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[Whitepill] I'm actually happy for other users when they ascend

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I'm still jealous of them but as long as they don't talk about their ascension in a braggy way and they were likeable as users I'm happy they managed to escape inceldom.

I don't believe in the idea that someone ascending means they were a fakecel all along and I think it's a misuse of the term. They aren't a truecel but they still genuinely were still an incel before their ascension and absolutely had a place in the forum.

The majority of user ascensions we've had from here have been from nearcels anyway aside from some larpers. They aren't chads that will go on absolutely giga lifemog us and a lot of them will end up getting fucked over by foids in the end.
 
Based. Me Too.
 
That's also why you can't really be happy for them, because we know it's just their turn at best, and often it's with a foid that everyone knows is trouble and they're going to be worse off in the end. Unless they were attractive and then didn't belong here.
 
They were probably fakecels who didn't make an effort and they got laid the first time they talked to a foid.
It's not like foids are becoming any less selective.
Ex incel

I have nothing in common with those people.
 
Im not, I don't believe in ascension. It just means you were a fakecel all along imo.
 
That's also why you can't really be happy for them, because we know it's just their turn at best, and often it's with a foid that everyone knows is trouble and they're going to be worse off in the end. Unless they were attractive and then didn't belong here.
Yeah but it's an achievement in that you don't have to deal with the feeling that you are completely undesirable. Personally even if I just got a hookup with nothing else after I would be a much happier person.
 
I also feel happy for them. Based
 
Im not, I don't believe in ascension. It just means you were a fakecel all along imo.
I'd only say that for the people who never actually tried. If you had tried prior to signing up here you genuinely do suffer with inceldom
 
They were probably fakecels who didn't make an effort and they got laid the first time they talked to a foid.
It's not like foids are becoming any less selective.
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I have nothing in common with those people.
I mean I agree with you that guys like this soyditter were fakecels all along because it was obvious that he had never actually tried + he was a youngcel.
 
I feel indifferent. On one hand I’m happy for them that they got to touch pussy, but on the other I know they’re going to be “normalized” (i.e., they don’t wield the social power a Chad does and will therefore probably end up pussy-whipped by their gf). So at that point it might as well be that I never knew them in the first place
 
I mean I agree with you that guys like this soyditter were fakecels all along because it was obvious that he had never actually tried + he was a youngcel.
Well think about why an "incel" would ascend. He either didn't try or was fat (fatcels==volcels) or was very unlucky.
 
Well think about why an "incel" would ascend. He either didn't try or was fat (fatcels==volcels) or was very unlucky.
Most ascenders probably fall into the last category. If you're a low SMV nearcel you can eventually get lucky but you may have to try for a long time to actually ascend. You can't expect people to approach 100 foids or something before joining here to prove that they're a truecel.
 
I feel indifferent. On one hand I’m happy for them that they got to touch pussy, but on the other I know they’re going to be “normalized” (i.e., they don’t wield the social power a Chad does and will therefore probably end up pussy-whipped by their gf). So at that point it might as well be that I never knew them in the first place
Yeah true. Most nearcels are destined to either get cheated on or end up like this
 
They were usually not bad looking all along but just never interacted with foids or left their house or they end up being used by some whore that likes hurting men.
 
Most ascenders probably fall into the last category.
I very much doubt that.

You can't expect people to approach 100 foids or something before joining here to prove that they're a truecel.
Ok, but how many then? And you don't have to autistically approach random foids but you need to meet foids and take risks and make moves. Imagine if someone resigned themself to lifelong poverty because they applied for 30 jobs and didn't even get an interview. You'd tell them to fuck off and try harder. Just because getting rejected by a foid is scarier doesn't mean you won't have to do it. Or it does, but then you'd resign yourself to inceldom for no good reason.
 
I'm not but I won't hate.
 
Ok, but how many then? And you don't have to autistically approach random foids but you need to meet foids and take risks and make moves. Imagine if someone resigned themself to lifelong poverty because they applied for 30 jobs and didn't even get an interview. You'd tell them to fuck off and try harder. Just because getting rejected by a foid is scarier doesn't mean you won't have to do it. Or it does, but then you'd resign yourself to inceldom for no good reason.
There's also levels to how much a man is supposed to try. Does it count if you try betabuxing? Jestermaxxing in some social group? There's also legitimate concern in approaching women.

In general, if you're in a situation where you're around a good amount of women for extended periods of time and none of them are interested in you, there's your answer.
 
Ok, but how many then? And you don't have to autistically approach random foids but you need to meet foids and take risks and make moves. Imagine if someone resigned themself to lifelong poverty because they applied for 30 jobs and didn't even get an interview. You'd tell them to fuck off and try harder. Just because getting rejected by a foid is scarier doesn't mean you won't have to do it. Or it does, but then you'd resign yourself to inceldom for no good reason.
I meant approach as in both cold/warm approaching. Just couldn't think of a better word to use.

But I have a question for you. How do you know you are a real incel then? Someone could have genuinely tried before joining here and then ascended after. There's no specific level of trying to ascend that could 100% proof that you have a 0% chance of ascending unless you literally approached every foid on the planet which is pretty much impossible.

Inceldom is not about necessarily about having a 0% chance of ascending. It's about having such a low percentage chance of ascending that it might as well be 0%.
 
i wish i could be happy for other people but i cant, i feel envy
 
But I have a question for you. How do you know you are a real incel then?
8 consecutive in-person rejections by foids though social circles or over 30 consecutive in-person rejections from random foids in appropriate situations (stopping a foid on the street is doesn't count as appropriate). All while dressed like a normal person, not being fat and not stinking.
I got rejected by over 150 foids at college and I was like fuck it, I did my due diligence and now I don't have to wonder any more. It was liberating in a sense.
 
I feel nothing when they ascend. People get laid and brag about it all the time, how is this any different
 
i try to get female but its over im 27 rope at 30
 
8 consecutive in-person rejections by foids though social circles or over 30 consecutive in-person rejections from random foids in appropriate situations (stopping a foid on the street is doesn't count as appropriate). All while dressed like a normal person, not being fat and not stinking.
I got rejected by over 150 foids at college and I was like fuck it, I did my due diligence and now I don't have to wonder any more. It was liberating in a sense.
how did you get rejected by 150? did you just cold approach?
 
how did you get rejected by 150? did you just cold approach?
It was at campus mostly. I'd sit someplace busy and when girls would sit nearby I'd start a conversation on some pretext.
 
The main reason I thought about making this thread was because of ron ascending. He was a cool guy to interact with on here and I'm genuinely happy for him unlike a lot of people here.
Yeah, me too. I’m glad he ascended
 

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