It's Over If you never had a girlfriend and validational sex, you will remain a teenager mentally for the rest of your life.

[Schizoidcel]

It's not just about validational sex, but simply the experience of having a partner who loves you. You may become mature when it comes to your career, but when it comes to females and your social life, you will always remain the same emotionally immature teenager.

As the Maslow's hierarchy of needs shows:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maslow's_hierarchy_of_needs

This is a part of the reason why most of our brains never developed properly, some of even us developing legit mental illnesses.

 

[ItsAllOverButTheCry]

It's true. I'm mentally a child compared to my normie peers.

 

[ElliotRodgerGod]

If you do not have sex in your teenage years it is over, the only thing one can do is to rope or go ER

 

[thebuddhacel]

I fucking hate this desire.

 

[johnnyb]

I wouldn't say you remain mentally a teenager, because I am much more aware of societal shit and how I can operate inside of it, whats my next move based off knowing how the world actually operates (blackpill) but maybe if I was blackpilled those years ago maybe I would still be the same as I am now. idk. I feel myself "maturing" mentally each passing year, learning more about how this shitty world works, etc.

I think not having sex more stunts us along a different line of mental development, that's necessary for being apart of an "in" group with society. so we end up on the outside, as we don't have this "normiezation" to us.

ppl say oh if I were NT I would be having sex, well yes, because to be NT you need to receive regular sex. if you are not getting regular pussy, and you do lowinhibmaxxing, you end up being that loud autist the center of jokes etc. being NT is more than lowinhib, it is being apart of the in crowd and having the right NPC responses to all stimuli, etc, which is only possible if brain has undergone the "normiezation" that regular sex at critical age period provides.

 

[TheRealChincel]

Adult brains tend to be focused on legacy and responsibility, no thanks.

 

[DerPreuße]

Holy shit that was brutal. lol

 

[Schizoidcel]

I wouldn't say you remain mentally a teenager, because I am much more aware of societal shit and how I can operate inside of it, whats my next move based off knowing how the world actually operates (blackpill) but maybe if I was blackpilled those years ago maybe I would still be the same as I am now. idk. I feel myself "maturing" mentally each passing year, learning more about how this shitty world works, etc.

I think not having sex more stunts us along a different line of mental development, that's necessary for being apart of an "in" group with society. so we end up on the outside, as we don't have this "normiezation" to us.

ppl say oh if I were NT I would be having sex, well yes, because to be NT you need to receive regular sex. if you are not getting regular pussy, and you do lowinhibmaxxing, you end up being that loud autist the center of jokes etc. being NT is more than lowinhib, it is being apart of the in crowd and having the right NPC responses to all stimuli, etc, which is only possible if brain has undergone the "normiezation" that regular sex at critical age period provides.

 

[Vorbei]

Many, if not most people are in the state of having a relationship and all its benefits day after day, month after month, year after year for most of their formative years. They grow into a different kind of person. You simply can't catch up to that sort of thing and it's doubly true once you get past a certain age and your brain is fully formed.

 

[FukFeminism]

Maslows hierarchy is no joke

 

[TheGambler2]

tbh with each year passing I feel no difference mentally,feels like I'm stuck as a 15y/o

 

[incel-american]

Jesus fucking christ this place is getting too brutal

 

[Deleted member 17724]

So what will happen to western society as more and more men remain virgins? Will we end up like Japan where men simply lock themselves up in their mother's basement and refuse to take part in society? Because that seems very likely at this point.
I do notice very obvious differences between men who I knew were non-virgins and men who I knew were virgins. The former always have much better social skills, like they were made to interact with people while the latter are always more reserved and end up being recluses.

 

[NoCopeNoHope]

So what will happen to western society as more and more men remain virgins? Will we end up like Japan where men simply lock themselves up in their mother's basement and refuse to take part in society? Because that seems very likely at this point.
I do notice very obvious differences between men who I knew were non-virgins and men who I knew were virgins. The former always have much better social skills, like they were made to interact with people while the latter are always more reserved and end up being recluses.

I doubt we'll lock ourselves up like the herbivore men. Reason being is that Japan is very homogeneous and relatively peaceful. The West will probably devolve into South American or Balkans/Middle East tier violence, with considerable ethnic divisions. Too many weapons, too multicultural. A lot of the virgins and rare sex havers I know, especially the ones in their late 20s and 30s, are far more aggressive then the guys of similar age in LTRs or who have sex regularly and especially those who have kids. They take bigger risks and tend to be far more radical politically. The economic stagnation that impacts the west might be similar to Japan, but the social climate will be far more severe.

 

[FinnCel]

Remember, society wants this

 

[Neggr]

Im stuck in safety

 

[Salustio]

Most incels are immature because of the blupill.

