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I really don't understand why I'm so miserable all the time.

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Honestly, being an incel doesn't bother me THAT much. Sure, it makes me really miserable once in a few weeks, but that doesn't last long and I usually can fap those feelings away. I also don't mind having literally no friends cause I actively avoided everybody my whole life. I guess the only thing that kinda bothers me a bit is not having any interests/passions/things that are fun or enjoyable or interesting to me. But that's not that bad.

And yet, I'm super fucking miserable, despite lacking any particular stimuli or events that would make me miserable. I know I've been very depressed for more than a decade, but I kinda think I got over that, the depression sort of became routine and I just kinda forgot about it.

I need to get over this shit fast. This is literally the last summer of my freedom, in 1 year I'll be a wageslave working for $300 a month, if that. I'll be super fucking depressed then and I'll have a good reason, so I need to fucking get my shit together and enjoy my freedom.
 
It is simple, what is there to be happy about?
 
I guess the only thing that kinda bothers me a bit is not having any interests/passions/things that are fun or enjoyable or interesting to me. But that's not that bad.

I know I've been very depressed for more than a decade, but I kinda think I got over that, the depression sort of became routine and I just kinda forgot about it.
Seems self explonary
 
Please don't fap to porn, at best don't fap at all, just have wet dreams.
 
only that which is perfect can fulfill man.Only that which has all that is good and has that goodness in perfection can fulfill man.Till man gets the best he will not be satisfied.A sense of uneasiness will always be with him.Mans emotions are constant rollercoaster and even the highs are never as high as man desires.And what is perfect?simple.that which has all that is good and is eternal.This can only be one being.That which the christian faith calls god.
 
only that which is perfect can fulfill man.Only that which has all that is good and has that goodness in perfection can fulfill man.Till man gets the best he will not be satisfied.A sense of uneasiness will always be with him.Mans emotions are constant rollercoaster and even the highs are never as high as man desires.And what is perfect?simple.that which has all that is good and is eternal.This can only be one being.That which the christian faith calls god.
Yeah, I tried to brainwash myself with religion for a brief period. It doesn't work for me, if I don't experience something real palpable I just get disillusioned and bored and forget about it. I'd need to experience or feel God in some way if I were to believe. This imagining and "faith" stuff just isn't strong or real enough for my easily bored and distracted ass.
 
Honestly, being an incel doesn't bother me THAT much. Sure, it makes me really miserable once in a few weeks, but that doesn't last long and I usually can fap those feelings away. I also don't mind having literally no friends cause I actively avoided everybody my whole life. I guess the only thing that kinda bothers me a bit is not having any interests/passions/things that are fun or enjoyable or interesting to me. But that's not that bad.

And yet, I'm super fucking miserable, despite lacking any particular stimuli or events that would make me miserable. I know I've been very depressed for more than a decade, but I kinda think I got over that, the depression sort of became routine and I just kinda forgot about it.

I need to get over this shit fast. This is literally the last summer of my freedom, in 1 year I'll be a wageslave working for $300 a month, if that. I'll be super fucking depressed then and I'll have a good reason, so I need to fucking get my shit together and enjoy my freedom.

You're a reject, that's why you're in pain. Actual society doesn't really appreciate you or accept and let's you know in a million small and big ways. That's why you are miserable.

Being an incel isn't about sex, any fool with 50 to 100 USD in cash can buy sex. It is about being marked and branded as nonpreferred, unpreferred, unfavoured, least favourite, least liked, least preferred, least favoured, most disapproved of, most disfavored and most disliked in the giant sorting algorithm that is life. That tends to scar a man over time - and proper scars are painful.
 
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Yeah, I tried to brainwash myself with religion for a brief period. It doesn't work for me, if I don't experience something real palpable I just get disillusioned and bored and forget about it. I'd need to experience or feel God in some way if I were to believe. This imagining and "faith" stuff just isn't strong or real enough for my easily bored and distracted ass.
i was an atheist for various years so i think i understand where you are coming from.Most christians (a non practicing christian is no christian at all) come to the faith through an awakening of the awfulness of life on earth(death,betrayal,,disillusionment,*insert here all that is awful about life in our current condition*) and then proceed to go to the church and through mass,liturgy,bible they start to grow "faith".We need to understand that the word faith is usually made fun for it is considered a retarded concept. when people refer to faith,they usually refer to the acceptance of god and his commandments without the necessity of *logical proof*(aquinas 5 ways,anselm ontological argument etc etc).what they don't consider is that In real life this form of knowledge is accepted without thinking twice.When you see australia,you are not making a logical argument arguing for it's necessity in the world,arguing for the necessity of it's shape and size etc etc.you are simply seeing australia with your eyes.In the same manner mans "feels" god and usually does not need to know *logical* proofs to believe that australia exists.God can touch "man".he is immaterial but he isn't non existent.he can have an effect on man without the need for *logical proofs*.Read more on grace if you are interested in how god can have an effect on man that isn't through the 5 senses and through *logical proof*.

I would recommend you to read the gospels,acts and the pauline epistles.Also attend rcia and go to mass.It is good to read on god and it is good to read philosophy but mad is the man who thinks philosophy is needed to reach god(in most cases at least).If you want apologetics i guess you could read the case for christ and trent horn books
(since you love sitcoms and probably also love youtube binging you will probably find trent horn bearable since he has a million videos on youtube all of them facing various issues from the existence of god to catholic dogma.)

if you are unsure you can check my signature.If you need anything i am here.
 
It's simple. Looks X Height = Life Quality
 
Not enough vitamin d
 
Nothing brings me happiness anymore
 
If you're unhappy it means you're life sucks and it's a natural reaction

The funniest part is really how everyone will try to smear you with shit like "entitled" or whatever, clown world
 
You're a reject, that's why you're in pain. Actual society doesn't really appreciate you or accept and let's you know in a million small and big ways. That's why you are miserable.

Being an incel isn't about sex, any fool with 50 to 100 USD in cash can buy sex. It is about being marked and branded as nonpreferred, unpreferred, unfavoured, least favourite, least liked, least preferred, least favoured, most disapproved of, most disfavored and most disliked in the giant sorting algorithm that is life. That tends to scar a man over time - and proper scars are painful.

You always say what I've wanted to say with much greater eloquence. Yes, this right here is what I would say is the source of an incels suffering, an unspoken exile that society has imposed upon the incel through the form of bullying, romantic rejection and ultimately exclusion. Why the fuck would anyone be happy with this?
 

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