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I really don't understand how people cope with having to work. I've literally procrastinated as much as possible my entire life, work is a curse.

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Ever since I was young, I procrastinated to the utmost limit. I'd study for exams just hours before the exam started, I'd do projects as late as possible.

But people seem to cope just fine. Sure, they complain, they indulge in vices etc... but they live just fine. Even on this forum, people may complain and whatnot, but they still get shit done.

I'm very stressed by work however. And by work I mean any task that prevents me from doing what I want to do with my time, which is essentially laying in bed with my laptop.

For example, I'm unemployed right now. All I have to do is spend 4 hours a day at a pointless master's degree, and do some projects and homework a few hours a week. Easy for most people. Hell, colleagues of mine work 8 hours a day on top of this. I, however, am super stressed and am postponing all work until the last moment. I just hate working, it's literally a type of torture for me. I don't know how people do it. For the last 3 days I've been stressed about having to do a few projects this week. They're not hard or anything, I just dreaded the though of having to actually do something, and it ruined my days.
 
I wouldn't mind working if I was getting laid
 
I wouldn't mind working if I was getting laid
Your statement makes me ponder, and I honestly don't know.

Sure, getting laid and being an actual part of society would be different. If I were a happy person, validated by a woman, given affection and sexual release, things would be different.

But I don't know. This ... hate towards work, it's an integral part of me. It's like every fiber of my being hates work, like a vampire hating the sunlight. I don't know if it would be different if I were getting laid.
 
Keeps your mind off your shitty future and current situation

A lot of people cope better with a "mission"

But even the most productive workers hardly work more than 3 real hours of work a day
 
You might want to look into adult ADD, it's a thing and there's treatment for it.
Working shouldn't be so hard if you like what you do.
 
Same with me.Although I could do some physical work for few hours,but learning or preparing some presentations is pure torture
 
I just hate working, it's literally a type of torture for me. I don't know how people do it. For the last 3 days I've been stressed about having to do a few projects this week. They're not hard or anything, I just dreaded the though of having to actually do something, and it ruined my days.

Imagine that work will follow you into your dreams. This is what happened to me. I even have dreams from my first work place. I have to do tasks or I have to go somewhere or I want to leave my workplace... I also have oftem dreams about being at school.
 
Same with me.Although I could do some physical work for few hours,but learning or preparing some presentations is pure torture
It's not learning that's the problem, it's what we are forced to learn. Useless garbage shoved down our throat that has no practical use.
You might want to look into adult ADD, it's a thing and there's treatment for it.
Working shouldn't be so hard if you like what you do.
I don't really like anything, despite trying hard for years to find something I enjoy. So maybe that's the problem. Though I can't imagine liking any type of work.
Keeps your mind off your shitty future and current situation

A lot of people cope better with a "mission"

But even the most productive workers hardly work more than 3 real hours of work a day
3 hours of doing shit you hate and 5 hours hating your life and pretending you're busy while not being able to relax. Isn't life wonderful?

And unfortunately a lot of people have jobs where they're forced to actually work for the whole time they're at work. Not everybody can actually work only 3 hours a day.
Imagine that work will follow you into your dreams. This is what happened to me. I even have dreams from my first work place. I have to do tasks or I have to go somewhere or I want to leave my workplace... I also have oftem dreams about being at school.
I rarely ever dream, so I guess I must be lucky if that's what people dream of.
 
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Working is slavery, never understood how people could withstand it either and I have a low working capacity as well before it starts to affect my mental state.
 
Working is slavery, never understood how people could withstand it either and I have a low working capacity as well before it starts to affect my mental state.
Too bad that to survive in this world you need to work so much. Seriously, just to feed yourself and have a roof over the head, you need a full-time job. It's absurd. I don't even have ambitions or desires that would require money, I basically just want to exist and lay in bed with my laptop, but I still am forced to participate in the system of slavery.
 
Too bad that to survive in this world you need to work so much. Seriously, just to feed yourself and have a roof over the head, you need a full-time job. It's absurd. I don't even have ambitions or desires that would require money, I basically just want to exist and lay in bed with my laptop, but I still am forced to participate in the system of slavery.
That's the main reason people work but I cannot understand how people tolerate rich braggarts who wear more money on their outfit than most people make in a month. I can't tolerate it and I hope they die early painful deaths and want their wealth to be redistributed to people like us who just want basic needs such as shelter and food.
 
