RageFuel I wasnt socialized properly

[Deleted member 20659]

My mother repressed and was overly moralistic with me as a kid so i wouldnt be violent and wasnt able to play with other boys, i ended up an outcast most of the time, that fucked up my social development. The result is that i am a total sperg, cant interact with others properly, am high inhib and polite IRL but also with fucked up fantasies and antisocial tendencies, extremely alienating. I also have physical symptoms resulting from this for example I might start shaking or crying in certain social situations where it isnt at all appropriate because of my fucked up socialization

 

[Norton]

Sounds so much like me.

I was practically raised to be a spergy reject.
Most of the time I'm beta high inhib polite ultra-careful sperg with a thin emotional skin, with little early-life social experience except with parents. Even if someone is deliberately being an ass towards me, I'm still high inhib most of the time. I rather say nothing and don't go into conflict. Or sometimes, if there is some conflict and someone starts talking with me, I suddenly go into autism overdrive and start argumenting rationally.
It's not autism btw, it's massive emotional repression.

Conflict avoidance is so very beta.
I hate myself for being this way, and I hate my parents for having raised me in a way that gave me little room to become a different kind of person.

It doesn't matter either way. Even if I knew how to handle conflict and abuse easier/better, I would still have zero matches on tinder and still be an incel.
Character can't overcome an ugly appearance.

 

[Deleted member 23712]

Another ricecel?

 

[Deleted member 15737]

I wasn’t born right

 

[Deleted member 20659]

ricecel

Yeah

 

[Deleted member 23712]

Yeah

I swear rice parents setting their kids up for failure seems to be a common denominator with all of us

 

[Deleted member 20659]

Lol I meant to say no, im not a ricecel. fuck, my brain is deteriorating

common

 

[Norton]

I'm not rice. I watched anime though, and it had some influence on me. Anime characters tend to act very cucked and repressed.

 

[Deleted member 20659]

Im mixed race, hispanic and white blood

 

[Deleted member 23712]

I'm not rice. I watched anime though, and it had some influence on me. Anime characters tend to act very cucked and repressed.

Wouldn’t know jackshit about anime but rice culture is like that

 

[Indari]

same bro. only hope is cope

 

[FinnCel]

I wasn’t born right

Me neither man

 

[Deleted member 23656]

I wasn’t born right

This guy gets it

 

[Yerberito]

I wasn’t born right

 

[Ellsworth]

take a number kid

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

I wasn’t born right

 

[Words2_live_bye]

Conflict avoidance is so very beta.
I hate myself for being this way, and I hate my parents for having raised me in a way that gave me little room to become a different kind of person.

Mom fucked me up with how she raised me. Yet she claims to have been a good mother. You know what would show her being a good mother?
HER SON NOT BEING A SOCIAL OUTCAST AND HATED BY SOCIETY. I WOULD ACTUALLY BE SUCCESSFUL RIGHT NOW.

 

[Deleted member 20659]

I WOULD ACTUALLY BE SUCCESSFUL RIGHT NOW.

Same. I had so much potential

 

[Capable_Onion]

Mom fucked me up with how she raised me. Yet she claims to have been a good mother. You know what would show her being a good mother?
HER SON NOT BEING A SOCIAL OUTCAST AND HATED BY SOCIETY. I WOULD ACTUALLY BE SUCCESSFUL RIGHT NOW.

I get you man, if it wasn't for the way my parent's raised me I wouldn't be nearly as isolated as I am now.

 

[Deleted member 14577]

same tbh, i think my parents were a big factor in me being such a retard socially. they never encouraged me to be social and when i was they would discourage from hanging out with other kids because they would be a bad influence or whatever the fuck, to be fair most of them were degenerates but being a shut-in is a way worse influence.

 

[JohnDcel]

My parents had a big role in ruining my social development too, I hated socializing since my first year in elementary school. Teachers warned my parents about that many times but they didn't care.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

Yup, my parents focused too much on basic bluepill garbage. retarded boomers

 

[Deleted member 12273]

My mother repressed and was overly moralistic with me as a kid so i wouldnt be violent and wasnt able to play with other boys, i ended up an outcast most of the time, that fucked up my social development. The result is that i am a total sperg, cant interact with others properly, am high inhib and polite IRL but also with fucked up fantasies and antisocial tendencies, extremely alienating. I also have physical symptoms resulting from this for example I might start shaking or crying in certain social situations where it isnt at all appropriate because of my fucked up socialization

I had this college work to do which consisted of interviewing some people. Then I had to talk to a 8/10 blonde and started fucking crying with no reason ( just because I tried to look into her eyes to not seem so autistic ). Man .... I know the feels.

