Deleted member 7448
Name is Abdu, live in Laos, born on 24.08.1992.
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Normie immigrants go through a lot of shit. They work shitty jobs for low pay with little possibility for advancement, they live in shitty places and spend most of their money on rent, eat shit food etc... They can't really hope for a better life for themselves, it's for their kids, or maybe for themselves in 3 decades or so.
But they can put up with all that cause they have better copes. They have girlfriends, friends, a social circle, validation, affection, hopes and dreams, optimism, loved ones etc....
But for guys like us it's just pure hell. If you have mental issues then just forget about it, it's just insane. I immigrated once and I ended up returning to my home country after almost 2 years. Of course, that's only after becoming an alcoholic, ruining my life, dropping out, scarring myself mentally forever, spending my parent's life savings on the failed endeavor etc...
Now I have a choice, stay and live in this shithole, and work shitty jobs all my life that will pay shit, less than shit actually. Or immigrate and go through literal hell (and on top of that move away from my cat and parents, literally the only beings that ever cared about me).
Ehh, I don't have the energy to even think about immigrating anymore. Hell, I feel drained if I have to leave the house or do anything other than lay in bed, much less immigrate.
But they can put up with all that cause they have better copes. They have girlfriends, friends, a social circle, validation, affection, hopes and dreams, optimism, loved ones etc....
But for guys like us it's just pure hell. If you have mental issues then just forget about it, it's just insane. I immigrated once and I ended up returning to my home country after almost 2 years. Of course, that's only after becoming an alcoholic, ruining my life, dropping out, scarring myself mentally forever, spending my parent's life savings on the failed endeavor etc...
Now I have a choice, stay and live in this shithole, and work shitty jobs all my life that will pay shit, less than shit actually. Or immigrate and go through literal hell (and on top of that move away from my cat and parents, literally the only beings that ever cared about me).
Ehh, I don't have the energy to even think about immigrating anymore. Hell, I feel drained if I have to leave the house or do anything other than lay in bed, much less immigrate.
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