That's the main reason people work but I cannot understand how people tolerate rich braggarts who wear more money on their outfit than most people make in a month. I can't tolerate it and I hope they die early painful deaths and want their wealth to be redistributed to people like us who just want basic needs such as shelter and food.
I absolutely despise rich people too. When I walk down the street and I see an expensive car, my thoughts inevitably turn foul.
 
They have things to live for, like family and friends.
 
Ever since I was young, I procrastinated to the utmost limit. I'd study for exams just hours before the exam started, I'd do projects as late as possible.

But people seem to cope just fine. Sure, they complain, they indulge in vices etc... but they live just fine. Even on this forum, people may complain and whatnot, but they still get shit done.

I'm very stressed by work however. And by work I mean any task that prevents me from doing what I want to do with my time, which is essentially laying in bed with my laptop.

For example, I'm unemployed right now. All I have to do is spend 4 hours a day at a pointless master's degree, and do some projects and homework a few hours a week. Easy for most people. Hell, colleagues of mine work 8 hours a day on top of this. I, however, am super stressed and am postponing all work until the last moment. I just hate working, it's literally a type of torture for me. I don't know how people do it. For the last 3 days I've been stressed about having to do a few projects this week. They're not hard or anything, I just dreaded the though of having to actually do something, and it ruined my days.

Academics are different from simple menial tasks, for example I hate studying, the thought of studying again or doing a project or writing an essay makes me feel drained, like doing nothing, I could never go back to further any studies at this point in my life, like ever again, but a simple job like being a cashier (a job I did once) or something, depending on where you are working, is very relaxing, it keeps your mind off of your shitty life, and you get paid to do barely anything at all

When I left university I found myself being happier and less stressed out working, than when I had to do academic work

Also here's the big problem, you are just working for the sake of working, you don't have any end goal, I am working knowing that I am trying to wealthmaxx on the side, and one day never have to work, I am working just in the meantime, you don't have a goal like that, so as far as your brain is concerned, you are just working without end, you are just working for the sake of working, it doesn't lead to anything positive so of course it feels like a drag, being a cashier with that in mind would have been annoying for me too

Your biggest problem is you have no end goal, everyday I wake up I'm somewhat depressed but in the back of my head I have the goal I'm reaching towards, wealthmaxxing and retiring early to SEA and escortcelling my days away, without that goal I'd probably just go jump off a tall building or something lol

TBH I DON'T UNDERSTAND HOW PEOPLE LIKE YOU COPE WITH DOING NOTHING

Work helps me keep my mind off of my current shitty life
Like mylifeistrash said:
Keeps your mind off your shitty future and current situation

I couldn't imagine lying in my bed all day playing games or watching shows, knowing that my life is passing me by and going nowhere, I wouldn't feel relaxed or comfortable enough to do these things
 
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Spend less time on here. I should've been working today but I wasted all day here.
 
I have no future to work for. I can't imagine working to only betabux.
 
I can relate. Things that seem relatively mundane to others are excruciating for me, basic things at that. I got along pretty fine finishing assignments last minute until I went to college and I didn't have people breathing down my neck to do things. I've started working a job in which I can work or not work at any time I want and basically just listen to music while doing menial tasks which isn't so bad. I've been diagnosed with ADD and don't take meds, but that's probably just some made up shit anyway.
 
Well youre fuckedd, work is 10x worse than school

School can be exciting, you learn lots of new stuff, you get to experiment on projects sometimes even pick your own so you can literally work on what interests you

When you start working tho everything you do will be 10x more boring and on top of that you will have to dedicate 8 hours each day to doing it

I barely make it alive from work every day, its soul crushing, when I get home Im just super exhausted not because my work is challenging but because its like doing chores for 8 hours straight, I have 0 interest in what I do at work

Maybe I just need to look for another job tbh
 
just to feed yourself and have a roof over the head, you need a full-time job. It's absurd. I don't even have ambitions or desires that would require money, I basically just want to exist and lay in bed with my laptop, but I still am forced to participate in the system of slavery.
No you don't. Society forces us to work a full time job just to survive it is LEGIT slavery. I don't think any of us really understand how much more we're being forced to work then what is actually required. We are being taken advantage of, take a look at how long hunters and gathers spent working then compare it to modern life heres a tid bit for ya:

Today the average work week is 47 hours, 9.4 hours a day. We're expected to then pay a large portion of it back (or else) in income tax, we also must pay (property tax) for the privilege of living in our own home, then if that all wasn't enough we're taxed with every purchase we make, and to add on all of that we have things like forced car insurance (or else) license plates fees, sticker fees, the list goes on and on. ALL this we MUST pay
(or else)

Let me put it all in comparison for you. Here's a little tid bit on how much we use to spend working (naturally), vs corporate slaves with a billion forced fees.....

