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It's Over I'm very close to giving up.

Joelossus

Joelossus

high T af, and a psychopath
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I don't fucking know, there doesn't seems to be a reason for trying anymore.
I know that what i really want in a female doen't exists, and that coping by trying to make myself believe that it does, just makes me feel even worse.
Everything i ever wanted in a female, is just a projection of my own inner desires, nothing more than that.
It doesn't actually exists.
Why keep fighting a losing battle, if the price doesn't even interests you?
I don't care about female validation anymore, since i realized that all the traits females desire in a male, are nothing more but god givin abilities, that were impossible for me to obtain.
The only reson why i still care, are my sexual urges which just don't seem to dissapear, no matter how hard i try, to get rid of them.
My life was so peacefull until i started to develope sexual desires.
Form that point on, life transformed, from a rather joyfull and comfy ride, into a competition based nightmare.
A competitive nightmare, that i was destined to lose.
It's not just the fact that i'm incapable of getting sex, i suck at every other aspect of life aswell.
There just isn't anything i'm good at, i tried to teach myself how to draw, how to play the guitar/piano, how to play soccer, how to be good at competitive video games, but i failed at everything.
Hell i can't even properly wtite a english text like this, without people complaining about my punctation, or other grammatical mistakes i tend to make.
I'm a fucking loser, and now it turns out that the one thing that used to keep me going only seems to exist withing my imagination.
Perhaps i should just stay there, and leave the physically world to the more fortunate people.
 
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lol its over buddyboyo
 
Have you considered chemical castration, in order to suppress your sexual urges?
 
Have you considered chemical castration, in order to suppress your sexual urges?
I unironically did, but listenig/reading interviews of people who underwent, chemical castrarion, scared me away from it.
 
Insane how rough it is out there. I still try tbh but idk if I have much more steam
 
I advise the use of hard drugs if you can get them. Once a week will not be enough to get you addicted but it will give you something to look forward to at the end of the week
 
I already gave up in spirit at least.

I no longer believe that it's possible for me to get a girlfriend. I don't try talking to women anymore or impressing them. For the most part, I accept that there's nothing that I can do to make them attracted to me, so I don't bother.

I'm pretty much a dead soul in a living body.

Getting to see an escort for the first time did help a lot, so at least for now, I may be considering escortcelling as a cope.
 
I advise the use of hard drugs if you can get them. Once a week will not be enough to get you addicted but it will give you something to look forward to at the end of the week

Shrooms would be cool for that purpose. Tried them myself and loved them. Not every week though, once a month is sufficient.
 
Shrooms would be cool for that purpose. Tried them myself and loved them. Not every week though, once a month is sufficient.
Not psychedelics, anything but those. They take too much of a toll on the mind where as Heroin, Molly, Cocaine dont.
 
Shrooms would be cool for that purpose. Tried them myself and loved them. Not every week though, once a month is sufficient.
is it true that shrooms "reset" your mind and resolve subconscious conflicts?
 
I unironically did, but listenig/reading interviews of people who underwent, chemical castrarion, scared me away from it.

Have you considered roping? Your post is really depressing lol
 
is it true that shrooms "reset" your mind and resolve subconscious conflicts?

Possible. Whereas most people get all "kumbaya, all is love" on them, for me the shrooms initiated me into really uncomfortable blackpill truths. YMMV.
 
Go ER. Let the world know your pain.
 
is it true that shrooms "reset" your mind and resolve subconscious conflicts?
Sort of, for a day or two it will but eventually you just revert back into your old mindset. Some are fortunate enough to have lasting effects
 
Possible. Whereas most people get all "kumbaya, all is love" on them, for me the shrooms initiated me into really uncomfortable blackpill truths. YMMV.
Sort of, for a day or two it will but eventually you just revert back into your old mindset. Some are fortunate enough to have lasting effects
I've always wanted to try them, but i am afraid of a bad trip.
 
