You don't "become" an incel, you already are one my nigga
Is that a repost or is Reddit increasingly filled with incels who "aren't incels but still virgin"?
He is gradually unhaving sex
One of the most retarded comments
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No, you do not get self esteem by doing things that make you proud. If you spend a week making a five hour YouTube essay and no one watches if you're not going to be proud. Studies show that self esteem is directly linked to social approval. If you get social approval you're going to high self esteem, if you don't it will be vice versa
www.nature.com
Furthermore, lack of social approval is directly linked to depression. If you're socially rejected your brain is going to start becoming depressed.
You can't just "become confident" and change how your brain works. Our brains are designed like this because humans are social animals. You're hardwired to seek social validation and approval.
If you don't get it you'll become depressed.
psychcentral.com
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No, you do not get self esteem by doing things that make you proud. If you spend a week making a five hour YouTube essay and no one watches if you're not going to be proud. Studies show that self esteem is directly linked to social approval. If you get social approval you're going to high self esteem, if you don't it will be vice versa
Self-esteem depends on beliefs about the rate of change of social approval - Scientific Reports
A major challenge in understanding the neurobiological basis of psychiatric disorders is rigorously quantifying subjective metrics that lie at the core of mental illness, such as low self-esteem. Self-esteem can be conceptualized as a ‘gauge of social approval’ that increases in response to...
www.nature.com
Furthermore, lack of social approval is directly linked to depression. If you're socially rejected your brain is going to start becoming depressed.
You can't just "become confident" and change how your brain works. Our brains are designed like this because humans are social animals. You're hardwired to seek social validation and approval.
If you don't get it you'll become depressed.
Can Rejection Give You Depression?
Is it possible for a rash of romantic or professional rejections to cause depression?
psychcentral.com
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"manosphere" I hate that term. It attempts to lump MRAs, redpillers and incels together when we're all separate groups.
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No, you do not get self esteem by doing things that make you proud. If you spend a week making a five hour YouTube essay and no one watches if you're not going to be proud. Studies show that self esteem is directly linked to social approval. If you get social approval you're going to high self esteem, if you don't it will be vice versa
Self-esteem depends on beliefs about the rate of change of social approval - Scientific Reports
A major challenge in understanding the neurobiological basis of psychiatric disorders is rigorously quantifying subjective metrics that lie at the core of mental illness, such as low self-esteem. Self-esteem can be conceptualized as a ‘gauge of social approval’ that increases in response to...
Furthermore, lack of social approval is directly linked to depression. If you're socially rejected your brain is going to start becoming depressed.
You can't just "become confident" and change how your brain works. Our brains are designed like this because humans are social animals. You're hardwired to seek social validation and approval.
If you don't get it you'll become depressed.
Can Rejection Give You Depression?
Is it possible for a rash of romantic or professional rejections to cause depression?
People will still not care because that would mean holding themselves accountable for stuff like this, the easier alternative of course is shaming people and pushing therapy as a panacea of sorts since thst requires zero actual self reflection over how they treat others.
Mouse can't hunt cats.
I love it when average guys become incels. Its a shock at first. They made fun of us
and now they've become one.
and now they've become one.
He will soon be here
They can't accept it, being an incel in their eyes means being an inferior human being and a horrible person
What do you expect from Soyddit/Troonddit?
Therapy legit is just gaslighting you into thinking the society has nothing to do with how shit life is and its all your fault
K
Therapy is a stupid ass scam, I'm shocked how anyone's falling for it
exactly therapy only works for people who dont have problems to begin with (foids) a change of mindset wont help u fix practical issues
i literally got told to "do deep breaths" for my depression by a foid therapist. she also ditched my therapy like 3 sessions later and sent me to another one. big loss of time
brutal man no way people are recommending this like its the holy grail of fixing everything in ur lifeSimilar threads
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