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I registered to share some advice with you all, I was once like you and couldn't develop relationships and sex, but now I never struggle and I'm only ever single by choice!
I was going nowhere in life, also shy and unconfident around people, especially guys I felt attracted to. I was also not taking care of how I look as much as I should have and staying in my bedroom on the internet every day. But then I decided I needed to change things!
I enrolled in a college course and got help getting work through an agency soon after and the employer soon took me on directly. I started exercising more and lost 10 pounds and now look slim and toned. Guys started noticing me more, the ones I liked even. I smilied and were confident and kept eye contact and got approached by nice guys, I always rejected them in the past because of how worthless I felt! I even made the first move on some and got numbers [see girls make moves too].
I still live with my parents but if someone really likes you that won't matter either, the cost of living and things is high so girls will understand mostly. Don't make excuses and fail before you've even tried and get out there and live, you only have one life so make it count.
Caroline x
I was going nowhere in life, also shy and unconfident around people, especially guys I felt attracted to. I was also not taking care of how I look as much as I should have and staying in my bedroom on the internet every day. But then I decided I needed to change things!
I enrolled in a college course and got help getting work through an agency soon after and the employer soon took me on directly. I started exercising more and lost 10 pounds and now look slim and toned. Guys started noticing me more, the ones I liked even. I smilied and were confident and kept eye contact and got approached by nice guys, I always rejected them in the past because of how worthless I felt! I even made the first move on some and got numbers [see girls make moves too].
I still live with my parents but if someone really likes you that won't matter either, the cost of living and things is high so girls will understand mostly. Don't make excuses and fail before you've even tried and get out there and live, you only have one life so make it count.
Caroline x
