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Whenever we complain about loneliness some normie says "just put yourself out there bro" .
ok sure, but the problem is that people naturally AVOID talking to people who are awkward.
imagine this from a normie's pov: You are chilling with you friends then the class weirdo comes over, he talks in a weird way and doesn't know what to do and sounds so shy and doesn't know how to talk properly , walk properly or speak properly would you want to be with him and be his coach and teach him what to do in social situations ?
So we are trapped in a viscous cycle: we are awkward socially, people don't want to be with us because we are weird, we become even more awkward socially.
And it becomes worse because when you become an adult no one expects you not to have any social skills or not know the metric fuckton of convoluted social rules that all normies instinctively know
ok sure, but the problem is that people naturally AVOID talking to people who are awkward.
imagine this from a normie's pov: You are chilling with you friends then the class weirdo comes over, he talks in a weird way and doesn't know what to do and sounds so shy and doesn't know how to talk properly , walk properly or speak properly would you want to be with him and be his coach and teach him what to do in social situations ?
So we are trapped in a viscous cycle: we are awkward socially, people don't want to be with us because we are weird, we become even more awkward socially.
And it becomes worse because when you become an adult no one expects you not to have any social skills or not know the metric fuckton of convoluted social rules that all normies instinctively know