Women are disgusting as a species, they have horrible habits and require repression from men to curb their true nature. Just like breeds of dogs certain breeds of women are better than other, but at the end of the day all of them require a firm hand. It is the extreme and rare exception that would allow me to find happiness. Do I want to love a girl? Yes. Do I want to be loved? Yes. Do I think it will ever happen? Fuck no. Why? Because people like us don't win the fucking lottery and any woman we do get would be a used up roastie single mother who thinks she settled for us and expect us to be grateful.
Now, if I found a young girl, and fell in love, and she was the miracle of miracles, and loved me back, was a good person, loyal, uninfected and immune to soycietal corruption, then I would damn sure pretend I wasn't a hateful incel, but my views wouldn't change. Just because you pick up chocolate in a field of shit doesn't the field isn't still full of shit.
Also those who don't hate blacks after being around them are just bigots. I don't like blacks because of their true nature. I understand their true nature, and I understand the same of women. Anyone who stops disliking women, or blacks, just because they met a good one is simply a fool who never understood them. The exception proves the rule, it does not disprove the rule.