Sorry for rambling, I really don't know and just wrote my thoughts below.
I'm actually not sure. If I could be reborn as a woman, likely because life as a woman is definitely easier. But now that I have all the experiences as a man I am not so sure. I would also be a complete failure as a woman. Being fashionable etc. is really important for women and I am not that. I'm also not social which also is "required" to be a woman. But I guess they also have more natural talent so this would mitigate it somehow? But of course as a woman I could get a relationship. As of now, I would want a girl who is like me, but female. So that would be really compatible as many incels are somewhat autistic like me, so the relationship would probably be decent. But I would have a period and I can't see blood. It would be horrible. And I would have to fuck men and that sounds gross. Of course hormonal changes would make me more attracted to men, but due to my life experience I would still think of it as somewhat gross, at least maybe.
So in total the "plus" would be: A probably decent relationship.
The "minus" would be: Being in an even lower "value percentile" as a woman than as man. Being physically worse in so many aspects. Having to fuck men.
I really want to have a relationship. But would I want it that much? I'm not sure, it's a tough decision. But I think I would be a volcel, at least according to my own standards, if I rejected something like it. Because all functional aspects of a relationship would be fulfilled. And I currently claim that I would even fuck an ugly girl if I could get a functional relationship. So technically being not attracted to men should not matter as I still could breed which is the important functional requirement.
But on the other hand, there is a limit to what I am willing to do. And bleeding each month ... really, I don't want that. I don't think you would be a volcel if you could get sex but would start bleeding out of your dick each month and being a woman comes with lots of other physical disadvantages as well. But I would really want to have children, and that would give me the option. It's a hard question.
So my question
@kay' Would I have to choose immediately or could I think about it for a day, a week or more? Because that's what I likely would do to make a decision.
Getting dominated by others and be used like a cum dumpster is too much to bear
I don't think that's necessary. I would treat my girlfriend as an equal so if I were a woman I could just get someone like me, sounds easy enough. In the western world women also have more power socially, so you wouldn't be dominated. Being a woman in e.g. the arab world however sounds horrible, I think then I would still prefer being an incel?
I don't want to be a girl. I want to be a beautiful, masculine man.
duh. I think in total attractive men have it the best, but ugly men have it the worst. I definitely would choose being a normie man over being a normie woman, that's not a question. But an incel man VS a becky woman is a totally different, much harder question as beckies have it way, way easier than incels while for normies I am actually not sure. Of course normie women have it way easier in relationships, but also in the rest of life? I don't know.
That wouldn't work for me. If you are a lesbian you cannot breed with your partner and that would be one of the major reasons I want a relationship.