Before Western influence changed daily life, Kung men, who live in the Kalahari, hunted from two to two and a half days a week, with an average workweek of fifteen hours. Women gathered for about the same period of time each week. In fact, one day’s work supplied a woman’s family with vegetables for the next three days. Throughout the year both men and women worked for a couple of days, then took a couple off to rest and play games, gossip, plan rituals, and visit. . . . It would appear that the workweek in the old days beats today’s banker’s hours by quite a bit.
This suggests that three hours a day is all that we must spend working for survival. One can imagine that in preindustrial times this pattern would make sense. Life was more whole back then, when “work” blended into family time, religious celebrations, and play. Then came the “labor-saving” Industrial Revolution and the compartmentalization of life into “work” and “nonwork”—with work taking an ever-bigger bite out of the average person’s day.
Hunters and gatherers spent on average 15 hours a week working without any FORCED expenses like tax. FIFTEEN HOURS vs FIFTY, plus all the forced fees...
Academics are different from simple menial tasks, for example I hate studying, the thought of studying again or doing a project or writing an essay makes me feel drained, like doing nothing, I could never go back to further any studies at this point in my life, like ever again, but a simple job like being a cashier (a job I did once) or something, depending on where you are working, is very relaxing, it keeps your mind off of your shitty life, and you get paid to do barely anything at all

When I left university I found myself being happier and less stressed out working, than when I had to do academic work

Also here's the big problem, you are just working for the sake of working, you don't have any end goal, I am working knowing that I am trying to wealthmaxx on the side, and one day never have to work, I am working just in the meantime, you don't have a goal like that, so as far as your brain is concerned, you are just working without end, you are just working for the sake of working, it doesn't lead to anything positive so of course it feels like a drag, being a cashier with that in mind would have been annoying for me too

Your biggest problem is you have no end goal, everyday I wake up I'm somewhat depressed but in the back of my head I have the goal I'm reaching towards, wealthmaxxing and retiring early to SEA and escortcelling my days away, without that goal I'd probably just go jump off a tall building or something lol

TBH I DON'T UNDERSTAND HOW PEOPLE LIKE YOU COPE WITH DOING NOTHING

Work helps me keep my mind off of my current shitty life
Like mylifeistrash said:


I couldn't imagine lying in my bed all day playing games or watching shows, knowing that my life is passing me by and going nowhere, I wouldn't feel relaxed or comfortable enough to do these things
Some of us rather be totally free. You laugh at me but i don't want wealth, i want freedom, i want to be left alone from society, i want peace.
I have land, water barrels, solar panels, shelter, you name it; everything i need for survival. I don't need money anymore.
OR TAXES!!! OR BULLSHIT LAWS!!
See you have a choice, i don't, this society does not allow my kind to exist. I refuse to move from my house because of nonsense laws, and regulations.
My end goal is a life dedicated to spiritual pursuits, think of a monk/hermit/shaman hybrid.

There's more to life than gathering money though you will never see it, unless you take a break from your ego. Most likely you would have to force it gone through drugs but we know you aren't going to do that. You and I are like polar opposites mentally really.

Anyways before you grill me and prove me wrong yada, yada, like you do, i wanted to tell you i took your advice yesterday about not playing by the rules, i forgot how you worded it but it was something like: since we incels are fucked in life why should we play by the rules? anyways, i was left alone with a strangers bag of weed, my old self would of never done it, but thinking of what you said, considering my circumstances in life atm i did it. When he left the room i got out a bud and took that fucker, he won't notice he was drunk as fuck Why not? i have nothing atm, his life is way better than mine, so i did it...
Felt so empowering. Thank you. I cared long enough for nobody to care about me. I broke my own principles and it felt good.
 
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