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I no longer believe life is over at 30

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I used to believe life is completely over after the age of 30, I dont no more.

The thing is, around 30, priority changes and you will be focused on other things. You will likely want to start a family soon, or you have young kids. You are focused on your career, getting a nicer home, maybe some good vacation spot and a small house there, cooler cars, more focused on hobbies and shit-chatting with other men/fathers your age.

We guys in your teens and 20s seem to think that life is one big college or high-school, where theres the "cool kids", bullies and the losers.

The thing is, many guys who I knew were "losers" in their 20s (friends of my older brother), now have big happy families with a good job, great house, planning for vacations, having family dinners, all that shit. They all seem way happier than they did in school.

Thing is tho, you need to get the sex out of your system in college, in your 20s, I believe, cause if u dont, u will always feel like u are left behind, always playing catch-up.


I just think you change priorities as you get past your 20s. My grandfather is 85 years old and he often tells me his best decades were 30s and 40s when he had an established career, family and money while yet being young enough to not be an old crippled man.
 
I hope this to be true. But I will forever want young foids.
 
Life for us is over before we are even born
 
Literally WTF? Have you ever heard about wizardry, OP?
 
I hope this to be true. But I will forever want young foids.

Yes, you do not want an used up hag, ofcourse, as a mother for your kids.

Ideal is to be in your 30s, having a 10 year younger wife with a very low notch count, and have a good stable family with her, and she is super loyal.

IE, very very difficult to find in the west these days.
 
Fakecels & LARPers will get that "release" in their 20s. The rest of us will be truecel virgins for life smh :feelsseriously:
 
My grandfather is 85 years old and he often tells me his best decades were 30s and 40s when he had an established career, family and money while yet being young enough to not be an old crippled man.
What happens in your 30s and 40s if the world you exist in isn't conducive to low status men getting those things anymore?
 
What happens in your 30s and 40s if the world you exist in isn't conducive to low status men getting those things anymore?

Yes, I understand that. You need to be somewhat of a normie, for sure.

Either that, or you get yourself a girlfriend from a country where white-man status is real, given ure from the west that is.
 
All I have to say is one word:

Cope.
 
No, not everything is cope for fuck sake. Its extremely childish and immature to believe "life is over" after 30, normal people dont think like that, they are too busy creating a life, a career, with their kids, families, vacations and enjoying life.
 
Fakecels & LARPers will get that "release" in their 20s. The rest of us will be truecel virgins for life smh :feelsseriously:

I agree. But you still 17 bro, there's hope for you.
 
As a 29 year-old I can only say LOL
 
I agree. But you still 17 bro, there's hope for you.
Doubt it. I'm 5'8" height, 3/10 face, and autistic. I have a better chance at winning the lottery than ascension tbh.... Never began.
 
Im gonna rope before that
 
guys in your teens and 20s seem to think that life is one big college or high-school, where theres the "cool kids", bullies and the losers.

I've seen nothing in adult life that disproves this. There has been a pecking order, gossip and backstabbing in every workplace I've been in. I think what you say is true enough for normies who can flush sex out of their system before settling down, but how many incels are going to ascend, get a body count, then get married, have children and be content with it?

For what it's worth I don't think life is over at 30 (I'm 30 myself), but I largely accept that it might be over for me with women, and I rearrange my copes priorities accordingly. But I understand the mentality that thinks that way.
 
You will likely want to start a family soon, or you have young kids.

You do realize what forum you're posting on, right? Hint: It's not normies.co.

I'm in my late-30s and while life is overall better now than when I was in school, women continue to treat me like I'm the ugliest man ever to exist. I can't even walk down the street around my workplace without cunts having horrified looks on their faces as soon as they see me, followed by them running away from me as fast as possible. Despite other areas of life being perfectly fine, and having good copes like travel and sexdolls, I am fucking MISERABLE and SUICIDAL most of my days because of how unattractive women find me out in the world. If I don't get to escape to an unpopulated area within the next year, I am going to fucking EXPLODE!!! Women are pushing me to my psychological breaking point and it sucks because my life otherwise isn't that bad.
 
Still missed out on teenage love experiences. It's over rover.
 
You're right, it's over way before then.
 
