Discussion Im not sure if my mother even cared about me or not

[Deleted member 29230]

My whole life i couldnt tell if my own mother loves me or not i mean she feeds me and gets me things but when it comes to mental help or education i get zero help
I cant tell sometimes if she tried her best or didnt try at all tbh i cant really tell and i feel bad for not knowing if she did or not atkeast i can live here with her and not forcibly wagecuck my whole life away and instead save my money
Who else feels the same way i wonder if this is an incel trait

 

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are u a single child

 

[Deleted member 29230]

are u a single child

Yes I am why?

 

[Antisocialloner]

SAME

 

[micropenis29]

she feeds me and gets me things

that's a good sign

 

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Yes I am why?

maybe she has bias but dk so its just u and her?

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

Does she hug you?
Maybe try looking depressed in front of her on purpose but act like you are hiding it. If it's obvious enough and asks, she cares. If she doesn't ask, she doesn't care.

 

[coldmachinery]

Not worth worrying about. Don't want to be like Molyneux, 56 and screaming about his mother on a stream one day lol. I think mine grew to dislike me over time for not being successful, but it's not worth dwelling on.

 

[Deleted member 27249]

My mom kicked me out, but I ackowledge I deserved it

 

[Mogged Loner]

So glad I don’t have “mommy Issues” like some of you guys

 

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My mom kicked me out, but I ackowledge I deserved it

brutal i will go down this route soon tbh

 

[The Zulfigar]

I think all of the mothers do love their children. You are her genes in flesh. Most women seem to love their children, not taking different factors into consideration, although if you ask me about theoretical situation where there is an incel kid and Chad kid, and fathers are respectively incel and a Chad, there might be some sort of bias, but it's unrelated to topic.

My mom loved me. She would do anything really, even though I'm ugly, and she were supposed to hate me. I was very happy as an under-16-years-oldcel. If you're incel and your mom doesn't show love, it's not aimed directly at you. More like, you're a visual representation of her shitty genes, so she's unhappy with that. I'm not rly into all these scientific facts rly, but being ugly is indication of less health and less chance to procreate and have healthy offspring, so your mom's looking at you with disdain is just her self-loathing because she draws conclusion that she failed to produce high quality offspring. It's not aimed at your personality, or something you did. You did nothing and don't deserve this. It's just how it is. Add the idea, that parents always want their kids to be more successful on top with being unable to succeed. Everything is subconscious