First, if you don't live to work you have no business being in America (no pun intended). America is a purely business culture. Even life itself is a business in America. Even strangers don't talk to you unless it's for business. So if you believe your life purpose is to work and make money then yes America may be for you. But if you live for fun, social connection, good times, good memories, interesting experiences, adventure, romance, meaningful things, etc then America is definitely not for you. Because there are many many countries out there that provide 1000x times more fun and good times and meaningful experiences than America does. No comparison. Go travel the world for a year and you will see what I mean. Hence if you aren't a workaholic who lives to work and you don't have an amazing job or career, then you have no business in America and are wasting your time there. Of course this means you should also avoid workaholic Asian countries too like Hong Kong, Japan, Korea, Taiwan, etc.
Moreover, life in America is a routine for the most part where nothing happens and everyday is essentially the same, which makes time pass faster since you are not having any new or interesting experiences like you would abroad. This is a major issue that no one dares to mention.
2. Second, if you are single then you are out of place in America too, because everything in America is geared toward couples and families only. Especially in the US suburbs. There's nothing to do for singles. No activities for singles to have fun and connect with other singles, because people are antisocial and paranoid and don't even talk to strangers unless it's for business purposes. Because America is a business only, not a place for having fun or letting loose or relaxing. And it is strict and uptight and extreme in this regard. If you're not settled down with a wife or husband and family and career then you are the odd man out and have no function or role in America. You will feel weird too because everyone else around you is married and settled into a routine. Moreover, everyone around you in America seems to be married or settled down or taken. You don't really see any single people. And if you do then they are jaded and cynical and not really looking. This means America is a place to settle down and have responsibilities and routines, not a place to have fun or let loose or truly live or be free. As someone told me, "America is a place that is built for doing business, not living life."
However in many other countries there are many fun things to do for single people to get wild and have fun and meet and date others of the opposite sex. Especially in Latin America, Russia, Europe, Southeast Asia. You're never bored or isolated or lonely in those cultures. Because strangers are not afraid to talk to you. There is instant familiarity between strangers and no paranoid ice wall like in America, hence you don't need to "break the ice" to meet people. People will invite you to go out and do stuff more than in America which is antisocial in comparison. Hence other countries are far more social and fun and friendly than America, especially if you're single. Because Americans are super uptight and paranoid and closed off and afraid of others. In other countries when you go out alone you don't have to stay alone like you do in America. You always meet single people when you go out too. Everyone is not taken like in America. It's like a totally different matrix.
These are two very important things to know about America vs many other countries that no media person will ever tell you for some reason. But they are true for the most part based on my honest first-hand experience. And are important for you to know and keep in mind too.
Moreover, life in America is a routine for the most part where nothing happens and everyday is essentially the same, which makes time pass faster since you are not having any new or interesting experiences like you would abroad. This is a major issue that no one dares to mention.
2. Second, if you are single then you are out of place in America too, because everything in America is geared toward couples and families only. Especially in the US suburbs. There's nothing to do for singles. No activities for singles to have fun and connect with other singles, because people are antisocial and paranoid and don't even talk to strangers unless it's for business purposes. Because America is a business only, not a place for having fun or letting loose or relaxing. And it is strict and uptight and extreme in this regard. If you're not settled down with a wife or husband and family and career then you are the odd man out and have no function or role in America. You will feel weird too because everyone else around you is married and settled into a routine. Moreover, everyone around you in America seems to be married or settled down or taken. You don't really see any single people. And if you do then they are jaded and cynical and not really looking. This means America is a place to settle down and have responsibilities and routines, not a place to have fun or let loose or truly live or be free. As someone told me, "America is a place that is built for doing business, not living life."
However in many other countries there are many fun things to do for single people to get wild and have fun and meet and date others of the opposite sex. Especially in Latin America, Russia, Europe, Southeast Asia. You're never bored or isolated or lonely in those cultures. Because strangers are not afraid to talk to you. There is instant familiarity between strangers and no paranoid ice wall like in America, hence you don't need to "break the ice" to meet people. People will invite you to go out and do stuff more than in America which is antisocial in comparison. Hence other countries are far more social and fun and friendly than America, especially if you're single. Because Americans are super uptight and paranoid and closed off and afraid of others. In other countries when you go out alone you don't have to stay alone like you do in America. You always meet single people when you go out too. Everyone is not taken like in America. It's like a totally different matrix.
These are two very important things to know about America vs many other countries that no media person will ever tell you for some reason. But they are true for the most part based on my honest first-hand experience. And are important for you to know and keep in mind too.
