Serious If you can imagine it, you can achieve it

[-EndlessVirginity-]

Imagining that I have a girlfriend has made me believe that it’s possible for me to become her romantic partner.
I know this girl only from her photos in fb, I’ve never talked with her.
I dream of the day when I meet her, day when I will ask her out on a date.
Living with this idea that one day I will get to be with her and have a good time gives me hope, and I find happiness in knowing that someday this might happen and not remain as a dream only.
In my head we don’t talk, she just looks at me with a smile. Everything is perfect. She’s always there for me with her beautiful smile, and it's her smile all that I need to be happy, put differently, her mental image works as medicine for my unwellness.

Maybe my opportunity to be with her and have a chance at being her boyfriend will never come, but all this that I'm feeling is real. So why does it matter? Moreover, I feel that I can actually be with her, even if I don't know how to talk to girls because I'm a complete loser without any experience.

That's why I make this thread, how do I go on to ask a girl out?
The scenario will be the following:
You're in a guy's house where you will have the chance to talk for the first time to this girl.

What am I supposed to do or say? How am I supposed to act?
Do no tell me to be myself. What's a personality most girls like? What's a method that cannot fail apart from being chad which I'm not.
I know realistically speaking my odds are small but I don't give a rat's ass! I know, I've already seen the future, we are together and I make her laugh and she's interested in me, and we both have a good time.
But what if I fuck up? How to avoid this?
This may never happen, but I have to be prepared on the off chance that it might.

I'm 24 and might be a 3 or 4 in looks, and have zero status and money. If it counts, I'm a bit taller than her.
I won't give up because of my looks, status or money. What WORKS besides being good looking, I need to know.

 

[startcel]

Sorry boyo, this is pure cope. I wish you best of luck though.

 

[Deleted member 18975]

Sorry boyo, this is pure cope. I wish you best of luck though.

 

[78980n]

I bet she's a stacy

 

[TheSecondComing]

Sorry boyo, this is pure cope. I wish you best of luck though.

 

[-EndlessVirginity-]

I bet she's a stacy

I don't give a fuck if she's a stacy.

 

[Deleted member 18435]

All I have to do is imagine my bones, height, NTness, voice, and nose aren't complete shit and I'll be able to exist as Chad and get bitches/a girlfriend finally. BRILLIANT!

 

[Deleted member 19971]

Approach her and update us on her response, this is a huge cope considering she’s a stacy. Nevertheless good luck.

 

[Arch Anemone]

The imagine it so manifests is pseudoscientific nonsense. It's "the secret" series that promotes those theories. Just ignore it.

 

[-EndlessVirginity-]

The imagine it so manifests is pseudoscientific nonsense. It's "the secret" series that promotes those theories. Just ignore it.

Yes, but the power of the mind is such that you'd believe in this lie when it's not completely impossible to achieve.
Imagining she's my girlfriend will have no impact in the outcome, but as I wrote it makes me believe that I can do it.
I believe I can do it even if my odds are almost zero.

What I need to know is

What am I supposed to do or say? How am I supposed to act?
Do no tell me to be myself. What's a personality most girls like? What's a method that cannot fail apart from being chad which I'm not.

 

[Deleted member 19236]

get a jaw implant

 

[-EndlessVirginity-]

get a jaw implant

I said in the OP I have no status and 0 money.

 

[TheReaper]

the funny fact is that while you are spending your life idealizing this girl she's getting railed by random good looking guys.

 

[Deleted member 8353]

In my head we don’t talk, she just looks at me with a smile. Everything is perfect. She’s always there for me with her beautiful smile, and it's her smile all that I need to be happy, put differently, her mental image works as medicine for my unwellness.

I wouldn't do this with an actual 3D foid tbh, seems like it would be emotionally damaging.

the funny fact is that while you are spending your life idealizing this girl she's getting railed by random good looking guys.

Yeah that's what I mean, and that she'd just reject OP anyway.

 

[Sparrow's Song]

So when she calls the cops on you for sexual harassment (that is exactly what it is when an ugly man has interest in a foid), are you going to blow your brains out before the cops show up or shoot it out with them?

 

[Lester]

what is this cope lol

 

[-EndlessVirginity-]

the funny fact is that while you are spending your life idealizing this girl she's getting railed by random good looking guys.

