Serious In all seriousness, I don't see myself ever getting a girlfriend

[Deleted member 7448]

1. I don't socialize at all. My social circle is my parents + people I know from work (that I only see at work).

2. I mean, while I was young no girl liked me. Now I'm only getting older, my body is deteriorating and so are my looks - not exactly working in my favor.

3. For me to date someone, the girl would have to ask me out. Seriously, I'm too autistic, depressed and anxiety-ridden to ever ask a girl out. We'd have to be really good friends or something for me to ask her out, and that's basically a recipe for orbiting and being a cuck.

4. I don't go out? I'm basically the shitty version of a NEET/hikki - I do go outside cause I have to work to survive, but other than that I never go out or do anything unless it's some necessity that can't be postponed.

 

[StormlitAqua]

On point 3: This is something I struggle with and, to me, provides the validity of lookism and the blackpill.

Talking to women doesn't do anything for attraction; if you're not good looking, you go straight to the stratosphere at 1000km/s orbiting the thot, no matter what you say or do. If you're good looking, they'll talk to you. So whats the point of even talking to women?

Women have a certain allure to all men, and its something the unaware incel could easily fall into. We are, in some ways, desperate for women, and any woman knows this and can take advantage. When we try to talk to women or ask them out because we want to ascend, they usually trap us into the orbit zone. BUT, if we become too blackpilled, we avoid talking to women all together to avoid being caught in the orbit trap. As IT as this will sound, to some extent you have to approach as a man and you have to be rather good looking to get approached, and even if you're approached you have to reciprocate. Even reciprocating can be hard, because women do approach men to get orbiters.

Damned if you do, damned if you don't.

 

[Blacktarpill]

3. To date someone, the girl would have to ask me out. Seriously, I'm too autistic, depressed and anxiety-ridden to ever ask a girl out.

Same with me. Im nt but approaching is so fucking hard.

 

[Michael15651]

We share the same problems.

 

[Grotesque]

I know I'll never have a girlfriend, and will die alone.

 

[Lifeisbullshit95]

You are mentally ill if you think you can get a gf in 2k19 if you are sub 7

 

[mybodyisrotting]

I'm basically the shitty version of a NEET/hikki - I do go outside cause I have to work to survive

It triggers me when people who are in employment or education describe themselves using the terms hikki or NEET. Recluse/loner/homebody will get the point across just fine tbh boyo

 

[Deleted member 7448]

It triggers me when people who are in employment or education describe themselves using the terms hikki or NEET. Recluse/loner will get the point across just fine tbh boyo

You know what triggers me? When people think they have the right to call themselves hikkis and exclude everybody else, just cause their parents/welfare government are kind enough to take care of their every need. Most people aren't so lucky, we have to work to feed ourselves, even though just going outside makes me want to kill myself.

And if you had paid attention, I didn't call myself a hikki, but a shittier version of a hikki, thus implying I'm not an actual hikki.

 

[Deleted member 11318]

Neither do I. I just want to find a job, make money and cope with video games and drugs like DMT.

 

[Deleted member 15752]

Fuck getting a girlfriend, I am the stage where i want to pump and dump and cause damage

 

[Sniffles]

Fuck getting a girlfriend, I am the stage where i want to pump and dump

This is how Chad's usually do it. It's a good tactic to avoid trouble tbh.

 

[Sans]

None of us will ever get one.
No love.
No happiness.
It’s OVER.

 

[Deleted member 14805]

I know I'll never have a girlfriend, and will die alone.

 

[LDARBuddah]

Maybe you could If you took more showers instead of posting here

 

[Captvic]

Same.

All of these years of isolation has permanently scarred me. Isolation has become a part of me tbh. It would feel weird having a GF at this point.

 

[JimJones]

The thought of a woman liking me is mind boggling. I can't fathom it.

 

[mybodyisrotting]

You know what triggers me? When people think they have the right to call themselves hikkis and exclude everybody else, just cause their parents/welfare government are kind enough to take care of their every need. Most people aren't so lucky, we have to work to feed ourselves, even though just going outside makes me want to kill myself.

And if you had paid attention, I didn't call myself a hikki, but a shittier version of a hikki, thus implying I'm not an actualy hikki.

