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Inceljoe
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I used to believe life is completely over after the age of 30, I dont no more.
The thing is, around 30, priority changes and you will be focused on other things. You will likely want to start a family soon, or you have young kids. You are focused on your career, getting a nicer home, maybe some good vacation spot and a small house there, cooler cars, more focused on hobbies and shit-chatting with other men/fathers your age.
We guys in your teens and 20s seem to think that life is one big college or high-school, where theres the "cool kids", bullies and the losers.
The thing is, many guys who I knew were "losers" in their 20s (friends of my older brother), now have big happy families with a good job, great house, planning for vacations, having family dinners, all that shit. They all seem way happier than they did in school.
Thing is tho, you need to get the sex out of your system in college, in your 20s, I believe, cause if u dont, u will always feel like u are left behind, always playing catch-up.
I just think you change priorities as you get past your 20s. My grandfather is 85 years old and he often tells me his best decades were 30s and 40s when he had an established career, family and money while yet being young enough to not be an old crippled man.
The thing is, around 30, priority changes and you will be focused on other things. You will likely want to start a family soon, or you have young kids. You are focused on your career, getting a nicer home, maybe some good vacation spot and a small house there, cooler cars, more focused on hobbies and shit-chatting with other men/fathers your age.
We guys in your teens and 20s seem to think that life is one big college or high-school, where theres the "cool kids", bullies and the losers.
The thing is, many guys who I knew were "losers" in their 20s (friends of my older brother), now have big happy families with a good job, great house, planning for vacations, having family dinners, all that shit. They all seem way happier than they did in school.
Thing is tho, you need to get the sex out of your system in college, in your 20s, I believe, cause if u dont, u will always feel like u are left behind, always playing catch-up.
I just think you change priorities as you get past your 20s. My grandfather is 85 years old and he often tells me his best decades were 30s and 40s when he had an established career, family and money while yet being young enough to not be an old crippled man.