 

[Deleted member 818]

I'm messed up in the head.

 

[Norton]

Mom fucked me up with how she raised me. Yet she claims to have been a good mother. You know what would show her being a good mother?
HER SON NOT BEING A SOCIAL OUTCAST AND HATED BY SOCIETY. I WOULD ACTUALLY BE SUCCESSFUL RIGHT NOW.

Same. I had so much potential

My parents had a big role in ruining my social development too, I hated socializing since my first year in elementary school. Teachers warned my parents about that many times but they didn't care.

Careful boyos. I'm not saying that you're wrong, but you need to keep having some perspective, consider lookstheory.
Better looking kids generally have an easier time, because other kids tend to treat them better automatically.
It's very true that parents are responsible for social problems.
Someone can end up like Monday Chad.
But most of us are unattractive, and you know the video experiements of attractive vs unattractive people with same behavior.

Definitely it makes sense to be angry at parents for messing us up, but it's important to remember that development is not 100% in parents' hands either.
Please don't view my reply as an attack on how you feel about it.

 

[Words2_live_bye]

Careful boyos. I'm not saying that you're wrong, but you need to keep having some perspective, consider lookstheory.
Better looking kids generally have an easier time, because other kids tend to treat them better automatically.
It's very true that parents are responsible for social problems.
Someone can end up like Monday Chad.
But most of us are unattractive, and you know the video experiements of attractive vs unattractive people with same behavior.

Definitely it makes sense to be angry at parents for messing us up, but it's important to remember that development is not 100% in parents' hands either.
Please don't view my reply as an attack on how you feel about it.

No, definitely. The more attractive you are the more likely you are to have friends, social experience etc.
I was pretty normal looking as a kid. But progressively got worse in looks

 

[Murdoch89]

I wish my parents were more liberal and took me on holidays once a year rather than taking me to church every Sunday morning

 

[JohnDcel]

Careful boyos. I'm not saying that you're wrong, but you need to keep having some perspective, consider lookstheory.
Better looking kids generally have an easier time, because other kids tend to treat them better automatically.
It's very true that parents are responsible for social problems.
Someone can end up like Monday Chad.
But most of us are unattractive, and you know the video experiements of attractive vs unattractive people with same behavior.

Definitely it makes sense to be angry at parents for messing us up, but it's important to remember that development is not 100% in parents' hands either.
Please don't view my reply as an attack on how you feel about it.

Parents are absolutely crucial for a healthy NT development, no matter of your looks level. Ugly guys in school who get friends have parents that didn't isolate them and therefore they learned how to behave and deal around people. Being treated differently for your looks and not knowing how to act around people are two different things, having parents that prefer to have you rot in front of a screen rather than outside socializing also make you way less independent as individual.
In my specific case, I'm probably an undiagnosed autist/asperger, and that kind of parents just made things worse.

 

[Norton]

Parents are absolutely crucial for a healthy NT development, no matter of your looks level. Ugly guys in school who get friends have parents that didn't isolate them and therefore they learned how to behave and deal around people. Being treated differently for your looks and not knowing how to act around people are two different things, having parents that prefer to have you rot in front of a screen rather than outside socializing also make you way less independent as individual.
In my specific case, I'm probably an undiagnosed autist/asperger, and that kind of parents just made things worse.

Yes man. That's what I'm saying.
I'm just warning against giving parents 100% of the blame.

 

[Invalidusername]

people treat me like a loser

 

[Deleted member 24081]

I’m autistic so I was automatically a failure at socialisation

 

[Deleted member 16624]

I had to learn how to interact with others at 10
It was the most difficult thing

 

[Numb]

Contrary to popular belief. Those little social "differences" between some DT chad and an incel are genetic. They are based on pathways located near the frontal lobe

 

[Deleted member 20659]

They are based on pathways located near the frontal lobe

Proof?

 

[Numb]

Proof?

There's a whole psychology today article on dark triad i think. Will post here if I find it

 

[PPEcel]

I am trash

 

[Saigon Depression]

I am trash

So am I