If you're not actively searching for a relationship, and don't find motivation to search. Are you a volcel or an incel?

[Naturex1]

I'm not sure if I would be able to contribute in a meaningful way if I were to find a relationship and we had a family. So then I don't really see the point of searching for a relationship?
What would I qualify as? A volcel?

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

Depends. Many people cope by saying they don't care about relationships. Others don't actually give a shit. Hard to say.

 

[Deleted member 27768]

no you are still an incel but your cope is nice.

 

[Naturex1]

no you are still an incel but your cope is nice.

Doesn't involuntary imply that you want to have sex/relationship?

 

[Deleted member 27768]

Doesn't involuntary imply that you want to have sex/relationship?

Nope involuntary means that something happened to you without your consent.

 

[Naturex1]

Doesn't involuntary imply that you want to have sex/relationship?

I admit that there has been periods that I wanted to have a relationship. But I'm to shy to approach. Or don't know where or how to go about it = Incel

Then there are periods where idgaf = Volcel.

Nope involuntary means that something happened to you without your consent.

So if you're trying, but can't do it = incel
If you're not trying, and don't care to try = volcel

I'm just trying to find out what differentiates a volcel from an incel.

 

[StSausageCel]

Incel. AFAIK, normies don't have to actively search for relationships.

 

[Mainländer]

Vocel if not hideous and never seriously tried. Incel if hideous and/or has seriously tried in the past.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

Volcel is cope, the natural flow of life should reward you with a girlfriend. If you graduate high school without getting laid and no girl has shown clear interest in you either, you're incel as fuck

 

[TheHopefulBeliever]

Depends, Chad doesn't have to try and search to get one

 

[Over_this_Life]

You should at least approach once

 

[Mecoja]

I dont think volcel exist i would call it mentalcel because people who dont give a flying fuck for relationships are emotionally/psychologically damaged.

 

[Deleted member 16390]

You are only volcel if you have been offered sex/romantic relationship bi a foid butt refused her.

And exactly what does it mean to actively search ? Online apps and sites?
Going solo outside will only end up getting bullied and beat up bi a plethora of white knights and normies.

 

[your personality]

If you aren't actively searching and don't appear to have anything productive going on in your life according to normies you are probably an incel.