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I'm a newly awakened incel I need some help

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I'm new to being an incel, I actually joined like 2 days ago? I don't really understand a lot of the slang so if you guys can give me a crash course so I don't feel like a retard that would be great. Also do I HAVE to hate women?? I don't hate them that much but then again I hate everyone so idk. Women are stupid ASF but other dudes I meet can be even more stupid.
 
I'm new to being an incel, I actually joined like 2 days ago? I don't really understand a lot of the slang so if you guys can give me a crash course so I don't feel like a retard that would be great. Also do I HAVE to hate women?? I don't hate them that much but then again I hate everyone so idk. Women are stupid ASF but other dudes I meet can be even more stupid.
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no crash courses here. just hang around and learn it.
 
You have to hate women or GTFO
 
no crash courses here. just hang around and learn it.
I mean I know a little bit like if I have to go on a wiki or something just to learn I'm gonna run into some stupid ass faggot trying to make the terminology sound wrong or whatever
 
Are you incel? Do you have a gf, have you dated, had sex, etc?
 
Ok bet pill me up with women hate I'm almost there I just need more suicide fule
I learned the slang without asking anyone what the term’s meant. From lurking here to making my old account last year and then this new one I picked up on it pretty fast, it’s not like you’re learning a new language or something.
 
I'm the one who broke your hymen saar
 
Are you incel? Do you have a gf, have you dated, had sex, etc?
Never had sex and never had a gf. I consider myself an incel only recently because every time I try to talk to a girl they look at me like I'm a freak or something

Can't get pussy of they think your a freak yk?
 
I learned the slang without asking anyone what the term’s meant. From lurking here to making my old account last year and then this new one I picked up on it pretty fast, it’s not like you’re learning a new language or something.
Ok thanks there's a bunch of fags tryna say I'm like a spy or something when I'm just new lol. I appreciate the actual advice
 
Never had sex and never had a gf. I consider myself an incel only recently because every time I try to talk to a girl they look at me like I'm a freak or something

Can't get pussy of they think your a freak yk?
Ah ok
 
I'm new to being an incel, I actually joined like 2 days ago? I don't really understand a lot of the slang so if you guys can give me a crash course so I don't feel like a retard that would be great.

Also do I HAVE to hate women?? I don't hate them that much but then again I hate everyone so idk. Women are stupid ASF but other dudes I meet can be even more stupid.
You don't have to hate anybody as an incel and I personally think it's a waste of energy to do so.

Incel = involuntary celibate
There are no attributes in it that tell you to hate anybody.
 
GI Joe not going to help. Goy joe thanks Jebus Israel.

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You don't have to hate anybody as an incel and I personally think it's a waste of energy to do so.

Incel = involuntary celibate
There are no attributes in it that tell you to hate anybody.
Yeah thanks that's what I thought but some of the gents on here are gatekeeping pussies. I just wanna talk about being an incel
 
To answer your question, the wiki is the closest thing to a “crash course”, but the best thing is to lurk the forum to learn the colloquialisms and culture (just try not to pick up the bad parts of the culture).
 
To answer your question, the wiki is the closest thing to a “crash course”, but the best thing is to lurk the forum to learn the colloquialisms and culture (just try not to pick up the bad parts of the culture).
Ok I will. I already saw some Nazi shit so we are off to a great start (sarcasm)
 
I'm new to being an incel, I actually joined like 2 days ago? I don't really understand a lot of the slang so if you guys can give me a crash course so I don't feel like a retard that would be great. Also do I HAVE to hate women?? I don't hate them that much but then again I hate everyone so idk. Women are stupid ASF but other dudes I meet can be even more stupid.
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Ok I will. I already saw some Nazi shit so we are off to a great start (sarcasm)
Also you can just start posting, I think the most important thing is to stay on topic in the respective forums
 
why did it look like I was larping or something
The part where you said “I just became an incel…” just made me want to double check what you meant. Some people join after a month of a “dry spell” but don’t get that most of us have been without any intimacy for our whole lives
 
The part where you said “I just became an incel…” just made me want to double check what you meant. Some people join after a month of a “dry spell” but don’t get that most of us have been without any intimacy for our whole lives
Oh LMAO no I'm the embodiment of extra virgin olive oil
 
Ok thanks there's a bunch of fags tryna say I'm like a spy or something when I'm just new lol. I appreciate the actual advice
Even if you were a spy there are plenty of other spies watching this forum by that logic and they would be already familiar with the lingo since this forum has existed for nearly 8 years.