I'm not idealizing the girl, I'm using her as fuel to not give up and to feel good, daydreaming of pleasant things has a positive effect.
I won't assume what she's doing or what she's done, but she's probably not a virgin, which would bother me but won't stop me.

I wouldn't do this with an actual 3D foid tbh, seems like it would be emotionally damaging.

Yeah that's what I mean, and that she'd just reject OP anyway.

It's not different than a father using a picture of her kids and wife to help him go through rough times.

So when she calls the cops on you for sexual harassment (that is exactly what it is when an ugly man has interest in a foid), are you going to blow your brains out before the cops show up or shoot it out with them?

I'm not a disfigured monster. I've seen some of her male friends and I want to think that I facemog two of them.

 

[TheReaper]

I'm not idealizing the girl, I'm using her as fuel to not give up and to feel good, daydreaming of pleasant things has a positive effect.
I won't assume what she's doing or what she's done, but she's probably not a virgin, which would bother me but won't stop me.

as long as you acknowledge that the image you created in your mind is different from the real girl, you should be ok.

 

[-EndlessVirginity-]

as long as you acknowledge that the image you created in your mind is different from the real girl, you should be ok.

I just want some good advice for someone who is below normalfag in looks, a manlet 5'4'', has no money and zero status.

 

[TheReaper]

I just want some good advice for someone who is below normalfag in looks, a manlet 5'4'', has no money and zero status.

bro, are you seriously asking dating advice to incels?
If we knew how to get a foid we wouldn't be here.

 

[Sparrow's Song]

I'm not idealizing the girl, I'm using her as fuel to not give up and to feel good, daydreaming of pleasant things has a positive effect.
I won't assume what she's doing or what she's done, but she's probably not a virgin, which would bother me but won't stop me.


It's not different than a father using a picture of her kids and wife to help him go through rough times.


I'm not a disfigured monster. I've seen some of her male friends and I want to think that I facemog two of them.

No wonder you were acting like that in the other thread. You're not a truecel.

 

[-EndlessVirginity-]

bro, are you seriously asking dating advice to incels?
If we knew how to get a foid we wouldn't be here.

Where else am I gonna ask? Everywhere else they will give me bluepilled advice. I'm an incel, I must play by incel rules when it comes to approaching girls.

No wonder you were acting like that in the other thread. You're not a truecel.

It's because your response to a problem cannot be to harm those who are not responsible for your problem, you're the guy who wants to go ER on incel parents and feels justified in doing so because of the unfairness of life, right? I don't even understand how you reach the conclusion that we should go ER in the first place. There's no logic behind that and it serves no purpose.

 

[Mik_TFL]

Well kid, I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but things are looking kind of grim in your situation. Do a direct approach and get rejected.
If you like daydreaming as a cope tho, I have much better advice for you. Learn lucid dreaming and get yourself a dream girlfriend. It kept me "high" for 10 years, might be less or might be more for you... but eventually you'll long for a real human connection. Hell, maybe by then you will have had increased your SMV enough to escape inceldom. You'd be surprised how far you can get when you are "high on love" for 10 years.

 

[-EndlessVirginity-]

Well kid, I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but things are looking kind of grim in your situation. Do a direct approach and get rejected.
If you like daydreaming as a cope tho, I have much better advice for you. Learn lucid dreaming and get yourself a dream girlfriend. It kept me "high" for 10 years, might be less or might be more for you... but eventually you'll long for a real human connection. Hell, maybe by then you will have had increased your SMV enough to escape inceldom. You'd be surprised how far you can get when you are "high on love" for 10 years.

how old are you now?

 

[Deleted member 16624]

pure cope

 

[Mik_TFL]

how old are you now?

I'll be a wizard next year

 

[Deleted member 18214]

Sorry boyo, this is pure cope. I wish you best of luck though.

 

[-EndlessVirginity-]

I'll be a wizard next year

I'll be a wizard in 6 years.

 

[ihaveno1]

One of the most false quotes ive ever heard

 

[Deleted member 20139]

Conceive, believe, achieve... Shut the fuck up

 

[azakhan]

kek, good luck with imagining, start with better genes. Only after that move on to approaching.

 

[Deleted member 60]

no bro, it doesn't work like that.

 

[JestER]

Sorry boyo, this is pure cope. I wish you best of luck though.

 

[Deleted member 7573]

If what I imagine could really happen, this world would be fucked.

Sorry boyo, this is pure cope. I wish you best of luck though.

 

[littlemanhikicel]