Serious I think even just getting a hookup could fix a lot of things for myself

[SupremeAutist]

One of the worst parts of inceldom for me is the feeling of undesirability. We are gatekept from engaging in our biological desires because of our lack of attractiveness. It destroys me mentally knowing how undesirable I am.

Even just getting one shallow hookup would help my life so much. Just being able to know in the back of the mind that at one point I was desirable enough for a woman to wanna have sex with me would help my self esteem and confidence tremendously. Even if it was just from me getting lucky and I never had sex again after that I would still consider that to be an existence infinitely better than inceldom.

It's hard to have any sort of real confidence or self esteem with positive experiences to back it up. Without that it is all just delusion.

 

[AnApparentMyth]

This would work, but at the same time. Don't you want more? Anyone can escortmax and get sex, but that's not what we are actually looking for, is it?

 

[TheGrayWolf]

So basically you're saying having a girlfriend or even a date would be a "confirmation" of your "value" or more accurately, you would feel valued?

This is basically how I think about my situation.

 

[SupremeAutist]

This would work, but at the same time. Don't you want more? Anyone can escortmax and get sex, but that's not what we are actually looking for, is it?

The difference is that it would be genuine. Escortmaxxing wouldn't fix my self esteem from being undesired because it's paid sex.

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

If I got one hookup, it wouldn't be enough. I'd be constantly wondering why it happened in the first place. Was it because of luck or some circumstance? It wouldn't fix my desire for something more.

 

[AnApparentMyth]

The difference is that it would be genuine. Escortmaxxing wouldn't fix my self esteem from being undesired because it's paid sex.

Oh, okay. Then yeah, It would help us all if we could that. But, I don't think we ever will. Sadly, brocel

 

[Ahnfeltia]

Good for you. HOOKUP OR RELATIONSHIP is more likely to materialize than RELATIONSHIP. I can't say the same for myself. If a girl found me sexually attractive but couldn't give a flying fuck about my personality, I'd feel none the better.

 

[SupremeAutist]

So basically you're saying having a girlfriend or even a date would be a "confirmation" of your "value" or more accurately, you would feel valued?

This is basically how I think about my situation.

Yeah exactly and that would translate into helping me in every other aspect of life.

People may argue that we shouldn't let this affect our self worth but that usually comes from people who don't know what it's like to feel undesired and it's not like I can change my brain to not desire this

 

[SupremeAutist]

If I got one hookup, it wouldn't be enough. I'd be constantly wondering why it happened in the first place. Was it because of luck or some circumstance? It wouldn't fix my desire for something more.

It wouldn't fix everything of course and you would still feel the desire for something more but it is infinitely better than being an incel

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

It wouldn't fix everything of course and you would still feel the desire for something more but it is infinitely better than being an incel

Yeah, it would definitely be better—but I think that it would sting in its own way.

 

[ANGER PERSONIFIED]

This destroys my heart. I feel you, bro.

 

[DarkStar]

I've always said this myself

If I got a hookup with just some chubby ltb, it would incentivize me to improve my life

 

[NIGGER BOJANGLES]

If I got one hookup, it wouldn't be enough. I'd be constantly wondering why it happened in the first place. Was it because of luck or some circumstance? It wouldn't fix my desire for something more.

Same, one hookup and then nothing ever again would be a drop in the ocean. I need sex often to actually be satisfied, and I also need a woman who cares about me. Sadly these are impossible when you can't even get a damn hookup

 

[curryboy420]

I don't want hookup I want girlfriend who drives me around and eats restaurants with me and does activities and snuggles at night in cold and gives me massage and then I do hookup in pussy and mouth

 

[omniyx55]

This would work, but at the same time. Don't you want more? Anyone can escortmax and get sex, but that's not what we are actually looking for, is it?

Depends, i only care about sex. If i has consistent access towards escorts i would feel fine its just theyre expensive

 

[notlovejoe]

If a foid wanted me for a one night stand that would give me an inmense lifefuel and probably an std but still