Serious I’m done with living my life for others

[Ellsworth]

I’m done with it. From now on I will live my life for me and what I want. No more worrying about what my family thinks. What my employer or friends think. I’m going to do what makes me happy and if anyone doesn’t like it then tough. They can complain or criticize all they want but I’m done seeking approval from others.

I think this mentality I have had is also a contributor to my inceldom.

Therefore I will be doing the following within a reasonable time frame:

Moving to the city and state I want to live in.

Quitting my current job and finding a better one.

Travel to places I want to travel to.

Well that’s all I can think of for now. Would say I will stop living for what females want but I stopped doing that years ago once my inceldom was apparent.

 

[blond_elf_bard]

why the city

 

[Near]

why the city

 

[Ellsworth]

why the city

Not sure exactly what you mean but I’ll elab.

Dislike my current city. Few friends, no gf ever, shit weather usually, expensive. I want to move to a better city about 1,000 miles away that is cheaper with better weather. What kind of stops me is my parents are older and need a lot of help from me. My sister is useless and doesn’t care or ever help them. I would be fine if they wanted to move with me tbh. I’ll probably tell them hey I’m moving to X city, you can go too if you want.

Hope that explains it. I’m just a very high inhib person and am susceptible to others criticisms even from people I know that don’t care about me.

 

[StaroRavager]

Living for yourself is one of the best decisions a person in our position can make

 

[Incline]

I commend your courage. I have the same attitude but can't execute it.

 

[RandomGuy]

Help parents because you’ll regret it later. Make them a priority. Move out of bad weather after they pass. Forget friends, normans can always be outsourced.

 

[ihaveno1]

Living for yourself is one of the best decision a person in our position can make

 

[LDARBuddah]

Just live for yourself theory

 

[Ellsworth]

Help parents because you’ll regret it later. Make them a priority. Move out of bad weather after they pass. Forget friends, normans can always be outsourced.

No not gonna wait till they pass. That could be 20 years or more. They don’t seem to care about me anyway. There’s no reason for them to stay in this city other than muh sister who doesn’t give a shit about them, still she’s the favorite.

 

[blond_elf_bard]

Not sure exactly what you mean but I’ll elab.

Dislike my current city. Few friends, no gf ever, shit weather usually, expensive. I want to move to a better city about 1,000 miles away that is cheaper with better weather. What kind of stops me is my parents are older and need a lot of help from me. My sister is useless and doesn’t care or ever help them. I would be fine if they wanted to move with me tbh. I’ll probably tell them hey I’m moving to X city, you can go too if you want.

Hope that explains it. I’m just a very high inhib person and am susceptible to others criticisms even from people I know that don’t care about me.

Is your sister a NEET?

 

[Ellsworth]

Is your sister a NEET?

No. Makes more money than me, just doesn’t care about them I guess.
Oh yeah, anyone wanna take bets on if any of my 3 normie friends ever visit me when I move to another state?

 

[Emba]

I wish I had social capital to throw away.

 

[littlemanhikicel]

Not sure exactly what you mean but I’ll elab.

Dislike my current city. Few friends, no gf ever, shit weather usually, expensive. I want to move to a better city about 1,000 miles away that is cheaper with better weather. What kind of stops me is my parents are older and need a lot of help from me. My sister is useless and doesn’t care or ever help them. I would be fine if they wanted to move with me tbh. I’ll probably tell them hey I’m moving to X city, you can go too if you want.

Hope that explains it. I’m just a very high inhib person and am susceptible to others criticisms even from people I know that don’t care about me.

If I were in your place I wouldn't say nothing to them. They can convince you to not do it that.

 

[Ellsworth]

If I were in your place I wouldn't say nothing to them. They can convince you to not do it that.

I’m sure they’ll find out one way or another. I’m just not gonna be looking for their approval. Like I said they are welcome to move there as well if they want my continued help.

 

[littlemanhikicel]

I’m sure they’ll find out one way or another. I’m just not gonna be looking for their approval. Like I said they are welcome to move there as well if they want my continued help.

I think is better move alone. I want to emancipate to start something new, not been a child-adult tbh.