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Like an ugly guy who had sex with a girl because he wasn't considered unfuckable before the tinder era, or because he put enormous efforts into it, or because the girl at the time still believed in innocent love, or just because he was lucky. And then he hasn't had sex for a decade because the standard have gone skyrocket, and he couldn't repeat his success.

Would you still consider him an incel?
 
Yes, of course. In the West every sub 8 man can be an Incel nowadays. Remember the 80/20 rule.
 
Yes, of course. In the West every sub 8 man can be an Incel nowadays. Remember the 80/20 rule.
I just got the impression that many guys have "descended" due to the incredible rise of foid standards.
 
So you're asking if you're incel?
I personally think anyone who ever had a gf can't be incel, because he obviously could get laid somehow and just needs to repeat/improve what he did back then.
But there are plenty of people who will disagree with me, and that's okay.
I'll be a wizard soon, I'm a bitter soul. I don't like youngcels and I don't like people who claim to be incel while they had a gf before. But that's just me being a desperate virgin.
 
Yes, of course. In the West every sub 8 man can be an Incel nowadays. Remember the 80/20 rule.
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So you're asking if you're incel?
I personally think anyone who ever had a gf can't be incel, because he obviously could get laid somehow and just needs to repeat/improve what he did back then.
But there are plenty of people who will disagree with me, and that's okay.
I'll be a wizard soon, I'm a bitter soul. I don't like youngcels and I don't like people who claim to be incel while they had a gf before. But that's just me being a desperate virgin.
Not me, although I do believe I would have had a slight chance to ascend if I had put enough efforts before the online dating era. I was just too socially awkward lol.

I'm just curious. Like if a sub5 had sex once or a few times because his game finally worked with a girl, but he has never been able to repeat his success for years because he couldn't pass the elevated threshold for looks, is he still an incel?
 
@StaroRavager Statistics have shown that western whores consider whole 80% of men as unattractive. So I'm not so wrong with what I say.
 
@StaroRavager Statistics have shown that western whores consider whole 80% of men as unattractive. So I'm not so wrong with what I say.
Dude, your using OkCupid and Tinder data to tell you how the sexual marketplace functions. Only sub4 men can be considered incels
 
Most guys go through periods where they’re incel, what you’re thinking of is truecel. Once you have sex with a civilian, you’re not incel and can never be a truecel again but you can easily become an incel again.

Truecel = never had sex
Incel = hasn’t had sex in at least six months.
 
Yes, Tinder is absolutely real life. These days more people hook up on Tinder than in clubs and bars. Foids love it because you can't even talk to them if they don't like your pics first.
 
Some users get really persnickety about who gets to carry the coveted title of "incel". It's ridiculous.
 
Would you still consider him an incel?
Sure he is. If he had one girfriend because he hypogamated like a fuck when was still bluepilled and then didn't get any sex again (and ageing made him even more ugly and awkward), he is out of the game.
 
No, an incel is someone who's never kissed or had sex with a girl from my understanding. Even to the extent of never having a female friend in our lifetime.
 
Yes they can be an incel, but they're not a truecel.
 
Like an ugly guy who had sex with a girl because he wasn't considered unfuckable before the tinder era, or because he put enormous efforts into it, or because the girl at the time still believed in innocent love, or just because he was lucky. And then he hasn't had sex for a decade because the standard have gone skyrocket, and he couldn't repeat his success.

Would you still consider him an incel?
High iq thread but members won´t recognize it. There is a huge difference in how things are now to what they were 10 years ago before social media went through the roof.
 
Yes, Tinder is absolutely real life. These days more people hook up on Tinder than in clubs and bars. Foids love it because you can't even talk to them if they don't like your pics first.
You sub8 theorists and Tinder worshipers are jumping the gun by a wide margin
 
You sub8 theorists and Tinder worshipers are jumping the gun by a wide margin
I don't subscribe to sub8 theories, I'm just saying that hooking up via Tinder is normal these days and if anything approaching women you don't know in Real Life is weird (good looking guys get a pass).
 
Being an incel is something that you experience the second you enter puberty
Social ostracization, disgust and disrespect from foids....being seen as subhuman

Never having a gf is obvious, growing up fucked up without affection and intimacy
If you dont have a ball of hate for the abuse women have put you through through their merciless rejection you aint an incel
 
If you’ve had sex then you aren’t a incel. You are a blackpill normie.
 
