Like the topic title says, If you want to have sex but are unable to and not out of choice, you’re an incel.
Incel stands for involuntarily celibate, meaning you’re a celibate but not of choice, now, is a starved African hungry? Yes. So you couldn’t say that a starved African isn’t hungry just like you couldn’t say ‘I’m unable to have sex but I’m not an incel’ because it makes no damn sense.
This is more complicated than a starving African: said African is starving whether he chooses to starve or involuntarily starves.
The proper comparison would be "involuntarily starving" vs " voluntarily starving".
So then you have to ask: is the African actually involuntarily starving if he could have food available if he just farmed the land?
Of course it could be really hard to farm that land: maybe it's bad soil, maybe you don't have much water, maybe you're an inexperienced planter, etc.
This is basically more complex than people let on and vol/invol is a false dichotomy.
The reality is a spectrum of increasing difficulty.
"Unable to have sex" as an absolute guarantee for a guy is basically only caused by three factors:
1) you don't have a penis
2) no vagina exists to put the penis inside
3) there is a vagina but it's locked in an adamantium cube which you cannot teleport inside
Even then, they're not really absolute guarantees:
- don't have a dick? just genetically engineer stemcells to regrow one and fuck with that
- no vaginas exist to fuck? create a clone in a vat with a vagina and fuck the clone vagina
- invent a teleportation machine to teleport yourself inside the adamantium cube, or invent something which cuts through adamantium, and walk inside and fuck the cubed vagina
Obviously 'three' is oversimplifying things: it seems unusually short and I left out obvious IRL factors to consider beyond "can I do it" like:
1) you want to have sex with a living vagina
2) you want the vagina attached to a living foid
3) you want the living foid to consent to sex
4) you want the foid to be attracted to you and not just fucking with ulterior motives (getting your money, making daddy angry, getting pregnant)
5) you want the foid to be mentally stable so she doesn't falsely accuse you of rape after consenting
Now in regard to achieving the enthusiastic consent of a moral sane foid, factors can stand in the way like physique:
1) you are short
2) you have ugly face
3) you have narrow wrists
4) you have narrow shoulders
5) you have low muscle mass
6) you have bad posture
5 and 6 can be slightly improved upon, usually. Less so with 1-4.
Also economic factors:
1) you live far away from potentially willing foids
2) you don't have a car to get to them
3) you don't have a spacious place to invite them to to fuck them in
4) you cannot afford to bathe regularly and have nice clothes
5) you cannot afford basic social rituals like eating out at a restaurant, even if foid pays her half of the tab
Other stuff I'm sure I've left out, but this goes to show it's very multi-faceted.
Especially in the economic thing, it's a big debate over weather being destitute/unwealthy is "voluntary" or not. Are you voluntarily turning down opportunities to make easy money, or are we expected to waste hard-won money from minimum wage on moneymaxing for ideal chances with foids, etc.
