10 years in the same room and dont even go to work .

 

[mcfroggy]

I'm so ugly and awkward that ppl don't want to speak to me... And so I become even awkwarder. Just put yourself out there bROOoO.

 

[needsolution]

yeah me too , its probably because i never had friends and i spent the last 4 years without any emotionally invested human interaction .
I just meet other people at work or when i go shopping and in both instances its completely superficial communication .
if i got friends now , it would take me probably several months just to be able to function normally .
But im still better off than some oldcels who rot 10 years in the same room and dont even go to work .

well in my case its because i spent last 3 years in home and im insecure about my height and body

 

[Mystic]

I use really few words when I talk ngl. But I never talk so maybe its because I lack experience