If any non relative or non close friend complimented you, you are able to escape.
The compliment has to be unsolicited, bonus points if its out of the blue and there wasnt a conversation going about looks. Ill explain, from most important to least important, the features that if complimemented, can mean your escape. Looks are usually something very compromising to compliment, as it can draw attention from the one who gets complimented to the one who compliments. Truecels usually never get those compliments because even if they have one good feature, girls wouldn't want to risk the incel going after them.
-Being called "hot": Obvious one. Raw sexual attraction. Easy one.
-Being called "handsome": A mix between aesthetically pleasing and sexual appeal. High tier compliment too.
-Being called "cute": Generally aesthetically pleasing. There is a sligh chance that sexual attraction is not here.
-Complimented on eyes: Good eyes need a good surrounding bone structure, which means that your cheekbones, orbital rims, eyebrows, and forehead are probably aesthetic. High tier compliment. Bonus points if you don't stand out for your eye color.
-Complimented on jawline: Less common compliment as this is usually more of an "internet" "social media" one. It means that your lower third is on point and your eye area is not bad enough to draw negative attention from your jaw. Good one.
-Complimented on body: Means good frame and average enough face to look decent.
-Complimented on nose or mouth: Good enough jaw for your mouth to look good "inside" it, good enough midface for your nose to look good on it. A compliment on nose usually means that you don't have a recessed chin, recessed jaw or recessed maxilla.
-Complimented on hair: This is one of the weakish ones. Hair can halo you a lot but hair is something that is not compromising to compliment at all.
-Complimented on clothes: Weakest one of all, as its about something that is not inherent to you. I can contain a hidden body compliment tho.
That is what I think is a good guide to judge looks related compliments, and the importance of each trait to asses if you have possibility to escape inceldom.
If you get compliemented about personality, its usually over, UNLESS its something exagerated like "you are funny" for saying something that isnt even funny or "you are a genius" for doing something that doesnt even require effort (exaggerated compliments on personality usually means you are under good halo effect).
The compliment has to be unsolicited, bonus points if its out of the blue and there wasnt a conversation going about looks. Ill explain, from most important to least important, the features that if complimemented, can mean your escape. Looks are usually something very compromising to compliment, as it can draw attention from the one who gets complimented to the one who compliments. Truecels usually never get those compliments because even if they have one good feature, girls wouldn't want to risk the incel going after them.
-Being called "hot": Obvious one. Raw sexual attraction. Easy one.
-Being called "handsome": A mix between aesthetically pleasing and sexual appeal. High tier compliment too.
-Being called "cute": Generally aesthetically pleasing. There is a sligh chance that sexual attraction is not here.
-Complimented on eyes: Good eyes need a good surrounding bone structure, which means that your cheekbones, orbital rims, eyebrows, and forehead are probably aesthetic. High tier compliment. Bonus points if you don't stand out for your eye color.
-Complimented on jawline: Less common compliment as this is usually more of an "internet" "social media" one. It means that your lower third is on point and your eye area is not bad enough to draw negative attention from your jaw. Good one.
-Complimented on body: Means good frame and average enough face to look decent.
-Complimented on nose or mouth: Good enough jaw for your mouth to look good "inside" it, good enough midface for your nose to look good on it. A compliment on nose usually means that you don't have a recessed chin, recessed jaw or recessed maxilla.
-Complimented on hair: This is one of the weakish ones. Hair can halo you a lot but hair is something that is not compromising to compliment at all.
-Complimented on clothes: Weakest one of all, as its about something that is not inherent to you. I can contain a hidden body compliment tho.
That is what I think is a good guide to judge looks related compliments, and the importance of each trait to asses if you have possibility to escape inceldom.
If you get compliemented about personality, its usually over, UNLESS its something exagerated like "you are funny" for saying something that isnt even funny or "you are a genius" for doing something that doesnt even require effort (exaggerated compliments on personality usually means you are under good halo effect).