:feelscry: this feel is too real
Hello WithoutMe, nice to see you here.
Go ER. Let the world know your pain.
What would be the point, tbh?
Not psychedelics, anything but those. They take too much of a toll on the mind where as Heroin, Molly, Cocaine dont.
Tbh i tried shrooms once and it was fucking awful, the only "stronger" drug i liked so far was mdma. Pretty curious about trying heroin one day.
Have you considered roping? Your post is really depressing lol
Yes, i whish i could just rope, tbh. But it's pretty hard.
 
Tbh i tried shrooms once and it was fucking awful, the only "stronger" drug i liked so far was mdma. Pretty curious about trying heroin one day.
Heroin- some love it some are pretty indifferent to it. I was indifferent, didnt really like the slow hazy feeling.
 
What would be the point, tbh?
The point is to let the world know that inceldom is a serious societal problem that needs to be fixed. Sometimes it takes violence for people to listen.
 
I've always wanted to try them, but i am afraid of a bad trip.

Don't be a wuss. It can't be worse than the incel hell in which you live every day.
 
My life was so peacefull until i started to develope sexual desires.
Puberty is the best thing to happen to Chad and the worst thing to happen to an Incel. I was perfectly fine before the urges and wet dreams, it became a downward spiral after that.
 
thanks, PPEcel
Tenor
 
Tbh it's depressing to think about this i just try to forget about my inceldom but when i go outside i feel more lonely than in my room
Puberty is the best thing to happen to Chad and the worst thing to happen to an Incel. I was perfectly fine before the urges and wet dreams, it became a downward spiral after that.
 
My condolences
 
Women will never make you happy, especially modern women as an incel. This is the harsh truth, although it's not meant to minimize the woes of inceldom in any way. Our flesh screams for sex, romance and validation.
 
Can't imagine anyone still having hope.
 
I know that what i really want in a female doen't exists, and that coping by trying to make myself believe that it does, just makes me feel even worse.
Everything i ever wanted in a female, is just a projection of my own inner desires, nothing more than that.
It doesn't actually exists.
Well what you want may not exist outside of your own head, but it still exists. Or at least if it doesn't exist, then I'd argue that it's no less of an illusion than anything else. I think it actually became easier once I realized that the women I want don't exist, it made me realize that a lot of my desires for them are irrational, and it mostly just comes down to my body torturing me.

However I agree that trying to believe women have the qualities which you project onto them will just make you feel worse. It's easier if you can separate your emotional desires from other people, but that isn't easy to do in the first place. I still haven't entirely succeeded in this regard, even if most of the negative emotions are from memories, and it's obviously not that I feel them because I think it makes sense to do so.
The only reson why i still care, are my sexual urges which just don't seem to dissapear, no matter how hard i try, to get rid of them.
My life was so peacefull until i started to develope sexual desires.
Form that point on, life transformed, from a rather joyfull and comfy ride, into a competition based nightmare.
A competitive nightmare, that i was destined to lose.
It's not just the fact that i'm incapable of getting sex, i suck at every other aspect of life aswell.
There just isn't anything i'm good at, i tried to teach myself how to draw, how to play the guitar/piano, how to play soccer, how to be good at competitive video games, but i failed at everything.
Same with me, I'm terrible at life. I first gave up years ago, and at this point I've pretty much given up entirely. I don't even see the purpose in trying to learn new things anymore, as I tend to be bad at most things, and I don't enjoy doing much.
Hell i can't even properly wtite a english text like this, without people complaining about my punctation, or other grammatical mistakes i tend to make.
At least you're way better at typing out something coherent in a second language than I am jfl. But like I said, I also have no motivation so I don't really try. My mental energy is too low for me to be consistent when it comes to learning anything now. I have a few books I've meant to read for over a year, but I still haven't even got to doing that, much less anything which requires more concentration.

Chances are good that you have similar problems, especially considering what you've already said. But then again I guess it's particularly bad when your first language is English, as there is so much media produced in English along with translations that there isn't a very good reason to learn another language to begin with.
 
