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Blackpill I'm totally beginning to see looks as the only, quintessential thing that matter.

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I'd say the only thing that comes second is a dynamic chadlike personality which, if you were going to implement tricks/ boosters to make your personality come off well, that it would not work unless you have the looks to implicate a lifestyle around it.
I wouldn't say personality in of itself gets you girls. Looks practically do 80% of the work when you deal with the frame of overall female superficiality. But when it comes to moments after initial attraction you need something to keep your value-track banging forward.
Dynamic chadlike personality needs to be there to secure that a male does not have autism, or a shitty life experience.

Every hope a non-chad has is that a female is bluepilled so she doesn't have a conscientious payload of the importance of looks, judgment, etc.
Women are like men, although have adhd/ anxiety/ etc. which stop many of them from being nothing but brainless valley girls in the general scheme of society. With the rise of technology that demographic will be decreasing.
PUA is premised off the fallacy that women are not conscientious thinkers, and don't choose on the basis of the blackpill, but on who vibes right with personality/ etc. BUT this only works in rare cases. The more a female knows about the blackpill or who personally makes their personal criteria of attraction (on a conscious level, not a wavering impulsive level) about looks, then PUA jig is up. Youwill be like trying to sell meat to a vegetarian.
90% of divorces are initiated by college educated women. Let that say something in itself.
You need a personality to scream halo effect or your looksmaxxing is apparent/ your flaws you are burying ar apparent.

Personality only has a slight utility in keeping her entertained, but it is mostly a halo effect platform for your natural aptitudes/ abilites/ lifehistory/ things that make you distinct for other males. Dispositional transmitter of distinction.

Even if you commonalitymaxxx (have the same interests) funnymaxx/ charismamaxx/ skillmaxx/ sportmaxx,... humans are primal and they want the trill of being on a dominarchal rollercoaster. Primal priority pyramid will shift from emotional enrichment/ companionship and move onto something else. In fact, you may have fucked a girl up for every good person because she won't find goodness from people a worthy currency anymore.
Looks, money, status are worthy currencies because eventually personality gets dull and women want things that have the primal tittilization of dominance among their peers which come from features/ traits that most guys cannot attain, and girls cannot get.

You need some undeniable distinction. If you were indian take everything maxxed, and women won't care.
So looks are necessary. The most natural based distinction people look for is genetics.

Important concept: Arbitrary Lookist Estimation Lean of Primal Esteem System, ALELOPES
Alelopes is where a girl will esteem the one who looks better rather than the one who can perform the best.
Or if a guy who performs better than a guy who looks better, it won't matter, the primal idealization of a certain look beats the skill of a man. That in of itself is part of the overarching idealprimalismarchy of females. (idealness primally desired over everything)
If an indian martial arts champion, who is younger btw is beating down a good looking white guy, then a girl will try to find a way to access his genetic capital rather than the guy who is clearly maxxed everywhere else.

Lookistemation hierarchy. Lookistmationarchy. (lookist estimation (primal faculty) hierarchy.
The hierarchy that picks on the basis of aesthetics, because a guy fits a certain fantasy/ physio-implication joy that they would rather have than letting someone who is practical (a real bad ass, like someone who looks like a redneck, or a tryhard ethnic) take the prize of victor. This certain type of hierarchy makes what you do in of yourself redundant. Lookistemation, or the lookism bias in women makes almost everything irrelevant that you can do to maxxx yourself unless you develop high value tier traits in unchangable places.
Lookistemationarchy, yes. But is there a personalitistemationarchy? no. I mean, in rare cases I've seen girls take an artist or something they love over a good looking guy if the good looking guy wins/ shows dominarchal value.
But overall lookism takes you everything, because it's more of the general primal wiring women have.
Everything with girls is a ideality they are pursuing, like men, but men are way more kickback and unmeticulous abotu these kinds of things.
 
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Basically personality can only help you keep a woman if you meet her LMS requirements, though she will eventually grow bored and expect something else which is more genetic . And even attractive personality traits are mostly genetic like being extroverted and not autistic, only in rare cases would a woman prioritize personality over looks and generally these women are less educated and mentally ill. So TLDR it's over for ugly men regardless of personality.
 
