They got what they want in their teens and twenties and early thirties, so it's hard for them to understand why a 35yo chad doesn't want a 35yo Becky who's pussy resembles beef skirt and has probably only 40 fertile eggs remaining. He simply has younger, fitter options, sweetie!
Many women would rather relegate themselves to a trash dating site and cry the river "where are all the good men gone" while getting a boost to their ego by blocking average guys believing they still "got it". The harsh reality is that it's time to settle for these Billy beta 5's or 6/10's spaming you. Thats your relative league, deer. Chad will only use you as target practice or cream filler until he gets a Stacey.