Sorry if I came off as rude/condescending. I'm also a miserable wageslave.
I know that you meant that you're neither hikki or NEET, but implied that you're "kinda sorta like them" that's why I said "describe themselves using the terms hikki or NEET". You have to understand that if you either have a job or attend some sort of classes, you are automatically 100% the opposite of NEET. Hikkikomori are individuals who are essentially confined to their living space nearly all the time, sometimes they're so reclusive that they would rather shit on the floor rather than meet another family member on the way to the bathroom. I'm assuming you go outside regularly, which means that the term hikki does not describe you in any capacity.
Again, I don't want to be mean, just keep that in mind in the future. You probably want to be a comfyNEET just as much as I do, let's hope that we can somehow achieve this one day.

 

[Bakura806]

I am pretty sure that we have all given up hope

 

[Deleted member 10124]

1. I don't socialize at all. My social circle is my parents + people I know from work (that I only see at work).

2. I mean, while I was young no girl liked me. Now I'm only getting older, my body is deteriorating and so are my looks - not exactly working in my favor.

3. For me to date someone, the girl would have to ask me out. Seriously, I'm too autistic, depressed and anxiety-ridden to ever ask a girl out. We'd have to be really good friends or something for me to ask her out, and that's basically a recipe for orbiting and being a cuck.

4. I don't go out? I'm basically the shitty version of a NEET/hikki - I do go outside cause I have to work to survive, but other than that I never go out or do anything unless it's some necessity that can't be postponed.

Same here.

On point 3: This is something I struggle with and, to me, provides the validity of lookism and the blackpill.

Talking to women doesn't do anything for attraction; if you're not good looking, you go straight to the stratosphere at 1000km/s orbiting the thot, no matter what you say or do. If you're good looking, they'll talk to you. So whats the point of even talking to women?

Women have a certain allure to all men, and its something the unaware incel could easily fall into. We are, in some ways, desperate for women, and any woman knows this and can take advantage. When we try to talk to women or ask them out because we want to ascend, they usually trap us into the orbit zone. BUT, if we become too blackpilled, we avoid talking to women all together to avoid being caught in the orbit trap. As IT as this will sound, to some extent you have to approach as a man and you have to be rather good looking to get approached, and even if you're approached you have to reciprocate. Even reciprocating can be hard, because women do approach men to get orbiters.

Damned if you do, damned if you don't.

 

[Izayacel]

It triggers me when people who are in employment or education describe themselves using the terms hikki or NEET. Recluse/loner/homebody will get the point across just fine tbh boyo

why so triggered? no, why even care?

 

[KingOfRome]

Yeah me neither. I'm a manlet baldcel.

 

[ICanOnlyFapToBDSM]

Im same on all 4 OP. it really truly is over legit slugmaxxxing and just crawling by day to day

 

[Deleted member 8353]

Neither do I, the idea doesn't even feel real to me, like it's not something that actually exists, it's an abstract concept.

3. For me to date someone, the girl would have to ask me out. Seriously, I'm too autistic, depressed and anxiety-ridden to ever ask a girl out. We'd have to be really good friends or something for me to ask her out, and that's basically a recipe for orbiting and being a cuck.

If I try I can overcome my anxiety, but I will never know what to say. I have a difficult enough time talking to people in general, much less a girl that I want to date. Carrying on with an irl conversation is pretty difficult for me. Of course even if I did start trying to ask girls out, I'm ugly, I'm a 4 if I'm being generous(I think I might still be coping), but probably closer to a 3.

It's over.

 

[universallyabhorred]

The thought of a woman liking me is mind boggling. I can't fathom it.

 

[Deleted member 1983]

Im same on all 4 OP. it really truly is over legit slugmaxxxing and just crawling by day to day

also having the energy levels of a slug. all i want to do is rot at my pc im so low energy

 

[Deleted member 7448]

also having the energy levels of a slug. all i want to do is rot at my pc im so low energy

Rotting with my laptop in bed is literally what I've done since I was a little kid. 100% (literally) of my free time was spent at my PC. When not absolutely forced to do something, I was with my laptop in bed.

 

[Deleted member 1983]

Rotting with my laptop in bed is literally what I've done since I was a little kid. 100% (literally) of my free time was spent at my PC. When not absolutely forced to do something, I was with my laptop in bed.

its over for laptopcels

 

[mybodyisrotting]

why so triggered? no, why even care?

