I'm a lurker with some advice/hope

[not2L8]

I lurk here sometimes and it's shocking how young a lot of you are. There's a lot of dudes in their early twenties and a bizarrely large amount of high school kids calling themselves "incels" and giving up on life. Not to mention all the hate and racism they're casually throwing around as a kind of coping mechanism. A few days ago I saw a thread where a bunch of incels were posting their life stories and seeing who had it worse. Most of those stories were identical to mine and posted by younger people.

I was a kissless virgin until I was 25. I was a college dropout, worked in fastfood, lived with my parents, and smoked weed every day. No girl had ever given me a second glance. I was miserable and alone with no future. I'm not going to go into every little detail, but I managed to meet a girl online, we started dating, lost our virginities together, and are still with each other years later. Exactly what I did to get her doesn't really matter, but what I DIDN'T do was turn into a sexist and a racist and praise mass murderers. 

I guess what I'm trying to say is some of you guys have fallen off a bit, but it's not too late to right the ship. Tone down the hate speech. As much as it hurts to admit there IS some hope left. Not exactly sure if these kinds of posts are allowed here, but either way I wish you all good luck. A

 

[Deleted member 3129]

get the fuck outta here

 

[Zielony4]

I'm closing this post.