If he isn't some fakecel BDD faggot but a legit ugly guy, then sure.
 
Sub-8 theorists need to be stoned to death.
:what:
But to have a relationship you don't need to be 8+/10.
If you want to have a loyal GF who you can be sure she is not cheating on you, you have to be a Chad. It makes no sense for a sub 8 man to have a GF, as she would cheat on you anyway with a Chad if she had the chance to do so. Whether you want to believe it or not, the reality is that if you're not Chad then it's over for you!
 
oldcels that had sex once 20 years ago are called fakecels by users that were still sperm at the time.
JFL at these kids
 
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oldcels that had sex once 20 years ago are called fakecels by users that were still sperm at the time.
JFL at this kids
This, it's critical to remember that the bar has gone higher. Like while you would be able to have a girlfriend as a 3/10 if you tried hard enough before the tinder era, it's over for you today if you're sub5.

Also, one or two decades are already more than long enough for the "not having sex during a significant long time span" criteria. Some here claim you're incel if you haven't had sex for 6 months. For me it'd be 3 years.
 
if you got laid pre-2008 you are forgiven for your sins.

if not, get the fuck out now.
 
Pretty sure that all men who aren't virgins but could only get sex by paying for it are still incels

I'm sure there are millions that fit in that category because im one of them
 
Pretty sure that all men who aren't virgins but could only get sex by paying for it are still incels

I'm sure there are millions that fit in that category because im one of them
Have you had unpaid sex at least once in your life? If you have but only did it more than 3 years ago I'd still consider you incel.
 
Have you had unpaid sex at least once in your life? If you have but only did it more than 3 years ago I'd still consider you incel.
Yes I agree, just take george sodini,he had sex with a number of women when he was in his 20s, but didnt have sex for 19 years before he went into a all female gym and committ a spree killing
 
I don't subscribe to sub8 theories, I'm just saying that hooking up via Tinder is normal these days and if anything approaching women you don't know in Real Life is weird (good looking guys get a pass).
Hooking up on Tinder is certainly commonplace these days, but people still get laid through real-time interactions IRL
 
We all have our own definitions of who is an incel. Someone like George Sodini, who went 19 years without sex, would definitely be incel by my standards, although of course "truecel only" purists would disagree.

I don't agree with the other extreme and the "6 month" rule either, though. Anyone who's had voluntary, unpaid sex with a woman a mere six months ago isn't an incel and frankly should still be on a high from the memories. I know I would be if I had them. I'd say it should be at least three years without sex for someone to even begin to be considered an incel.
 
He had sex once more than I did.
 
He technically fits the definition of incel, so obviously
 
Yes, of course. In the West every sub 8 man can be an Incel nowadays. Remember the 80/20 rule.
Wrong. All sub8’s are not incel. BUT every single sub8 without exception is NOT a girl’s first choice, and is being settled on because the girl can’t do any better, or he is purchasing pussy with LTR or marriage. Sub8 men are not loved by their girlfriends/wives because they are inferior men with no sex appeal.

It’s the sub 4’s that are incel because virtually every girl can score a guy better than a 4 regardless of her SMV, and those that can’t are so ugly they won’t make any guy’s dick hard. At sub-4 looks, you need so much money to offset your height/face/hair/dick/ethnicity that it’s almost impossible to make that much, and in the end might not even be worth it knowing you’ll just be tolerates as a means to an end.

Inceldom is a direct cause of women being allowed to work, and the sexual revolution/destruction of religion. Men don’t have leverage over foid’s survival, so mate selection turns to reproductive value instead. As time goes on, and foid’s survival is guaranteed and their baseline life quality goes up, a larger and larger percentage of men will be incel. The state will fulfill the provider’s role in the dual mating strategy, and we will see top tier men forming harems. There’s no other way for it to go.

The only option for sub-4’s is to move to a country where things are so bad, that a sub-4 would be considered valuable. It’s a 0-sum thing cause that will just take some man’s woman away and make him incel.. end of the day, women’s rights need to be removed worldwide, religion needs to come back, social media needs to be nuked, makeup needs to be banned, and premarital sex needs to be punished by death. That will bring back some order to the sexual market conducive to the survival and prosperity of civiciliation.
 
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