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Perhaps some of you have seen this chart.
Nevertheless at some level people here are familiar with the sour grapes charge whenever they criticize women, feminism or even society in general when it privileges women:
"lmao you're just mad you couldn't get any", "can't get a date and big mad huh?", "lol y'all salty cause you can't get no pussy".
And yet even outside of criticizing women should a guy talk about how he doesn't care about attracting women he is hit with accusations of having a small dick, "we get it you couldn't get a woman" and similar types of shaming.
Whenever the idea of men trying to find solace in being single is brought up in a group there are always humblebragging normies coming in and talking about how while they pretend to understand and assume you are hurt, a relationship brings many benefits and that they feel sorry for you because you are expressing being okay with being alone.
It even happens in explicitly incel communities where humblebragging normies have to mention "I actually have a gf and I agree with this haha" and when told nobody cares and to stop mentioning something so pointlessly, they start virgin shaming.
Simply put normies demonstrate through their actions that not only do they judge men on whether they can get women or not, they also don't want men to live in ignorance of whether it's possible for them to get women and feel the need to imply it's sour grapes every time to rub it in.
Example:
"I don't really care about women."
"More like you can't get a woman!"
"Sex is overrated I don't really care about it."
"Seems like something a virgin would say but okay."
"I actually think women are more trouble than it is worth it."
"Lol sure bud whatever helps you sleep at night."
Not only are normies happy when they see nonchad men that can't get women, they sadistically want them to know this and will point it out if they seem blisfully unaware or seemingly not phased by it. Women especially but many men are at fault for doing this too.
If people didn't really care nobody would say anything when nonchad men say they are fine not being validated or having attention from women. But infact when such nonchad men do say it especially on social media people come out of the woodwork completely unwarranted to mock them and start attacking them with personal insults like how they have a small dick, are insecure, couldn't get a woman to begin with. Even IRL people will always make it a point to say you proclaiming you are fine if women don't like you and you can live with it to be "sad" and "pathetic".
And if you claim you'd rather not deal with women since you know you aren't going to get anything out of it you are mocked about how you couldn't get a woman anyway and harassed about what you are missing out on and people insist you are just butthurt. These are some of the same people that would otherwise tell you relationships aren't everything and to focus on yourself in other circumstances.
In anti-incel harrassment groups the response of incels joking about fat women or saying they'd rather not stoop to that level when they are themselves thin, is to instead of just taking it as is, is to have to get in the jab of things like "not like she would even consider you/those guys anyway and you're just mad about it XD".
What happened? All that talk of how it doesn't matter whether you are successful with women or not. Yet it's the first thing they attack you on.
Talk about how a woman is old, ugly and delusional and expects chads? The people in those groups again jump to the conclusion that you are just bitter you can't get those women, that the woman you were talking about would reject you anyway and sometimes even say "I don't think women are missing out on much" preemptively without even knowing you.
If normies didn't really care they wouldn't go out of their way to point out so blatantly that any nonchad men realizing their lack of luck with women and living with it is just sour grapes.
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