I think I've forgotten how to socialise

[Hoppipolla]

I mean, I can still interact with people in a positive, fun way but... I'm so used to keeping my distance from others because they seem always busy that when someone does want to spend time with me I've got no idea what to do, lol

When I was around younger people they were so social, but older people... they've usually hardly ever got 5 minutes for you so I just leave them to it.

 

[GeckoBus]

I mean, I can still interact with people in a positive, fun way but... I'm so used to keeping my distance from others because they seem always busy that when someone does want to spend time with me I've got no idea what to do, lol

When I was around younger people they were so social, but older people... they've usually hardly ever got 5 minutes for you so I just leave them to it.

tbh i have autism so i never knew
like as a child i had this little notebook and spied on people to sus them out
cuz i didnt get

 

[fastnbulbous]

I have almost forgotten how to live tbh

 

[DonezoTheClown]

Yeah it's something people should be warned about, if you go down this route of rotting inside all day, you'll lose any social skills you have.

 

[Lonelyus]

Yeah it's something people should be warned about, if you go down this route of rotting inside all day, you'll lose any social skills you have.

Is there anything outside for an ugly person tho?

 

[Asgard]

Yeah it's something people should be warned about, if you go down this route of rotting inside all day, you'll lose any social skills you have.

I

 

[Asgard]

Is there anything outside for an ugly person tho?

No idea, since you put me on ignore.

 

[timmy]

I can still interact with people in a positive, fun way

 

[DonezoTheClown]

Is there anything outside for an ugly person tho?

Yeah having friends can be nice. Not just for the social interactions and having people to do stuff with but also when times are tough and you need some help. But I wouldn't blame you for rotting inside either.

 

[Hoppipolla]

On the flip side... it is nice not to depend on people.

Like... I feel I can be OK while single or OK without seeing people regularly.

Maybe not totally happy but... OK.

I'd rather not be totally dependent on others for wellbeing because that gives them a lot of power over me doesn't it. I feel like I need to be able to stand up on my own at least if it's necessary.

 

[PolskiKartofel]

I have almost forgotten how to live tbh

 

[slashER]

socialize? what's that? some kind of salad?