Welcome to Incels.is - Involuntary Celibate Forum

Welcome! This is a forum for involuntary celibates: people who lack a significant other. Are you lonely and wish you had someone in your life? You're not alone! Join our forum and talk to people just like you.

I told my mother that she won't ever become a grandmother immediately after she told me that her sister will become one soon

  • Thread starter AutisticMonstrosity
  • Start date
AutisticMonstrosity

AutisticMonstrosity

35 y.o. KHHV dateless, 169 cm skincel autist NEET
★★★★★
Joined
Feb 29, 2020
Posts
4,941
My mother's sister's daughter has been pregnant for a long time and is going to give birth soon and I did not even know this. No-one had bothered to tell me!

My mother's reaction to her never having grandchildren bothers me. I don't remember what she said exactly, but she was like no big deal, does not bother me, I don't want to have grandchildren etc. This was the first time ever we have talked about this. Some say here that their parents have been asking for/about grandchildren, but my parents have never talked about grandchildren. Never in any context or in any manner, not even indirect or implied manner.
 
Last edited:
Parents care less about male offspring breeding because they evolutionary couldn’t even be sure the kid will be theirs.
 
Some say here that their parents have been asking for/about grandchildren, but my parents have never talked about grandchildren. Never in any context or in any manner, not even indirect or implied manner.
You should be glad this is the case for you. Either your parents are somewhat blackpilled, or:
Parents care less about male offspring breeding because they evolutionary couldn’t even be sure the kid will be theirs.
 
Parents care less about male offspring breeding because they evolutionary couldn’t even be sure the kid will be theirs.
my mother does not know whether I am her son? What?
 
You should be glad this is the case for you. Either your parents are somewhat blackpilled, or:
I've never talked about this with my father. My parents have been separated even when I still lived with them (and had to move every week between them for some years). My mother also lives far from me, in a different town completely not near. I only speak to her 0-2 times per month. Haven't talked or seen my father since months.

I am not glad at all about this. I would have wished they would push me to do everything possible to try to continue their lineage, but it seems that they have given up long time ago already. They assessed me as a hopelessly ugly and did not even help pay for my higher studies etc. Didn't care to take me to get treatment to my acne when I was around 9-13 years old or later. So I never got any acne treatment.
 
Last edited:
I've never talked about this with my father. My parents have been separated even when I still lived with them (and had to move every week between them for some years). My mother also lives far from me, in a different town completely not near. I only speak to her 0-2 times per month. Haven't talked or seen my father since months.
Yeah, that might be the real reason they haven't brought it up.
 
If your parents fail to tell you any critical information, it's likely that they view you as a failure because they view it as wasted words. Sometimes the omission of action is the action in itself.
 
I wonder how long it took them to come to that conclusion it usually shows in their parenting.
 

Users who are viewing this thread

shape1
shape2
shape3
shape4
shape5
shape6
Back
Top