This is brutal, I have zero personality
By that I mean
No specific character to separate myself from others.
Can't hold long talks.
Have simply nothing, absolutely nothing in mind 99% of times to even start a small talk.
Can't create a joke in the instant.
Body language wise, I always have a hunched shoulder.
Keep combing my hair every 10 min since it falls flat and shows my balding temples.
Simply put there's zero special character in me which I can use even if personality actually mattered.
What's worse is your personality is also genetic. A few months ago I realised, how I walk like my dad, drive like him and how I always seek for conspiracies like my mom does it about my joint family members.
Personality is absolutely genetic, if your dad was a people's man, a funny guy, you will also turn into him, if you were born in a abusive household and whose parents have anti social behaviour you will also be a out cast with anti Social behaviour. My dad always shit talks on me about how I always stay at home, I thought he was a world sailor and he is embarassed that I, his son is complete opposite of him, but as I grew older, I found out that he also has no friends and stays mostly at home if given a holiday, he just doesn't want me to end up like him, he even laughed at me when I was in High school and was talking with a friend " you have a friend ? Haha"
Even if you see through the lenses of- Great Personality leads to relationships, most guys would be incels since you can't fake your personality
Summary: you can't fake your personality, so not even get a good personality helps, the way you talk, react to higher and lower position people, engage with people is all the environment you grew up with and mostly genetics.
By that I mean
No specific character to separate myself from others.
Can't hold long talks.
Have simply nothing, absolutely nothing in mind 99% of times to even start a small talk.
Can't create a joke in the instant.
Body language wise, I always have a hunched shoulder.
Keep combing my hair every 10 min since it falls flat and shows my balding temples.
Simply put there's zero special character in me which I can use even if personality actually mattered.
What's worse is your personality is also genetic. A few months ago I realised, how I walk like my dad, drive like him and how I always seek for conspiracies like my mom does it about my joint family members.
Personality is absolutely genetic, if your dad was a people's man, a funny guy, you will also turn into him, if you were born in a abusive household and whose parents have anti social behaviour you will also be a out cast with anti Social behaviour. My dad always shit talks on me about how I always stay at home, I thought he was a world sailor and he is embarassed that I, his son is complete opposite of him, but as I grew older, I found out that he also has no friends and stays mostly at home if given a holiday, he just doesn't want me to end up like him, he even laughed at me when I was in High school and was talking with a friend " you have a friend ? Haha"
Even if you see through the lenses of- Great Personality leads to relationships, most guys would be incels since you can't fake your personality
Summary: you can't fake your personality, so not even get a good personality helps, the way you talk, react to higher and lower position people, engage with people is all the environment you grew up with and mostly genetics.
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