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You need a social circle. That is how 90% of normies meet their girlfriend, through friends. We see the sort of success that people have with autistic approaching during the day, it just doesn't work unless you're really attractive. If you want a girlfriend, get some friends first.
 
If we were 5s and 6s, I’d say sure.
 
In which department can I find friends on?
 
not like anyones willing to share voids

cope
 
Not possible to make friends if you're a robot.
 
im just socially retarded. nothing I can do about it
 
My social circle does not exist...
 
Sure dude, a social circle. Something that even the most autistic mentalcels can build from scratch. Otherwise they're worthless volcel garbage unable to acknowledge basic social skills and rules, hmm, let me think where I have seen this narrative before...

At some point you realize that such idealized friends are mostly bluepilled normies (statistically speaking you're mostly surrounded by those) who'll not only condescend you but not even bother understanding the nature of fate, whereas other fellow blackpilled folks are so cynical they'll frown you either here or IRL, let alone they're most likely empty of any social influence to even introduce you their sisters.

Could list a well nurtured bunch of excuses but they don't really address the main generality that affects most of incels as to how they relate with normies outside dating market. Personality detector or not, sharp or retard, in the long run they'll all come to suspect or figure out what kind of human scum you are.
 
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'friendship is magic' doesn't mean 'friendship is awesome', it means 'friendship probably doesn't exist'
if you're ugly, you can't get friends and if you can't get friends, you can't get a girlfriend - it's over
 
Yes, get some friends and then pray that at least one of them knows a girl who is single and pray even more that the guys who are also trying to date her don't look better than you or have more to offer.
 
'friendship is magic' doesn't mean 'friendship is awesome', it means 'friendship probably doesn't exist'
if you're ugly, you can't get friends and if you can't get friends, you can't get a girlfriend - it's over
Lots of ugly people have friends. Go to any club facebook site and you'll see plenty of subhuman out with their friends. You have to be socially retarded not to have friends. Pretty much everyone has friends.
Yes, get some friends and then pray that at least one of them knows a girl who is single and pray even more that the guys who are also trying to date her don't look better than you or have more to offer.
A girl you know within the confounds of your "circle", she recently broke up with her boyfriend who cheated on her. You take the chance and swoop in. That's how it works.
 
If you know other men and you're an incel, what are the chances that those men don't mog you?

If those men know women, which means women freely associate with them, what are the chances that those men don't mog you?

If those men know women, what are the chances that the women would ever pick you over those men?

What are the chances that the men you know will not be trying to go after those same women themselves?

What are the chances that you know men that know so many women that they willingly pass women off to you for you to get to know them?

I'd say that for incels, the chances for all of the above are extremely low.
 
Lots of ugly people have friends. Go to any club facebook site and you'll see plenty of subhuman out with their friends. You have to be socially retarded not to have friends. Pretty much everyone has friends.

It doesn't matter if you have friends. Incel friends are useless.

What you need is normie friends, and tell me why the fuck would any normshit be friends with us? Think about it, if you were a normie would you hang out with an incel?
 
How does one acquire a social circle? I'm not a good face to face communicator.
 
If you know other men and you're an incel, what are the chances that those men don't mog you?

If those men know women, which means women freely associate with them, what are the chances that those men don't mog you?

If those men know women, what are the chances that the women would ever pick you over those men?

What are the chances that the men you know will not be trying to go after those same women themselves?

What are the chances that you know men that know so many women that they willingly pass women off to you for you to get to know them?

I'd say that for incels, the chances for all of the above are extremely low.

It's still a higher chance than approaching during the day.

I'd say it's an incel's best chance of getting a girlfriend.

We all know our chances are shit, but you've got to take the best ones.
 
I´d rather be incel with no woman and no friends than have friends and a gf.

People have caused me nothing but pain and suffering throughout my life, the last thing I want is to befriend them.

What I want is a wife, but no friends.
 
You need a social circle. That is how 90% of normies meet their girlfriend, through friends. We see the sort of success that people have with autistic approaching during the day, it just doesn't work unless you're really attractive. If you want a girlfriend, get some friends first.

100% agree.
 
True, but making (actual) friends past a certain age is ridiculously hard. Most guys I know hang out with their old school friends
 
How to socialmaxx if nobody wants to be friends
 
Foids won't show interest unless they are 3/10 and worse. Social circle is cope, works maybe for chadlite, not an incel.
 
You need a social circle. That is how 90% of normies meet their girlfriend, through friends. We see the sort of success that people have with autistic approaching during the day, it just doesn't work unless you're really attractive. If you want a girlfriend, get some friends first.
Had a social circle in high school, got mogged got ignored got depressed
 
Foids won't show interest unless they are 3/10 and worse. Social circle is cope, works maybe for chadlite, not an incel.
Then how is the average guy and 4s getting girlfriends?
 
I have nothing to offer people in a friendship, I don't enjoy sitting around drinking and laughing, I know I will never have a girlfriend, I don't actually want one, what I do want is sex but I also know I can't have this unless I pay for it.
 
I never cared about male friendships (hoes before bros tbh) and people don't like me anyway. I will die alone.
 
And what if most of your social circle is bitchless too?
 
This all misses the point that foids don't want to date incels. Their pussy doesn't recommend it.
 
I don't have friends but I know guys who have tons of friends and still don't hook up with anybody. I guess it's even more of a torture when you have friends who get girls and you have to watch them enjoy life.
 
I got a social circle and have been in large social circles. It doesn't work if your standards are too high. Start low and work your way up. Oh that 2/10 girl has a crush on Chad and wouldn't put out for anyone else?

Yeah I been there done that, females don't date down. They will always want to date the guy on top. Remember if their is 10 guys in a group the femoids will go for the top 2.
I would just like to add that being friends with a female is torture... You will want to blow your brains out by the end of the day. Also don't wear your identity on your sleeve, right wing ideals arent popular with the girls (unless you're Chad then it doesn't matter what ideals you have)
 
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If you don't have a social circle then it's a VICIOUS circle of rejection. Cold approching will NEVER work and I can see why femoids would get sickened and creeped out by getting randomly approached by a total stranger in the most autistic way possible, though I do enjoy watching videos of losers like us do this in the most cringeworthy way possible.

I guess I'm part masochist.
 

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