SuicideFuel I want a gf so fucking bad.

[K.Y.Vocel]

This is how I look at it. I'm not trying to pretend I'm some MGTOW "monk" coper who has evolved past his male sex drive. I'm just saying the fantasy for most of us will never be the reality.

The closest any of us will ever get to a decent "relationship" will be jumping through a thousand hoops every day to get at most a 4/10 fat/ugly/hairy chick we're not even particularly attracted to. For that, we will have to go out on at least 3 "dates" per sexual encounter. Each date will involve you buying her a movie or dinner and trying to keep her interested in you during pointless banter.

If you do fuck her after plying her with alcohol and "playing your cards right" every step of the way, it's likely going to be mediocre because she's not even attractive, and after so many years of being a virgin/incel you don't even know how to do it properly. And you're going to know every day that she can trade you in for a better model just with a few swipes on Tinder. So you're living on thin ice.

I had a dream last night that I was hanging out with this 7/10 22 year old girl I know tangentially at my house, but it wasn't actually my house. It was another house in the countryside, like I woke up inside another life altogether. There was a vague implication in the dream about her getting naked so I could take "modeling pictures" of her.

That's just a fucking dream though. I can't turn off my subconscious. Or my sexuality. I would take that in a heartbeat. But that's never gonna be real. That's not what people like us get. When you look realistically at what people like us get if we put the work in and "ascend", it's not that appealing.

You speak nothing but the truth, but yea i don't wanna end up with a landwhale or a 3/10 with a shit ton of children that has an unstable life and drug addiction

 

[Marquis de Sade]

This is how I look at it. I'm not trying to pretend I'm some MGTOW "monk" coper who has evolved past his male sex drive. I'm just saying the fantasy for most of us will never be the reality.

The closest any of us will ever get to a decent "relationship" will be jumping through a thousand hoops every day to get at most a 4/10 fat/ugly/hairy chick we're not even particularly attracted to. For that, we will have to go out on at least 3 "dates" per sexual encounter. Each date will involve you buying her a movie or dinner and trying to keep her interested in you during pointless banter.

If you do fuck her after plying her with alcohol and "playing your cards right" every step of the way, it's likely going to be mediocre because she's not even attractive, and after so many years of being a virgin/incel you don't even know how to do it properly. And you're going to know every day that she can trade you in for a better model just with a few swipes on Tinder. So you're living on thin ice.

I had a dream last night that I was hanging out with this 7/10 22 year old girl I know tangentially at my house, but it wasn't actually my house. It was another house in the countryside, like I woke up inside another life altogether. There was a vague implication in the dream about her getting naked so I could take "modeling pictures" of her.

That's just a fucking dream though. I can't turn off my subconscious. Or my sexuality. I would take that in a heartbeat. But that's never gonna be real. That's not what people like us get. When you look realistically at what people like us get if we put the work in and "ascend", it's not that appealing.

Your luck. Even in my dreams I'm sexually frustrated. There could be a naked hot foid in front of me but even my dream self for whatever reason is denied sex. Its just one big horrible tease.

 

[AncapFAG]

Gf Is for cucks

 

[Brunchies]

Just masturbate, ignore thots and improve your life. TBH I gave up on trying to get a gf so i focus on myself, no point in trying n failing endlessly ya it fucking sucks but what else are you gonna do.

 

[LastGerman]

Just masturbate, ignore thots and improve your life.

Do not maturbate, ignore thots and improve your life.*

 

[SA incel life]

My standards for a gf:

>not super old
>not super ugly

That's it at this point tbh. I'd even give up the racial thing, I only wouldn't reproduce with a nonwhite.

I'd gladly take my looks- and agematch.

Why not fuck the hookers their in brazil

 

[TomathonClancy]

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After the collapse of western feminine culture with the second wave of feminism, a pure, conservative, and shy white girl is a fantasy creature. Don't trust a single one, especially the nice ones.

 

[Mainländer]

Why not fuck the hookers their in brazil

I do but it's not the same thing. Also I don't have the money to fuck them as much as I'd like.

 

[SA incel life]

I do but it's not the same thing. Also I don't have the money to fuck them as much as I'd like.

Man im a virgin. I never kissed a girl too. I would be cool to make prostitute movies though

 

[Swiswis]

After the collapse of western feminine culture with the second wave of feminism, a pure, conservative, and shy white girl is a fantasy creature. Don't trust a single one, especially the nice ones.

 

[Alone75]

It doesn't matter what we would like or prefer, every femoid is off limits sexually for us incels.

You might get lucky if you're still under 30 and find a non-obese white woman. The cold hard reality is that the competition is intense and most are already in relationships - even the fat facially ugly ones are. They can still find younger/older more attractive guys on dating sites even if they have no job or friends ect.

What can you offer, why would even a fatter ethnic women pick you unless she's desperate and you are rich? She would rather someone of her own race or a younger/older [whatever her preference] white guy with a stable job and more going for him also.

If I was better looking and being as I am, I know for sure I wouldn't have ended up incel for decades now.

 

[EthnicelNL]

I just want a non overweight white girl

Are you ethnic? If so it never began for you.

 

[GeneticDysfunction]

I just see having a partner of any kind as a coping mechanism to distract you from the fact that you are a human, a primate with a touch a swine and alien DNA with a fragile body and a short lifespan living in a hostile environment where being a biologically successful organism means causing suffering to other organisms.

Everything is a distraction from that

 

[IncelDisciple]

Are you ethnic? If so it never began for you.

No I'm not.

 

[Blacktarpill]

but she cares about your looks.

If he is not rich.

 

[VirtueSignaller]

I don't know what's happening to me but I'm actually reaching a point where none of that really means anything to me.

Cuddling at night:
- Gotta keep the bedsheets clean and wash them regularly.
- I'm a shitty sleeper and there's no way I'm gonna sleep if someone's touching me or even breathing next to me.
- Worried about smelling like shit when I wake up
- Seeing how much a man she looks like without fakeup
- Have to go to bed at the same time, can't stay up all night like usual or sleep most of the day

Watch movies:
- I went out with a buddy to go watch a movie recently. I had been going on my own always up to then. I missed being by myself and doing whatever I want whenever I want. I have come to enjoy solo movie watching where the experience is just mine.
- I don't want to watch the types of movies women want to watch. I want violence/action/horror. Women want drama/romance/shit.

Eat at restaurants:
- I don't care about this at all either. I go to restaurants on my own sometimes. Otherwise I like eating at home with some TV or shitposting on the side.

I've got a lot of things I like to do with my time and none would be compatible with a foid. You might say I'm coping. Maybe I am. Maybe I'm wrong about it all. I don't know. But I think when you get so used to living on your own and actually start to find things about it you like, the concept of how normal people live in pairs seems foreign, strange, and disruptive. I don't know if I could do it at this point. I'm so far removed.

The autism is strong in this one.

 

[Juxtaposition6]

Femoids will never truly desire any incel.

 

[Sparrow's Song]

Everything is a distraction from that

Exactly, the only escape is to SufiMysticmax.