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Idk how many of you been on dates but

dr-problematic

dr-problematic

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point is that its a cope. For real incels, let me repeat it, REAL INCELS, looksmaxing wont solve all the problems. Those of us who were really cursed with shit genetics for better part of their life, lets say to 22, we didnt socialize much, we didnt go out with friends, didnt go to clubs or parties, didnt travel around. We dont have life experience in general as of being manly and getting shit done or real life memories you can share with a girl you will date.

It's a dead loop those real ones of us stuck in. Having no real friends is a clear indicator that something is wrong with you by standards of modern society. Regardless of the reasons you may bring up its just a fact, if you dont actively engagy socailly something is wrong with you for other people.

Being unexperienced in life same as being a virgin for a girl, its a red flag saying that this dude fucked up somewhere down the line or he was unlucky or he got shit genetics.

Reality is that nooone, let me repeat noone, will give a shit why you are where you are. People want to see the end result. They want to see your looksmaxed version. They want to see successfull person. Socially intergrated, engaged in different fun activites all around. Someone who can bring action into one's life.

Therefore even after looksmaxing you cant be true you, you will have to Hollywood around chisk to try to score, and even that is top of what you can hope for.
You might score sex, but if you want a gf, she wont be around you, if you show your real self, and eventually you WILL HAVE TO.

Real incels are depressed, unmotivated to do whatever, cuz whole our lives we had negative reinforcement and terrible memories while participating in society.
It's fucking brutal for us older guy, because there is certain point after which its too late already. Like literally too late.

If you are 23+ you have to have life besides looks, experience, memories, friends, connections, income etc.

I think there is no going back from here for me. It is ldar/suicide inducing.
 
I haver been on a date. I knida agree with your post but if you don't have life experience you are subhuman confirmed. And the whole "NT" theory is bulshit. All these guys you consider "ugly" that have lif experience might not be ugly at all for other. It's all about looks. Besides, subhumans don't go on dates so what do you need life exeprience for. You just need a nice prostitue to take care of your sex urges every now and then.
 
incelman said:
I haver been on a date. I knida agree with your post but if you don't have life experience you are subhuman confirmed. And the whole "NT" theory is bulshit. All these guys you consider "ugly" that have lif experience might not be ugly at all for other. It's all about looks. Besides, subhumans don't go on dates so what do you need life exeprience for. You just need a nice prostitue to take care of your sex urges every now and then.

im talking about situation when you actually looksmax and do look better/much better than before and can attract some girls judgin off your physical appearance.

also what's NT theory.

life experience is needed for everything, not only women, so you are saying some absolute nonsense here.
 
I wouldn't make it that absolute. Some people are incels cause they never really tried. I didn't get my first date until 26, and that was mostly due to a lack of effort.
 
dr-problematic said:
im talking about situation when you actually looksmax and do look better/much better than before and can attract some girls judgin off your physical appearance.

also what's NT theory.

life experience is needed for everything, not only women, so you are saying some absolute nonsense here.

NT=neurotypical.

Life experiences come along with socially acceptable looks.
 
blackcel said:
I wouldn't make it that absolute. Some people are incels cause they never really tried. I didn't get my first date until 26, and that was mostly due to a lack of effort.

if you dont try that means you arent incel, you are voluntary celibate, you just didnt go for it.

i was speaking about real incels.
 
Well said, I'm 5'5 so I don't even bother to try
 
Completely agree with you. I never had a friend (or a gf obviously) and have been isolated most of my life and, as a consequence, i never had any experience worth sharing. Being socially retarded at my age (27) is a no-return point. I can do nothing to solve It but It fucks every secpnd of my existence. Now i have no chance of lving as a human being.

So, yeah, being ugly fucks your social skills, which fucks our personality and mental health, that eventually fucks everything else (job, gf, hobbies...). Being an ugly beta male nowadays is the closest thing to hell human kind has ever known.
I hope i die soon
 
incelman said:
I haver been on a date.

Fakecel.


dr-problematic said:
if you dont try that means you arent incel, you are voluntary celibate, you just didnt go for it.

i was speaking about real incels.

I'm a real incel and I've never tried because I already knew the outcome.
 
in other words, it's over
 
CopingGymcel said:
Been on date = girls are interested in you.

I made a typo. I meant I have never been on a date.
 
incelman said:
I made a typo. I meant I have never been on a date.


