Go on Crystal Cafe as well but r/FDS is the funniest one tbh
I checked out Crystal Cafe, not sure if it's males LARPing as females or actually autistic females. I will copy and paste things they have said about the age-gap. Get ready:
What is your opinion of relationships with age gaps in which the older partner is the woman?
Whore 1:
I always felt creeped out by older man-younger women relationships because often the older man keeps the women dependent on him. I feel a little less weird about older woman-younger man, because the women is less likely to prey on the guy and rather teach him to be a better, more competent man. Even if it's still grooming in the end it's less creepy.
Whore 2:
I am fucking DISGUSTED when the male is much older than the woman in the relationship. The bigger the gap, the more I want to puke. I think it has to do with the obvious power unbalance + my daddy issues (he cheated on my mom with a much younger girl) + a touch of man-hating.
I don't see that much of a problem when the woman is the older one though. I still think it's weird, and mildly unsettling, but I see it with other eyes. I think it's even cute that a guy would be interested in an older woman. Much older like enough to be their grandma - that's a bit fucked, yeah. I feel like women do not abuse the power dynamic in relationships like men do.
Whore 3:
I know a guy who's 25 and has a baby with a women who in her early to mid 40s and it was obviously super weird. (But he looks
very mature and she's bubbly, stylish and younger-looking, so you get used to it.)
A short while ago his younger brother (22) started dating a 17-year-old and suddenly the other couple is no longer so bad at all…ew
Whore 4:
my bf is 11 years younger than me but has a well paying job, pays his bills, is an adult, etc
it's super weird to me when i remember this is the case. no one notices because we look around the same age.
his fam and friends are okay with it but i still get paranoid he will wake up one day and regret it and worry i victimized him or something