Absolutely. If we're not complete fucking shining happy sun-rays there to make everyone feel great about themselves, then we are labeled as evil.
Nobody is evil and nobody is good. Everyone is shades of grey. But we say something like, "Geez, it sure is hard getting dates," and it's like we told everyone to go fuck themselves. And so we are attacked with these mean-spirited and dismissive rebuttals.
- "You know people in Africa are starving!" (red herring),
- "If you had really tried you would have been successful!" (affirming the consequent),
- "Well everyone else is getting dates so it's just your own fault!" (sweeping generalization),
- "If you keep trying eventually you'll get a girlfriend." (gambler's fallacy),
- "Have you asked out every girl in the world - if not, you're not really involuntarily celibate!" (strawman),
- "Women aren't evil creatures!" (moralistic),
- "I've seen people as ugly as you with girlfriends." (equivocation),
- "People have been having sex since the dawn of time, including your parents, so the fault isn't your ugliness." (appeal to antiquity),
- "Your toxic masculinity is preventing you from getting laid." (appeal to novelty),
- "You're a bad person." (ad-hominem),
- etc etc etc
If what we are saying is true - that some people are just un-fuckable and un-lovable - then that means that life isn't fair, and everything they have is undeserved and could be robbed from them at anytime. Most people at least pseudo know this already, but their core beliefs and ego make them attack us on instinct.
If they were so sure of their rightness instead of stamping out the mere possibility of what we say being true, they would instead be interested in how this strange occurrences of involuntary celibacy came to be.
And coming back to the topic - people dislike ugly people on sight. It's well documented, and thus we'll always be fighting an uphill battle in any social situation.