[video=youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MSrTnWDTdwI[/video]
 
incelman said:
I haver been on a date. I knida agree with your post but if you don't have life experience you are subhuman confirmed. And the whole "NT" theory is bulshit. All these guys you consider "ugly" that have lif experience might not be ugly at all for other. It's all about looks. Besides, subhumans don't go on dates so what do you need life exeprience for. You just need a nice prostitue to take care of your sex urges every now and then.

humans need emotional contact though, but a good escort can certainlymake you feel good for a while
 
blackpill_incel said:
humans need emotional contact though, but a good escort can certainlymake you feel good for a while

An incel can't have much. It would be nice if I could just call an escort for some sex every now and then.
 
Sucks for the rest of you not a mentalcel, just an uglycel. If I became good-looking I'd be slaying easy.
 
Sucks for the rest of you. I'm not a mentalcel, only an uglycel. If I was good looking I'd be slaying easy.
 
incelman said:
An incel can't have much. It would be nice if I could just call an escort for some sex every now and then.

you can. i do it 2+ times per month
 
IsolationHurts said:
Completely agree with you. I never had a friend (or a gf obviously) and have been isolated most of my life and, as a consequence, i never had any experience worth sharing. Being socially retarded at my age (27) is a no-return point. I can do nothing to solve It but It fucks every secpnd of my existence. Now i have no chance of lving as a human being.

So, yeah, being ugly fucks your social skills, which fucks our personality and mental health, that eventually fucks everything else (job, gf, hobbies...). Being an ugly beta male nowadays is the closest thing to hell human kind has ever known.
I hope i die soon

after living life through this sick joke and a torture, i realized everything as karma or religion is absolute horse shit.

we are living in hell right now, we are struggling and burn inside like 1000 suns daily. its not about next life, future or else. we are fucked right here, right now.

and icing on the cake is that it will only get worse with age, every years goes by and you will deteriorate more and more


Nautica1983 said:
Sucks for the rest of you. I'm not a mentalcel, only an uglycel. If I was good looking I'd be slaying easy.

what you mean mentalcel, we are where we are only because we were ugly and denied by females and rejected by society, its not cuz we tried or we were born retarded / schizophrenic.

having shit life is a consequence of poor physical apperance.
 
being ugly PLUS either mentalcel or very high inhibition is absolutely a death sentence of which you will never become normal.
 
incel scum said:
being ugly PLUS either mentalcel or very high inhibition is absolutely a death sentence of which you will never become normal.

there are too many clown copers here calling themselves 'mentalcel'

ugliness leads to negative reinforcement and you lose self value while moving through years of life, eventually you end up being anxious with low self esteem and uncofidence about yourself, because society said so
 
Tbh I reckon I converse quite well and would do good on a date. My currycel subhumanity is the barrier
 
ilieknothing said:
Tbh I reckon I converse quite well and would do good on a date. My currycel subhumanity is the barrier

what would u speak about?
 
dr-problematic said:
ilieknothing said:
Tbh I reckon I converse quite well and would do good on a date. My currycel subhumanity is the barrier
what would u speak about?
Random shit about what is happening and make jokes about the situation. My friends have told me that when speaking to females, the females referred to me as very funny. I know from this the personality myth is crocksjit
 
Yeah, it's the ultimate catch-22. You can't gain experience if you're constantly rejected for not having any.
 
I'm going to save this. When I eventually go sui, I will tweak this and make the modified version my suicide note.
 
ilieknothing said:
Random shit about what is happening and make jokes about the situation. My friends have told me that when speaking to females, the females referred to me as very funny. I know from this the personality myth is crocksjit

its a cope, i wasnt speaking about 1 date.

when it progresses to stage of ltr or str, not ons.
 
fukmylyf said:
Yeah, it's the ultimate catch-22. You can't gain experience if you're constantly rejected for not having any.

and this is why this whole thread is cope

sorry op, no offense, I read every thread with pleasure
 
nausea said:
and this is why this whole thread is cope

sorry op, no offense, I read every thread with pleasure

not sure what u r talkin about
 
blackpill_incel said:
humans need emotional contact though, but a good escort can certainlymake you feel good for a while

Sex or at least romantic interaction with females is a basic necessity, like food and water. A man deprived of women won't necessarily die, but he will over time go insane. When people criticize us for being "entitled", they are saying that we don't deserve to be with women. They are saying we deserve to be alone. They are saying it's better for us to go insane than for women to be inconvenienced with interacting with us.
 
nausea said:
and this is why this whole thread is cope

sorry op, no offense, I read every thread with pleasure

are you agreeing with me or?
pls elaborate
 
fukmylyf said:
are you agreeing with me or?
pls elaborate

yes I agree with you

my brain can't elaborate anything anymore, decades of loneliness and heartbreaks have permanently compromised my cortical functions
 

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