It’s over=Seeing something blackpilling that is so discouraging that you essentially throw in the towel mentally. When you see a Chad only foid who says something horrible about ugly men for example, we see those things every day so instead of acting surprised we simply say “it’s over”

Just be [blank] theory=Just be confident, a cheap and bullshit explanation on how to attract women after we know damn well confidence comes from being attractive in the first place. The “just be” is like saying “just put a bandaid on your bullet wound bro” hence “just be confident” or “just have a good personality”. The theory part is a mockery of these statements because it’s not even a real theory, it’s just bluepilled nonsense.

Never began=Another way to say it’s over which I explained above. It’s basically saying, “how can it be over when it never began?” To say that your efforts to attract women can’t be over if you never had the chance to attract them to begin with.

Ltn=low tier normie, not attractive but not ugly enough to be considered an incel who can’t get laid for the life of him
Mtn=regular average person looks wise
Htn=attractive but not as attractive as Chad or Stacy (these terms can apply to both male or female but with females the mid women are referred to as “Becky”

Manlet=short man
Tallfag=tall man

Noodlewhore=asian woman
Currywhore=indian woman
Sheboon=black woman

Looksmatch=the female version of someone, basically a woman who is the same rating as a man. A couple who looks the same would be considered a “looksmatched couple” but since women rarely find their looksmatch attractive and instead go for a more attractive man, whenever we see an average or below average looking woman we say “her looksmatch is rotting on this forum” because it’s unfair to her male counterpart that he can’t be with a woman like her.

Those are just the main ones
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Not everyone here does. Just dont be a feminist and dont worship women and you will be fine.

Even if you were a spy there are plenty of other spies watching this forum by that logic and they would be already familiar with the lingo since this forum has existed for nearly 8 years.

It’s over=Seeing something blackpilling that is so discouraging that you essentially throw in the towel mentally. When you see a Chad only foid who says something horrible about ugly men for example, we see those things every day so instead of acting surprised we simply say “it’s over”

Just be [blank] theory=Just be confident, a cheap and bullshit explanation on how to attract women after we know damn well confidence comes from being attractive in the first place. The “just be” is like saying “just put a bandaid on your bullet wound bro” hence “just be confident” or “just have a good personality”. The theory part is a mockery of these statements because it’s not even a real theory, it’s just bluepilled nonsense.

Never began=Another way to say it’s over which I explained above. It’s basically saying, “how can it be over when it never began?” To say that your efforts to attract women can’t be over if you never had the chance to attract them to begin with.

Ltn=low tier normie, not attractive but not ugly enough to be considered an incel who can’t get laid for the life of him
Mtn=regular average person looks wise
Htn=attractive but not as attractive as Chad or Stacy (these terms can apply to both male or female but with females the mid women are referred to as “Becky”

Manlet=short man
Tallfag=tall man

Noodlewhore=asian woman
Currywhore=indian woman
Sheboon=black woman

Looksmatch=the female version of someone, basically a woman who is the same rating as a man. A couple who looks the same would be considered a “looksmatched couple” but since women rarely find their looksmatch attractive and instead go for a more attractive man, whenever we see an average or below average looking woman we say “her looksmatch is rotting on this forum” because it’s unfair to her male counterpart that he can’t be with a woman like her.

Those are just the main ones
:feelsLSD:
Thanks that's actually super helpful. I won't be lost now when I'm lurking
 
I was trying to avoid it but lemme go look I'll take a shot every time I see something biased against incels
no I mean the wiki here :
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if ur on mobile it's on the top left
 
Ok bet pill me up with women hate I'm almost there I just need more suicide fule
Cant even make this shit up
Get your ass back to the police academy bruh:feelskek:

Shit they trained my ass better then that
 
Also do I HAVE to hate women??
Yes

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jk

Chads and normie men are worse in my book, too.

If you don't hate women it's ok. You can still cope and vent here with people who understand your situation. It feels good to talk to people who go through what you go through. :feelsbadman:
 

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