My brother had a wife and divorced her, and he’s barely redpilled. Everytime I hear a normie, with his “prolems” I feel a huge distance from him. One-itis, sadness, “my GF cheated me”, all normie problems I don’t have and never had.

About the Maslow’s hierarchy: it’s an old meme, surpassed, always used as a “proof” that sex is important, but if you observe this graph, you will see that what most (blupilled) incels are talking about when they cope hard is on the top edge of the pyramid. At the bottom, are placed basic human needs, for example sex as a mechanical act, it means that if you have sex with escorts you fulfilled your needs, if you masturbate it’s the same.

Your argument is disproved by just observing normies. If you LARP as a normie, I am sure you will know many of them, they never learn they are blupilled, they ask you suggestions about relationships if you show them a little fraction of your powerlevel. Normies are too easy to trick almost like little childs, they pay for life coaches and always feel the urge to have a personal counselor, because they need planning and strategy for their relationshits, they are not made the way you describe them.

 

[Schizoidcel]

tbh with each year passing I feel no difference mentally,feels like I'm stuck as a 15y/o

Same, in many ways I feel ~14-18 years old was my prime physically and mentally as I had very early puberty. I think I'm actually getting more dumb every year like my brain is rotting, the isolation and not even having any real male friend for a decade doesn't help.

 

[Indari]

ywn get prime pussy

 

[boringcel]

One of my worst nightmares is living past 40. Which would mean, never experience what young person should have experienced and already be old, wrinkly, expired man. Just thinking about that gives me mild panick attack

 

[RollD20]

True I don't feel any older than I was still in highschool.

 

[Alone75]

I made the big mistake of messaging one of the only friends I had from school via FB, he wanted to call and have a chat. Within the first minute he was laughing and said I sounded the same and hadn't changed. Its been over 20 years and I had nothing much to say, he has moved away and has a good job at a university, has 4 kids and a hot wife I saw on his FB too.

Life would have been better if I'd just been in prison instead I think sometimes.

 

[Schizoidcel]

I made the big mistake of messaging one of the only friends I had from school via FB, he wanted to call and have a chat. Within the first minute he was laughing and said I sounded the same and hadn't changed. Its been over 20 years and I had nothing much to say, he has moved away and has a good job at a university, has 4 kids and a hot wife I saw on his FB too.

Life would have been better if I'd just been in prison instead I think sometimes.

That's brutal man, the agepill will kill us all.

 

[BlkPillPres]

I wouldn't say you remain mentally a teenager, because I am much more aware of societal shit and how I can operate inside of it, whats my next move based off knowing how the world actually operates (blackpill) but maybe if I was blackpilled those years ago maybe I would still be the same as I am now. idk. I feel myself "maturing" mentally each passing year, learning more about how this shitty world works, etc.

I think not having sex more stunts us along a different line of mental development, that's necessary for being apart of an "in" group with society. so we end up on the outside, as we don't have this "normiezation" to us.

This

@Schizoidcel
I think you (and many users) have it reversed, is the people who have had enjoyable teenage years that never mature past that point, because they never need to, that success in life continued on into their adulthood and shaped their view of the world, its the reason why they are so naive and optimistic, its the reason why many men are genuinely surprised when their wife divorce rapes them or they find out the child they raised isn't theirs, or their wife is cheating, because from their perspective the world works a certain way and those bad things that happened are the abnormality, for those of us who have been steeped in the filth of the world from our youth and forced to ponder these things and see the world for what it is, we are actually aware of how the world actually works, we won't make the same mistakes as these men, and tbh were much more likely to survive in the world for it, we'll be more ruthless, we'll have less empathy, we'll be less indecisive and emotional, all things that limit your capacity for thought

 

[Deleted member 18214]

It's true. I'm mentally a child compared to my normie peers.

LOL the average normie is a brain dead tard. If you are then idk what to say.

 

[Cuyen]

It's true. I'm mentally a child compared to my normie peers.

we all are.

 

[FrereJacques]

If because of bullying, autism, or ugliness you were deprived of teen love, then it’s over for you. You’ll never be able to catch up socially to your normie counterparts. Even if you drowned in pussy tomorrow, it’s too late.

 

[Alone75]

If because of bullying, autism, or ugliness you were deprived of teen love, then it’s over for you. You’ll never be able to catch up socially to your normie counterparts. Even if you drowned in pussy tomorrow, it’s too late.

Yep, it wouldn't mean anything. That ship has long since sailed, not that it was ever in port and I had permission to board anyway even in my youth.

 

[Deleted member 5653]

Damn this really explains why I still feel like iam 16