Serious If you dont feel confident. then dont be confident

[Genetic Error]

'confidence is only hot when the guy is hot'

'just be confident bro'

if you are not in the top 20% then dont pretend to be confident. it wont look right. the things you say wont feel or sound right.

if you dont feel confident, then dont act confident. obviously have a backbone but dont force social interactions because theres a reason ur brain is telling u not to socialise. its because no one accepts you

if u was accepted in this world. you would feel confident and keep starting interactions and keep getting positive feedback. confidence isnt forced by normal people. it just happens from their positive experiences in the world

 

[JoeBruhcel]

Act confident in public and in daily interactions, this will troll people

I always act confident and abrasive towards others on public as of recently. It’s a literal troll on the social hierarchy. I’m a short, fat, ugly, and broke, as are most of the rest of us, so what do we have to be confident about?? nothing actually. But it doesn’t matter, because if you play...

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[Shigechi]

Confidence comes from positive feedback. If you try to be confident without that people will think you are just an annoying ugly weirdo with an ego instead of an ugly weirdo without confidence.

 

[JoeBruhcel]

if you are not in the top 20% then dont pretend to be confident. it wont look right. the things you say wont feel or sound right

True, anything you say if you're an ugly/short male wouldn't matter because no one would listen to you or give a fuck about what you're saying

 

[nice_try]

Confidence comes from positive feedback. If you try to be confident without that people will think you are just an annoying ugly weirdo with an ego instead of an ugly weirdo without confidence.

This is why "just be confident" doesn't work.
Confidence has to be based on positive feedback or else it isn't justified and therefore ingenuine, which will show.

 

[Deleted member 36828]

Yeah you need to have status to be confident. If you are in a situation where you feel low status and threatened, you cant be confident

 

[Genetic Error]

Yeah you need to have status to be confident. If you are in a situation where you feel low status and threatened, you cant be confident

yeah with guys i think its height, weight + fight ability + connections with other hard guys

but when around girls its more face, height, previous dating experience with hot girls that causes the confidence

 

[TiredofTalking]

i took a full genome genetic test and it said i was 92 percent percentile for lonliness and 78 for autism. make the connections lol