This is only for men with careers, what does a poorcel do? I couldn't even afford a one bedroom apartment above a pizza shop. I live in parents 4 bedroom house in countryside.
 
That could happen but we will be judged for our lack of experiences and it will be held against us time and time again. I move like a robot and had to leave people close to me in all aspects of life behind because I feel their shame and I know they will never be able to help me and I am not expecting them to want to based on test. I’m only 22 and I only have a part time career. :cryfeels: Suicide is expressed in my head every month.
 
Yes, you do not want an used up hag, ofcourse, as a mother for your kids.

Ideal is to be in your 30s, having a 10 year younger wife with a very low notch count, and have a good stable family with her, and she is super loyal.

IE, very very difficult to find in the west these days.
Your best bet is to get that from some 2nd/3rd world slums, deny her internet and have an isolated home after you moneymaxxed.
 
I don't want any fricking kids, that's the most cruel thing an incel can do.
 
i only want copes and swift death :feelsokman:
 
My life ended after middle school tbh. I just exist now
 
My life ended after middle school tbh. I just exist now

But its most wonderful to be liberated from trivialities of life. You should embrace your new founded state of existence and take full advantage of the opportunities it offers you.
 
But its most wonderful to be liberated from trivialities of life. You should embrace your new founded state of existence and take full advantage of the opportunities it offers you.
I'm not saying it's a bad thing. Middle and high school were the worst years of my life. I'm glad I don't have to deal with normoids much anymore.
 
I used to believe life is completely over after the age of 30, I dont no more.

The thing is, around 30, priority changes and you will be focused on other things. You will likely want to start a family soon, or you have young kids. You are focused on your career, getting a nicer home, maybe some good vacation spot and a small house there, cooler cars, more focused on hobbies and shit-chatting with other men/fathers your age.

We guys in your teens and 20s seem to think that life is one big college or high-school, where theres the "cool kids", bullies and the losers.

The thing is, many guys who I knew were "losers" in their 20s (friends of my older brother), now have big happy families with a good job, great house, planning for vacations, having family dinners, all that shit. They all seem way happier than they did in school.

Thing is tho, you need to get the sex out of your system in college, in your 20s, I believe, cause if u dont, u will always feel like u are left behind, always playing catch-up.


I just think you change priorities as you get past your 20s. My grandfather is 85 years old and he often tells me his best decades were 30s and 40s when he had an established career, family and money while yet being young enough to not be an old crippled man.


No one is getting a family. If you do, you'll get divorced + cucked and a huge chance the kids won't even be yours.

Life is over when you start to bald which for most (white) men is their early to mid 20s.
My life ended after middle school tbh. I just exist now

I got bullied in middle school (jr high for americans) endlessly.
In high school they just ignored me.

There were never any good parts of my life. Maybe college but only because I was blue pilled as fuck and thought I would be a pussy slayer.
 
I'm 28 and hate that I'm approaching my thirties. All I ever wanted is a good teenage life and lots of fun, but instead I spent my life rotting in mental illness. I don't care about life after 30, I never wanted it or desired it.
 
Theres no point ascending past teens tbh. before i sued to think if i have enough money for sugeries i will do them. but now i realize why should I? i wont get the youing foids, i wont get the colleghe life, i wont get those teen years back. so i may as well lucid dream and monk max.
 
Theres no point ascending past teens tbh. before i sued to think if i have enough money for sugeries i will do them. but now i realize why should I? i wont get the youing foids, i wont get the colleghe life, i wont get those teen years back. so i may as well lucid dream and monk max.
Motivation to go hard trying to ascend. I have 1.5 years left of my teenage years
 
Well some of you will figure it out, but a lot of you might not. Sure priorities shift to families and careers if you can get those things, but it only gets harder with women the older you get. Think some woman is going to come around and be turned on by some loser who's never been with a woman or had a gf and you're in your 30's?!?! Each year of relatively no dating experience makes you that much more undesirable to women.

I'm nearly 38 so I'm speaking from experience. Don't get me wrong it's not all bad as life is easier as I do have a decent career and money, but things don't change in regards to the woman situation. There's a reason women hate you and I hate to break it to you, but not everybody grows out of this phase or blossoms into a man women want.
 
