Brutal If you choose to want a relationship, you deserve to be unhappy

[subhuman]

A lot of incels unironically think that they deserve a girlfriend, and that they need one to be happy or live a fulfilling life or whatever. They justify their unhappiness with some pseud notions of biologism and innate desire for an intimate relationships. However, the actual psychology tells us that all of our emotions and behaviors are the result of our thoughts, assumptions, and beliefs. These incels are more of failed normies. They make a demand on society to accept them, and they make a demand on foids to give them love. Both of these demands are out of their control, so it seems as if the world is some cruel unjust place that is preventing them from self actualizing.

I remember someone posted on wizchan a while ago that when you're a wizard, you have to make your own rules and define your own values, because if you keep skating down rails society has laid for you, it will just make you feel like a miserable outcast. I think this change in perspective is crucial to overcoming depression as an incel. Instead of being a failed normie, try to be a thriving loner. It's not impossible. Tons of guys on wizchan genuinely dont give a fuck about normies and foids and only care about LDARmaxxing. Or there are tons of monks who live ascetic lives.

I don't even think it's cope to give up on being a normie if you can be good at being a loner. People here tend to focus on what we are missing out on, but rarely talked about are the benefits to the bachelor life that normies always complain about missing. Namely, we have more freedom. We don't haver to betabux, we have more free time, we can travel because nothing is tying us down to our hometowns. And we have more sexual freedom fucking prostitutes.

I think for a lot of people though, they just can't handle it. They need to have a wifey or a job or a religion to tell them what to do and how to behave. If they are left alone with their own thoughts they would drive themselves crazy. This is something I despise, because that's cuck behavior. We do not share one struggle if you're like that.

 

[HateCurry]

A lot of incels unironically think that they deserve a girlfriend, and that they need one to be happy or live a fulfilling life or whatever. They justify their unhappiness with some pseud notions of biologism and innate desire for an intimate relationships. However, the actual psychology tells us that all of our emotions and behaviors are the result of our thoughts, assumptions, and beliefs. These incels are more of failed normies. They make a demand on society to accept them, and they make a demand on foids to give them love. Both of these demands are out of their control, so it seems as if the world is some cruel unjust place that is preventing them from self actualizing.

I remember someone posted on wizchan a while ago that when you're a wizard, you have to make your own rules and define your own values, because if you keep skating down rails society has laid for you, it will just make you feel like a miserable outcast. I think this change in perspective is crucial to overcoming depression as an incel. Instead of being a failed normie, try to be a thriving loner. It's not impossible. Tons of guys on wizchan genuinely dont give a fuck about normies and foids and only care about LDARmaxxing. Or there are tons of monks who live ascetic lives.

I don't even think it's cope to give up on being a normie if you can be good at being a loner. People here tend to focus on what we are missing out on, but rarely talked about are the benefits to the bachelor life that normies always complain about missing. Namely, we have more freedom. We don't haver to betabux, we have more free time, we can travel because nothing is tying us down to our hometowns. And we have more sexual freedom fucking prostitutes.

I think for a lot of people though, they just can't handle it. They need to have a wifey or a job or a religion to tell them what to do and how to behave. If they are left alone with their own thoughts they would drive themselves crazy. This is something I despise, because that's cuck behavior. We do not share one struggle if you're like that.

There's a lot of irony here

You don't choose who deserves to be unhappy and who doesn't, you are not the result of your actions, your actions are the result of how you have been treated

You can't just make your own rules while the government and it's laws are around, you have to adhere to that law

Right now my ultimate goal is privacy and free time and no, I don't have that. If I had these I would literally escortcel or rape and genuinely be satisfied, that either comes later in life or it never does for us. No one would care about free time if they couldn't get what they truly want out of life, no one cares about how much time they have in jail.

You can't actually live by your own rules and values in this life because there are too many consequences others have laid out for you if you don't follow their way of life; it is what it is

 

[subhuman]

You can't just make your own rules while the government and it's laws are around, you have to adhere to that law

wtf im not trying to imply you should do anything illegal. lol.

 

[PointOfNoReturn]

@HiddenUzer and I

 

[HiddenUzer.Belgrade]

@HiddenUzer and I

RElationship matters more to me, casual sex doesnt mean anything significant

 

[subhuman]

If you can resist your innate monkey biological desires, then it is 100% possible to live a fulfilling life without foids in it.

I think you don’t even have to do that to have a fulfilling life as a loner. Because you can use prostitutes as an outlet for your sex drive. To me, it’s no different than how some chads will forego relationships to just have casual sex and hookups. Except we have to pay. But it’s better than nothing

 

[ResidentHell]

I think for a lot of people though, they just can't handle it. They need to have a wifey or a job or a religion to tell them what to do and how to behave. If they are left alone with their own thoughts they would drive themselves crazy. This is something I despise, because that's cuck behavior. We do not share one struggle if you're like that.

Yes OP. In humans, stability seems to be maintained through socialization and convergent thinking. Not many people have the fortitude to "go their own way" and embrace the lifestyle of a loner, hermit or social outcast without being driven to suicide or ER, because they lose their sense of "purpose" and their thought activity becomes totally disorganized and disoriented.

It requires a certain kind of strength and enlightenment / insight, to reject cultural codes and beliefs that were taught to you by society, and formulate your own code to live by in replacement of the old values that you have abandoned.

The key is to reject the values that society taught you (as this was partially what led to you being failed by society). Then create your own values and live by them. In spite of the damage that society does to people who fail to fit in with social norms, many people are scared of abandon the values that society taught them. They become mental prisoners to the cultural values that were instilled into them by the same system that denied / failed them.