You're talking as if I went on an autistic screeching spree
I'm just bothered by the misuse of fairly straightforward terms, that's it. Wouldn't you be at least a little bit upset if someone said something like "My and my gf have sex all weekend, but she's too tired to do anything mid-week. I'm pretty much like an incel"?

 

[GeneticDysfunction]

Lmao if you are ugly that is your genetic destiny to rot alone in your cum stained room meanwgile everyone else has fun and you arent allowed to do anything but stfu and accept it

 

[Cuyen]

same here. me having a gf along with me,this idea sounds funny tbh.

 

[cucktearslol]

looks are important but if you're mentalcel its over

 

[anon]

For me to date someone, the girl would have to ask me out. Seriously, I'm too autistic, depressed and anxiety-ridden to ever ask a girl out

Yup.

You know what triggers me? When people think they have the right to call themselves hikkis and exclude everybody else, just cause their parents/welfare government are kind enough to take care of their every need. Most people aren't so lucky, we have to work to feed ourselves, even though just going outside makes me want to kill myself.

And if you had paid attention, I didn't call myself a hikki, but a shittier version of a hikki, thus implying I'm not an actual hikki.

Western dumbasses don't appreciate how good they have it.
Where I live autism is a literal death sentence because you can't get neetbux for it, or at least not more than a few hundred euros which is basically impossible to survive with. If you have autism it's over.

 

[lastchancel]

accept that its over, dwelling on this shit only makes it more painful

 

[littlemanhikicel]

For me the same. All the ppl that I ever known is in a relationship or have a large historial of sexual experience. And the couples ussually looking at me with pity and the younger ones the boys with a smile of superiority or something. And for approach fuck that, I'LL do thatwhen I get a job and try to ascend.

 

[AlwaysLawRoute]

I already accepted it even before joining this site.

 

[赤い太陽]

I agree with most of this. I just wake up, go to work, go straight home, unless I need a haircut or groceries. Actually, I like going to library a lot.

I'm not autistic, but I dont approach women these days. In fact, there's a lady I thought of approaching, but I didn't see her at the usual place this week (we use the same library).

Oh well, everything I know about women and their nature keeps me away. MGTOW really drummed it into my head. To be fair, I've never wanted a wife or children.

 

[Salustio]

Losing one year of social life is a death sentence for sub6 people, for you aspies it never began, too much social life missed. You probably are unable to relate to your peers. Just LDAR, it's not over, it's never began.

 

[starystulejarz]

Losing one year of social life is a death sentence for sub6 people, for you aspies it never began, too much social life missed. You probably are unable to relate to your peers. Just LDAR, it's not over, it's never began.

i lost 11 years of social life (if not more since i was never interested in drinking beer with peers), jfl at my XI death sentences

 

[Deleted member 60]

I can't imagine being wanted for an LTR. None of my friendships lasted more than a year since I finished high school. Even my family avoids me these days

 

[BlackPilledKira]

Same, however i also don't see myself alive in a decade if things continue like this.

 

[Remyx]

I don't either. That's why we're here

 

[Mr Joyboy]

You know what triggers me? When people think they have the right to call themselves hikkis and exclude everybody else, just cause their parents/welfare government are kind enough to take care of their every need. Most people aren't so lucky, we have to work to feed ourselves, even though just going outside makes me want to kill myself.

And if you had paid attention, I didn't call myself a hikki, but a shittier version of a hikki, thus implying I'm not an actual hikki.

Gatekeeping has massively retarded the level 9f conversation generally. "Incel" is no longer about involuntary celibacy, but about a narrow permissible disposition and worldview. Incels.is is actually an anti-incel community, insofar as it attacks and excludes incels who don't want to mimic the groupthink talking points and lingo, which would include the majority of the world's incels, I think.

 

[Kakarot]

You don't need to go out to find a foid with tinder. You only need good looks.

 

[GeneticFilth]

Lmao if you are ugly that is your genetic destiny to rot alone in your cum stained room meanwgile everyone else has fun and you arent allowed to do anything but stfu and accept it

 

[Haywire]

im in same boat and getting old it will take an absolute miracle.