Deleted member 17752
20 y/o tourettecel
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What is it with men nowadays? So here's the back story. In college and in my early 20s, I was very open with my sexuality. I did threesomes, BDSM, and even girl on girl sex. During college, I would often hook up with 3-4 guys on some weekends.
Fast forward to today, I just turned 26 a couple months ago and I've been dating my wonderful boyfriend for about 6 months now. He's very different from the men I hooked up with in college, he's more quiet and sensitive instead of loud and aggressive. I think it's a testament to how much I've matured that I'm willing to settle down with a guy like him.
We were having a conversation about our past a few days ago. He told me he had only had 2 sexual partners before me. This was very distressing to me and honestly a huge turn off. I told him a little bit about my past, and I saw something change in him. Ever since he's been very quiet and distant.
He also found out that I had drinks with a guy I used to hook up with in college. We didn't do anything, but he's insecure about it, which is another huge turn off. I've never been as attracted to him as the taller, louder and more muscular guys I hooked up with in college, but he's so kind. Did I do anything wrong? How do I fix this?
Fast forward to today, I just turned 26 a couple months ago and I've been dating my wonderful boyfriend for about 6 months now. He's very different from the men I hooked up with in college, he's more quiet and sensitive instead of loud and aggressive. I think it's a testament to how much I've matured that I'm willing to settle down with a guy like him.
We were having a conversation about our past a few days ago. He told me he had only had 2 sexual partners before me. This was very distressing to me and honestly a huge turn off. I told him a little bit about my past, and I saw something change in him. Ever since he's been very quiet and distant.
He also found out that I had drinks with a guy I used to hook up with in college. We didn't do anything, but he's insecure about it, which is another huge turn off. I've never been as attracted to him as the taller, louder and more muscular guys I hooked up with in college, but he's so kind. Did I do anything wrong? How do I fix this?