Well what you want may not exist outside of your own head, but it still exists. Or at least if it doesn't exist, then I'd argue that it's no less of an illusion than anything else. I think it actually became easier once I realized that the women I want don't exist, it made me realize that a lot of my desires for them are irrational, and it mostly just comes down to my body torturing me.

However I agree that trying to believe women have the qualities which you project onto them will just make you feel worse. It's easier if you can separate your emotional desires from other people, but that isn't easy to do in the first place. I still haven't entirely succeeded in this regard, even if most of the negative emotions are from memories, and it's obviously not that I feel them because I think it makes sense to do so.

Same with me, I'm terrible at life. I first gave up years ago, and at this point I've pretty much given up entirely. I don't even see the purpose in trying to learn new things anymore, as I tend to be bad at most things, and I don't enjoy doing much.

At least you're way better at typing out something coherent in a second language than I am jfl. But like I said, I also have no motivation so I don't really try. My mental energy is too low for me to be consistent when it comes to learning anything now. I have a few books I've meant to read for over a year, but I still haven't even got to doing that, much less anything which requires more concentration.

Chances are good that you have similar problems, especially considering what you've already said. But then again I guess it's particularly bad when your first language is English, as there is so much media produced in English along with translations that there isn't a very good reason to learn another language to begin with.
Thanks for everything you said, bro. Your posts always manage to make me feel less like shit, ngl. Wish i could write a more in - depth response, but i don't really have the energy to do that, rn.
Women will never make you happy, especially modern women as an incel. This is the harsh truth, although it's not meant to minimize the woes of inceldom in any way. Our flesh screams for sex, romance and validation.
Yes, this is true, but i still haven't fully exepted that truth yet. I guess i will just need some more time.
 
I have a mission for you, OP:
Foxgirls GE
 
I advise the use of hard drugs if you can get them. Once a week will not be enough to get you addicted but it will give you something to look forward to at the end of the week
no, all that makes you is uglier, stupider, and more socially outcast, at a rate way bigger than most copes
Have you considered not glowing in the dark?
based
 
I don't fucking know, there doesn't seems to be a reason for trying anymore.
I know that what i really want in a female doen't exists, and that coping by trying to make myself believe that it does, just makes me feel even worse.
Everything i ever wanted in a female, is just a projection of my own inner desires, nothing more than that.
It doesn't actually exists.
Why keep fighting a losing battle, if the price doesn't even interests you?
I don't care about female validation anymore, since i realized that all the traits females desire in a male, are nothing more but god givin abilities, that were impossible for me to obtain.
The only reson why i still care, are my sexual urges which just don't seem to dissapear, no matter how hard i try, to get rid of them.
My life was so peacefull until i started to develope sexual desires.
Form that point on, life transformed, from a rather joyfull and comfy ride, into a competition based nightmare.
A competitive nightmare, that i was destined to lose.
It's not just the fact that i'm incapable of getting sex, i suck at every other aspect of life aswell.
There just isn't anything i'm good at, i tried to teach myself how to draw, how to play the guitar/piano, how to play soccer, how to be good at competitive video games, but i failed at everything.
Hell i can't even properly wtite a english text like this, without people complaining about my punctation, or other grammatical mistakes i tend to make.
I'm a fucking loser, and now it turns out that the one thing that used to keep me going only seems to exist withing my imagination.
Perhaps i should just stay there, and leave the physically world to the more fortunate people.

Something you are good at is learning the truth, becoming blackpilled.. aka science. And that is a rare ability as seen with how normies react to any truth.

The only way women would ever be turned on by guys like us is if they were fucking scared of us and we could make them submit.. then that would be very erotic for the woman.

Unfortunately in our cucked society we can't use that kind of violence, so its not an option.. only an option for violent sadistic guys in our society who have horny women writing them even when they are in jail.
 
Destined to fail. Write it on my tombstone too, bro.
 
Accept lord shiva or whom ever your choosing and witness the first hand results
 

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