This. Completely emasculated lap-dog mentality. Friendliness doesn't offer any benefits because our behavior doesn't matter. Society doesn't give us one reason to be nice people. What's the worst thing these people can do if we don't follow the tone policing? Shun us? It already shunned us long before that. This society treats low-status males (like the OP) like trash and they don't even have the balls for verbal retaliation and being angry at it for doing this.
Furthermore: If you follow any tone-policing in the digital age and think that matters you are completely insane; r/IncelsWithoutHate for example doesn't allow any hate speech and nonetheless Reddit constantly tries to shut it down for the most profane and non-sensical reasons. So if you are punished/banned anyways, why not have a tiny bit of fun before the inevitable ban?