Well some of you will figure it out, but a lot of you might not. Sure priorities shift to families and careers if you can get those things, but it only gets harder with women the older you get. Think some woman is going to come around and be turned on by some loser who's never been with a woman or had a gf and you're in your 30's?!?! Each year of relatively no dating experience makes you that much more undesirable to women.

I'm nearly 38 so I'm speaking from experience. Don't get me wrong it's not all bad as life is easier as I do have a decent career and money, but things don't change in regards to the woman situation. There's a reason women hate you and I hate to break it to you, but not everybody grows out of this phase or blossoms into a man women want.
yes i am at 26 adn have more than enopugh money to surgery or go to theirdowrld with remote 6 figure job. but its not the same at our ages, we already missed the romance, are mindset is forever changed. We cannot have that disney romance, we cannot get a women who suits our solitary hobbies that have been developed over the decades.
 
This is some major cope. For incels it never even began.
 
I used to believe life is completely over after the age of 30, I dont no more.

The thing is, around 30, priority changes and you will be focused on other things. You will likely want to start a family soon, or you have young kids. You are focused on your career, getting a nicer home, maybe some good vacation spot and a small house there, cooler cars, more focused on hobbies and shit-chatting with other men/fathers your age.

We guys in your teens and 20s seem to think that life is one big college or high-school, where theres the "cool kids", bullies and the losers.

The thing is, many guys who I knew were "losers" in their 20s (friends of my older brother), now have big happy families with a good job, great house, planning for vacations, having family dinners, all that shit. They all seem way happier than they did in school.

Thing is tho, you need to get the sex out of your system in college, in your 20s, I believe, cause if u dont, u will always feel like u are left behind, always playing catch-up.


I just think you change priorities as you get past your 20s. My grandfather is 85 years old and he often tells me his best decades were 30s and 40s when he had an established career, family and money while yet being young enough to not be an old crippled man.
you are using a 85 year old as any example for now... jfl. nigger im almost 36 and it is getting worse
 
life is only downhill after you're born.
 
Nothing really awaits me but more wageslaving for a couple of decades more. I don't look forward to my 30s at all.
 
At 32 I've become really good at coping. I'm on all kinds of pills, SSRI for my depression, adderall for my adhd. The doses just keep going up and up. Also smoking weed helps. My porn preferences are sick as fuck. If you aren't taking pills you aren't coping right.
 
Thing is tho, you need to get the sex out of your system in college, in your 20s,
Teehee just be promiscuous, party, use drugs, enjoy life and experience adventures teehee, throw away your prime fertility time and then settle in 30s tehee.
How come people 100 years ago that married at age of 20 didn't need to get "sex out of their system" and their marriages lasted until the end?
With that mindset you are promoting and encouraging the current state of hypergamy, inceldom and degenerate society that creates divorces, family courts and destroys the family unit which eventually leads to hyper sexualization and fetishization so you get tons of faggots and trannies going around and kids being put on puberty blockers. Just because your boomer relatives could fuck looksmatches and could enjoy the first stages of decaying society it doesn't mean that actions of their generation didn't contribute to this state today.
 
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This kind of life sounds extremely boring to me ngl ( not gonna lie )
 
No, not everything is cope for fuck sake. Its extremely childish and immature to believe "life is over" after 30, normal people dont think like that, they are too busy creating a life, a career, with their kids, families, vacations and enjoying life.
We aren’t normal people. 90% of people have sex and relationships before they leave highschool. Another 5% start in college. I’m past highschool age, I’m past college age, never had a kiss, never had a real friend, been rejected over 40 times. My health is as bad as a 65 year old, I have arthritis in all my joints and autoimmune disease.

Life isn’t over after 30, for some of us we never even began living.
 
Those friends have roasted wives, slut daughters and cucked sons.
For me that’s a nightmare, idk man.
knowing you are third to normies and Chad, both using your women and bullying your heir.
 
The thing is, many guys who I knew were "losers" in their 20s (friends of my older brother), now have big happy families with a good job, great house, planning for vacations, having family dinners, all that shit. They all seem way happier than they did in school.

They're late-bloomers, some guys dont bloom.
 

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