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Looks are not nescesarily the only thing that matters but they are by far the most important one
 
Basically personality can only help you keep a woman if you meet her LMS requirements, though she will eventually grow bored and expect something else which is more genetic . And even attractive personality traits are mostly genetic like being extroverted and not autistic, only in rare cases would a woman prioritize personality over looks and generally these women are less educated and mentally ill. So TLDR it's over for ugly men regardless of personality.
skill traits/ power traits/ ability are mostly all genetic. and even if they're not women have the fempsychical taste to look for those who have it genetically. Not just for kids but because of the immaculateness (immaculatarchy, unfindability of flaw/ unfaultability projected from life-course hierarchy.
Liveliseries hierarchy/ lifelegatialarchy (legatial, adj form for legacy) is what is analyzed when it comes to genetics of humanity. And how that, in of itself weaves into human worthiness.


Even if they're not, people feel distasteful/ unregal when they are not engaging with someone who has things through the most difficult/ unattainable/ uncommon/ unamenable/ commodity sources like genetics are. Genetics/ birthbased traits are the most important, and everything else can seem like a plastic diamond to a girl.
It's a matter of primordial laurels/ taste/ fempsychical (feminine psyche's) preference from seeing things that are genetic. Say that you were someone who revealed to a girl you got a supernutrient that made your legs grow long and you beat up guys their height. Wouldn't matter if they found out because you weren't born with it.
Women want the dominator's resonance. And not because of how good it is, but because of how little negative could be said about things.
Women don't want to take off and go for power. They want to be imperveously dominating in their perfect position it seems.
They analyze a situation by how little negative there is, than the positives.
Women have tacitly told me they welcome their insecurity. They said perfection is key, and if you are just confident with who you are without having it revolve around flaws then you're just dumb. They said it leads to cucks and fat rights.


We're a tournament species and are designed to look at things in distinction to one another.
If we were a race that looked at whats best for everyone then that would be another story. But only hollywood has charicatures like that.
We are into vanity and distinction above others.
 
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Genetics are unchangeable, everything else is.
 
Looks come before everything else. The moment you come out of the womb and you have above average looks and don't look like a goblin baby, the endless positive reinforcement will create a gigantic halo effect that will increase for a lifetime. I believe parents hate their ugly, genetically inferior children as it's a reminder of their own shitty genetic makeup and they cannot deal with the shame so they abuse their kids.
 
What do you mean? (Fitting name btw)
even your hip bones can be cahnged if you work hard enough and want to try the risk. But a lot of the time things that a gym can't fix can only be fixed by very careful directioning.
 
Looks get a woman to have sex with you
Personality is what prompts here to either leave you or stay with you
 
Looks come before everything else. The moment you come out of the womb and you have above average looks and don't look like a goblin baby, the endless positive reinforcement will create a gigantic halo effect that will increase for a lifetime. I believe parents hate their ugly, genetically inferior children as it's a reminder of their own shitty genetic makeup and they cannot deal with the shame so they abuse their kids.
So brutally true
 
even your hip bones can be cahnged if you work hard enough and want to try the risk. But a lot of the time things that a gym can't fix can only be fixed by very careful directioning.
How can your hip bones be changed to become narrower? Yeah you can make them wider by squatting but that's how you fuck up your aesthetics for life.
 
How can your hip bones be changed to become narrower? Yeah you can make them wider by squatting but that's how you fuck up your aesthetics for life.
when you're a 7/8 out of 10 you have enough options to leverage your way to get a 10 and then give birth to 9/10 babies and keep the process going.
THe most fundamental point of this is that morality is a social construct. All else is irrelevant. There is only power and those too weak to seek it. Its what my highschool teacher taught me.
You don't need perfection for excellence. You just need a set of nicely arranged leverage points. Perfectionism should be hindbrained, but you should have a forebrained content and psychotic leisure.
There are surgeries to shave off parts of it. But if you looksmaxx and become a widehipped high tier normie I think you'd be fine. You just need to find the right leverage around women. Or pressure them instead.
 
why do you feel compelled to create all this fancy and complicated words to express simple ideas?
 
But who was personality?
 
why do you feel compelled to create all this fancy and complicated words to express simple ideas?
Because I hate humanity and we haven't developed a vernacular that talks about the little nuances/ micro-activities of sociobiology/ hierarchies/ manipulation. When we get the glossary in the manosphere updated to amply pick women out from their socio-hidey-holes (lol) then the onslaught shall cease.
But who was personality?
This is a very clever and nuanced response.
 

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